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FORMER GIRLFRIEND

Waterloo, IL

#87 Jul 31, 2008
make them stop
FORMER GIRLFRIEND

Waterloo, IL

#88 Jul 31, 2008
my boloney has a first name
FORMER GIRLFRIEND

Waterloo, IL

#89 Jul 31, 2008
In today's society it is hard to find a good doctor. One that is compasionate about his/her trade, friendly and understanding, and ALWAYS willing to go above and beyond their call of duty. Someone who does everything in their power to make your child feel safe and comfortable, while trying to figure out the best possible plan of action for whatever may be going on with your child.
As a mother I have personally had to search to find a doctor that met all of the needs and expectations I have had as a mother. As a young mother, it has been difficult to juggle school, work, family obligations and so much more. But as a mother, I have come to the conclusion that the day my child was born, I became a stong independant person ready and willing to take on any task necessary for my child. This included completely putting all of my personal, selfish needs LAST to whatever was in my child's best interest. But suprisingly, other mothers do not feel the way that I do, as they put their own needs first. For example, making inappropriate advances towards their child's pediatrician. On a daily basis these women make passes, send emails or ask staff memeber personal information about the doctor. This makes the whole environment uncomfortable for everyone involved. The staff, the doctor, and their child. Where in the world is that appropriate? I guess it is the same people that think it is appropriate to lie to not only their husband, but whom ever is unlucky enough to fall for the pity-party story givin. Then cheat on their husband and expect more pity from the WHOLE TOWN for the fact of the bad decisions and mental instablity that lies within her. All the while her children suffer because they have now lost a father to divorce, a mother in being selfish, and a pediatrician that actually cared. So, at some point in time, people need to realize what is the most important thing in their life... Their CHILDREN. It's a shame that those people do not see that, and instead waste their time being selfish and worrying about what others are doing, and how they can sabotage someone's good name for the simple fact that they were played like a fool.
So all of you out there that are worried about those young mothers, this one is more than ok. Anyone that feels taken advantage of, should look at what they have started and the repercussions of their OWN actions. So mind your own and go on your way
MushyMushy

Saint Louis, MO

#90 Jul 31, 2008
This whole thread is hilarious! Bickering back and forth over a man. Just plain a$$ stupid. You all know that he's loving the attention don't ya? Wise up.
jackie

Waterloo, IL

#91 Jul 31, 2008
I'm sure he has much better things to do than worry about a catfight on this site. If nothing else, he's busy chasing the next skirt since he's done with this one. is she were really over it, she'd not be wasting her time and energy here.
Rachel the real former gf

Waterloo, IL

#92 Jul 31, 2008
Since you all think its so funny to use the name i was using, to bash me unrelentlessly, to try and nail me into the ground. you win. this is my real name. this is me. you all win. i'm probably the youngest one on here and its fun to pick on the little guy. you have all brought me into somehting i had no part of. why does it feel good to you? were you the people in highschool that made fun of everyone? im back into this childish world with the whole town over being an exgirlfriend. yes, it is getting to me, yes it makes me cry. yes it hurts, yes i have wasted my time and energy on it.. i thought if i defended myself i would feel better, i do not. you people have made me just as insecure as i did in school. gang up on me, pick on me, make fun of me call me names, keep going. who can't let it go? you wont stop until i've lost my mind?? i didn't start this, i came on as former girlfriend and now look what you people are doing. you're all married with familys, with such busy wonderful lives. i'm not, i'm just me and my daughter. i'm struggling to make it on my own and now i have the whole town ganging up on me, because i'm the ex, becuase you all think i started this. well i didn't. but you have all made it very clear just what your lives involve. bashing me. leave me alone. god damn it leave me out of this, its hard enough being the idiot he was cheating on, it was hard enough leaving the job. now you all CAN'T let me move on because of this crap. what more do you want from me, do you want me to crack more?? you want to see me cry? well here you go, i hope my tears help you sleep at night, i hope it helps you teach your children how to treat people, i hope it makes you feel good inside
Morons Unite

Waterloo, IL

#93 Jul 31, 2008
You are all f*ckin idiots. I am the one that made the "horrible mistake". I have "former girlfriend" on my mind. I typed it by mistake.I just don't understand how a few people can keep bashing her, unless you are the same idots. I thought that she was being treated so shitty. big f*ckin deal
If you cant tell that all of my posts match the "moron" posts then you really are the biggest idiots. remembr how you are all on here crying about the poor doc can be allowed to make mistakes? and you want him forgiven. Well I made a mistake are you true enough adults to your words that it all happens to everyone and forgive me?
Here is the difference, I don't give a f*ck if you forgive me or not.
So I will go ahead and group myself in with the rest of you morons. Does that make everyone happy? At least I am not to much of a pu$$y that I cant own up to my mistakes. How about the rest of you? How bout it doc? How bout it, docs newest conquest or any of you other stupid f*cks that want to run your mouths off.
I will also go ahead and tell you that I am Julie Suzanne Smitts. There, what do you want to do about it bithes? If you think that I am shuttering with fear from anyone of you, you better think again. If you are all such bad asses and you get a woody bashing some young girl come on over and tell me and my friends. We will see just how smart mouthed you will be.
You need to leave her alone. Since you are all supposedly much better people than she is, take your own advise and get the f*ck out.
Rachel the real former gf

Waterloo, IL

#94 Jul 31, 2008
joe, we all know you copied and pasted the message that i left when someone else was posting things about you. yes i defended you, remember we lived together, and i believed all of your lies. i defended you because i loved you (like a fool) are you happy? does that make you feel good that at one time i put nice things about you, you can go on and use the name i was using, try and make me look crazy.. but NO i dont love you anymore. i didn't start this shit joe, see, i'm using my real name now, can u do the same, surely not. really though how old are you? you have so many better things to do then go back on old post and use my name over and over again? what exactly did i do for u to start this? i told natasha the truth about us.. because i'm sure you did not. and now all of this is going on? and you tell me to grow up? go spend time wiht your new family, stop bashing me. let me move on
Morons Unite

Waterloo, IL

#95 Jul 31, 2008
How many times can I say it in one day you are all f*cking morons. Someone tried to "inform" you things that SHOULD MATTER when it comes to your kids and you all turn it around and start bashing a little girl.
It is not a cat fight you stupid pieces of sh*t I wish that you would NOT have been told then when the shit hits the fan with this useless trash heap you can all start crying to each other but just know in the back of your stupid pea brains that you should have been better parents and not had your heads up his ass.
You people are the reason all of these kids are really stupid these days. You give them free reign, too afraid to discipline them, give them everything they want because you are to afraid to be the "parent" you all want to be their "friend" they don't need another friend they need a f*cking parent that has the balls to actually be one. Your idiot kids come out of school and can't even read or write. It is just dreamy that those little morons are the future. good job moms and dads good f*cking job
For the pr*ck that wants to run an imaginary post making her look bad you are such a big man. You really need to learn your words better though.
"I sorry" hey doc do you like talking baby talk or do you carry it all the way? with shitting in your diapers, oh, wait I mean "pooping" that is another of your favorite words right?
sucking you mama's tit, and talking baby talk?
You do have access to all the supplies right?
Oh my oh my that is all so attractive I just want to throw myself at him hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha you stupid freak, I would rather throw myself in front of a train that to get near you.
It's 7pm do you know where all of your idiot children are? for that matter your wives or husbands? oh wait maybe they are all in the hot tub together maybe all of you are just a big cluster f*ck with each other. That sounds fun too. I guess you all just pass around skanky diseases to each other.
not affraid to say

Waterloo, IL

#96 Jul 31, 2008
You go girl. Now that is the way to handle that sh@%! People keep bashing you honey because they have selfesteem issues so by bad mouthing you it makes them feel complet in some odd way. Do you think that maybe he isnt over you and that is why he persist? Remember how when you were younger and a boy would pick at you because he liked you? Same thing here. He picks at you like a child because he likes you..... and maybe he is one at heart. Dont worry though. He has to deal with the truth not you. More than likely he sits there day after day worrying about all of this and thinking about you and what you had and then comparing it to his new "love". Oh and im sure he doesnt consider them family. Just a temp until the next best thing in his eyes.
not affraid to say

Waterloo, IL

#97 Jul 31, 2008
It's 7pm do you know where all of your idiot children are? for that matter your wives or husbands? oh wait maybe they are all in the hot tub together maybe all of you are just a big cluster f*ck with each other. That sounds fun too. I guess you all just pass around skanky diseases to each other.

That's some funny shit there!

I wouldnt say you people though. Not everyone is alike. I discipline my children very well and they sure as heck don't get everything they want. Not all children are morons. Don't bring other peoples children into yhis it's just not right.
Got what you deserved

Waterloo, IL

#98 Jul 31, 2008
"Front Yard Fight Leads To Felony Charges
A physical altercation last Saturday night in Columbia led to one arrest. A dispute between Jeffery Woldanski and Dr. Joseph Cangas led to the arrest, according to State’s Attorney Kris Reitz. Woldanski, who lives on South Rapp Street in Columbia, has been charged with a felony count of home invasion and misdemeanor battery. If convicted, the felony charge carries a six-year prison sentence.

The initial report is Woldanski, 32, went to the home of Dr. Cangas at 209 Heritage Heights. He forced himself inside and began to batter the homeowner. The altercation continued onto the front lawn where neighbors reported seeing Woldanski violently kick Cangas several times.

“They rolled around the ground fighting,” said one neighbor.

Officers from the Columbia Police Department arrived on the scene at 10:40 p.m., but Woldanski had left the scene prior to their arrival. Cangas was transported to a hospital for his injuries.

Woldanski was located by Columbia detectives at 5 a.m. the next morning and taken into custody. He was transported to a hospital and treated for a broken bone in his hand. After being treated, Woldanski was taken to the Monroe County Jail and booked. He was released after posting bail of $20,000.

Woldanski is scheduled to make an appearance before Circuit Judge Dennis Doyle on Feb. 7, at 9 a.m., at the Monroe County Courthouse."
Got what you deserved

Waterloo, IL

#99 Jul 31, 2008
Now thats a good man!
not affraid to say

Waterloo, IL

#100 Jul 31, 2008
holy sh$t!
not affraid to say

Waterloo, IL

#101 Jul 31, 2008
So what caused him to do all that? Was it that the doc. was messn around with woldanskis wife? WOW! I cant believe that. There are no real words. Im shocked.
Bunch O Bull

Waterloo, IL

#102 Jul 31, 2008
Rachel the real former gf wrote:
Since you all think its so funny to use the name i was using, to bash me unrelentlessly, to try and nail me into the ground. you win. this is my real name. this is me. you all win. i'm probably the youngest one on here and its fun to pick on the little guy. you have all brought me into somehting i had no part of. why does it feel good to you? were you the people in highschool that made fun of everyone? im back into this childish world with the whole town over being an exgirlfriend. yes, it is getting to me, yes it makes me cry. yes it hurts, yes i have wasted my time and energy on it.. i thought if i defended myself i would feel better, i do not. you people have made me just as insecure as i did in school. gang up on me, pick on me, make fun of me call me names, keep going. who can't let it go? you wont stop until i've lost my mind?? i didn't start this, i came on as former girlfriend and now look what you people are doing. you're all married with familys, with such busy wonderful lives. i'm not, i'm just me and my daughter. i'm struggling to make it on my own and now i have the whole town ganging up on me, because i'm the ex, becuase you all think i started this. well i didn't. but you have all made it very clear just what your lives involve. bashing me. leave me alone. god damn it leave me out of this, its hard enough being the idiot he was cheating on, it was hard enough leaving the job. now you all CAN'T let me move on because of this crap. what more do you want from me, do you want me to crack more?? you want to see me cry? well here you go, i hope my tears help you sleep at night, i hope it helps you teach your children how to treat people, i hope it makes you feel good inside
You know what sweetie? I apologize - I thought it was you making stupid comments before but obviously someone else was using your name. This post was one of the most honest, heartfelt things I have read in a LONG time and you have my respect. Yeah, your ex may have been an ass (I've been with one of those) but I still like him as a doctor for my children. He was recommended to me, and I will continue to take my kids there. I'm done with this ridiculous forum; when I moved to this area from a different small town in IL I was hoping that I would leave the drama behind, since this is almost St. Louis. No such luck! In fact, I'm finding the bickering here to be much, much worse, and after tonight I am DONE with Topix... I originally came across it when I was doing a Google search for a local news story, and I wish I never had. Good luck to you in your child. Don't let a dead-weight ex ruin your life. You're young & have a lot going for you. There's a reason for lousy exes - they make us appreciate the GOOD one that eventually makes it into our lives!
not affraid to say

Waterloo, IL

#103 Jul 31, 2008
Bunch O Bull wrote:
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You know what sweetie? I apologize - I thought it was you making stupid comments before but obviously someone else was using your name. This post was one of the most honest, heartfelt things I have read in a LONG time and you have my respect. Yeah, your ex may have been an ass (I've been with one of those) but I still like him as a doctor for my children. He was recommended to me, and I will continue to take my kids there. I'm done with this ridiculous forum; when I moved to this area from a different small town in IL I was hoping that I would leave the drama behind, since this is almost St. Louis. No such luck! In fact, I'm finding the bickering here to be much, much worse, and after tonight I am DONE with Topix... I originally came across it when I was doing a Google search for a local news story, and I wish I never had. Good luck to you in your child. Don't let a dead-weight ex ruin your life. You're young & have a lot going for you. There's a reason for lousy exes - they make us appreciate the GOOD one that eventually makes it into our lives!
AMEN!! You said it. She is putting her heart out there for us all to see and people are stepping all over this poor girl.

I respect you just as well. I to am a single mother of 3 and its not easy at all. I bet that you are one heck of a woman. Bravo. You do your thing girl. Its hard for us single mothers and its hard to find an honest man that will take you both in and treat your daughter as his own. It will all happen someday for you and I pray that it does. Its not easy supporting a child on your own in todays economy. Once more i respect you and love that your not affraid to put it all out there. Your a brave soul and god bless you.
Got what you deserved

Waterloo, IL

#104 Jul 31, 2008
not affraid to say wrote:
It's 7pm do you know where all of your idiot children are? for that matter your wives or husbands? oh wait maybe they are all in the hot tub together maybe all of you are just a big cluster f*ck with each other. That sounds fun too. I guess you all just pass around skanky diseases to each other.
That's some funny shit there!
I wouldnt say you people though. Not everyone is alike. I discipline my children very well and they sure as heck don't get everything they want. Not all children are morons. Don't bring other peoples children into yhis it's just not right.
"not afraid to say it" I do apologize to you and your children, truly. I will also apologize to any one on here that is NOT bashing this young girl. I honestly mean that. To those that are innocent I do apologize to you and your children. That was unfair of me to clump "everyone" together. The ones that are doing all of this know what I am talking about and they are worthless and it will come back to haunt them. I am just boiling over at the way these people are acting and treating her. I am furious and I should have slowed down and took a breath. I do have to remember that they are all followers. One of them says something and the other idiots fall in behind that person and run with it. They don't have a voice of their own. I can't speak for you but I bet you stepped up for kids in school that were being picked on. I know that I did and all of those follows took off the other way. They were nothing without someone spearheading the whole thing.

Your children are extremely lucky that you are watching out for their own good. More parents, namely those on here bashing this girl, need to take your lead and actually care. Not because someone cleaned the toilets there and made them bright and shiney. You are smart enough to have your eyes wide open when it comes to your children and many more here need to learn from that.
Now if you will except my apology I would feel much better. Get with me sometime, NOT AROUND THE IDIOTS here, and I will tell you all about the "hot tub" stories (true) and those that are stupid enough to belong to that sleazy little "secret" club.
I would also like to say thank you, for being kind enough, honest enough to speak up, and not afraid to stand up for "the little guy" that is being beat up by the big bullies that hide behind doors and computers. I do guess though that I better change that to "little girl", although it was just a saying, you know, showing how school kids act,just as these big "grown up people" are doing. Before the doc gets his panties in an uproar, no there is no "little guy" involved, take it easy doc, calm down, you don't have to get your slander card out.
Again I am sorry.

Later
Now I am the moron

Waterloo, IL

#105 Jul 31, 2008
That was supposed to be "got what I deserved" shit I need to go to bed. too many words floating around my head. I have to go take a chill pill and relax

Since: Jul 08

Montvale, NJ

#106 Aug 6, 2008
Joseph E. Cangas, MD
Instructor in Clinical Pediatrics, WUSM
Specialty: General Pediatrics
Education/Training:

Pediatric residency, University of Missouri, Columbia, MO
Medical degree, University of Illinois College of Medicine, Peoria, IL

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