Searching For Birth Parents

Searching For Birth Parents

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Jesse Beeson

United States

#1 Sep 19, 2010
Hello my name is Jesse, I'm a 18 year old girl living in Kansas. I am searching for my birth parents. The information I know is that I was born in Coffeyville and adopted at birth. There was no adoption agency involved apparently. If you have any information please contact me by email. [email protected] . Please if you have any info contact me, I want to know where I came from.
Nutty

Pratt, KS

#2 Sep 20, 2010
Jesse: Maybe more information would help. Is Jesse your birth name? Do your adopted parents have any information? What is your birth date? Do you have any friends here? What is your age and do you have any idea where you were born, Coffeyville hospital, home ect; It is hard to find someone with out any information. Good luck! Hope you find them.
eyewittness2010

United States

#3 Sep 20, 2010
jesse, give us more info. i have lived all my life in cville and know alot of people there. hope u post more info there is ways to find out what u need to know.
Jesse Beeson

United States

#4 Sep 20, 2010
My adoptive parents don't claim to remember much of anything about my birth parents. I was born at Coffeyville hospital on August 4, 1992. Jesse is the name my adoptive parents named me. I don't know anyone in Coffeyville. I know that's not much info but that's all I have. No one seems to remember any more details then that. As I said before it was not an adoption made through an agency. It was a strait from birth adoption. The birth certificate is in my adoptive parents name. Oh and I was small for a baby, I had to wear cabage patch kids clothes for quite some time.
Lil ol me

Wichita, KS

#5 Sep 20, 2010
Being the adoptive parent of a child I can tell you this,there had to be an attorney involved in the adoption process. Since no agency was involved it is an open adoption. Your birth parents would have had to sign their rights over to you, and your adoptive parents would have had to go to court for the adoption to be granted. Since the adoption is open I would think that there are some sort of court records that may have some information for you. Good luck with your search.
Jesse Beeson

United States

#6 Sep 20, 2010
Lil ol me wrote:
Being the adoptive parent of a child I can tell you this,there had to be an attorney involved in the adoption process. Since no agency was involved it is an open adoption. Your birth parents would have had to sign their rights over to you, and your adoptive parents would have had to go to court for the adoption to be granted. Since the adoption is open I would think that there are some sort of court records that may have some information for you. Good luck with your search.
Thank you, I will be writing a letter to a judge to try to get the records.
Concerned in Cville

Austin, TX

#7 Sep 20, 2010
Let us know how this all turns out for you. I wish you luck.
Mike

Coffeyville, KS

#8 Sep 20, 2010
You can also get the live birth records from Coffeyville Regional Medical Center from the day you were born. If there's a way you can see who was admitted to OB that day that should be some usefull information. There weren't many patient privacy laws in 1992 and it was long before the HIPPA laws. Hopefully a judge can give you a court order to get the admit record of that day. It should be easy info to get with a court order. Best of luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for.
eyewittness2010

United States

#9 Sep 20, 2010
GO TO CITY HALL IN COFFEYVILLE MOST ALL COURT RECORDS ARE PUBLIC KNOWLEDGE I KNOW MY WIFE FOUND HER ADOPTIVE PARENTS THAT WAY AND MORE SHE DIDNT WANNA KNOW BUT GOOD LUCK ILL DO SOME SEARCHING FOR U ALSO ON LINE AND SEE WHAT I CAN COME UP WITH GOOD LUCK AND KEEP US POSTED
Observing

Wichita, KS

#10 Sep 20, 2010
Hey everyone, I know your intentions are good and you are trying to help Jesse and my heart goes out to her. But do you not think that there may be a very good reason that the adoptive parents are not giving out much information to her? Such as trying to protect her?
Jesse Beeson

Wichita, KS

#11 Sep 20, 2010
Thanks everyone you've been really helpful. I know the risk that are involved with finding out. But I have to know if not for my own knowledge then for medical. As of now I am talking with my mother about all the info you guys have given us.
eyewittness2010

United States

#12 Sep 21, 2010
Observing wrote:
Hey everyone, I know your intentions are good and you are trying to help Jesse and my heart goes out to her. But do you not think that there may be a very good reason that the adoptive parents are not giving out much information to her? Such as trying to protect her?
?????????? sorry but probably the reason is for medical reasons how would u feel you go into a dr. office and they ask you your medical background . yes she was probably better off in the adoptive family, you have no clue who you are and where you came from i know im in her shoes ...
Lil ol me

Wichita, KS

#13 Sep 21, 2010
She is of age to be able to find out this information. You can't protect a child forever, and since I am the mother of an adopted child, I will tell you that it is much better to be honest with the child and help them than to keep information from them and end up being the bad guy.
Jesse Beeson

Wichita, KS

#14 Sep 21, 2010
I found out who my parents are from my mom. I might be meeting my grandma tomorrow. Thanx everyone
Grace

Coffeyville, KS

#15 Sep 21, 2010
Good Luck Jesse!!!
eyewittness2010

United States

#16 Sep 22, 2010
well let us know who they are and good luck
Cville MOM

Coffeyville, KS

#17 Sep 22, 2010
Please don't take it personal if nothing comes out of your meeting with birth family. God has a way of putting things in order. I know you need and want to know. I know it will be hard even if they do have a relationship with you. Either way, trust your heart. Good Luck
Jesse Beeson

Wichita, KS

#18 Sep 22, 2010
My mother is Charlat Spellins and my father is Boyd. I have a sister named Cherry and a half brother named Ashton. I met my grandmother today, we are so much alike it is freaky. She was absolutely amazing and I feel like I could just fly away.
eyewittness2010

United States

#19 Sep 22, 2010
never heard of that family in cville
eyewittness2010

United States

#20 Sep 22, 2010
what was gmas name ?

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