Domestic troubles end in man's death

Domestic problems that plagued a Grant County couple for nearly two years culminated Saturday night in what could have been a hostage standoff but instead ended in a suicide. Full Story
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289 chismosas

Farmington, NM

#99 Jul 16, 2010
ahaha wrote:
all you people need to get away from the computer and get a damn lifee! ;)
that is all...
you want us to get off why dont u have a life cuz ur on here to!?!!
356 one

Farmington, NM

#102 Jul 17, 2010
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Why Not

Albuquerque, NM

#103 Jul 17, 2010
unemployed wrote:
<quoted text> I think! Hold on let me put my beer down. I wonder what goes thru a persons mind when they decide to shoot themselves? Oh! yeah a bullet! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
We know you are...the retard who gets SSI, so we will just 86 your comment.
Lori

United States

#104 Jul 18, 2010
bet ud like 2 no wrote:
to lori shame on u did u write that just to clear ur consious. did sumthing simalier happen to u was it over shoes or ur lover how do u
like that. mind ur own business n grow up.
Clear my conscious? r u kidding me? My lover? God forgive u...cuz my conscious is clear! This ended up my business...because I was able to talk to both Jayme and Joe Max, even attended a court. That man loved her and was sad for things he had done and specifically said he wanted to change and do better that Jayme and her kids deserved for him to change. Neither of them was perfect, but they were trying to make things work for their family. U see I dont have to hide behind a fake name, I can stand here and say who I am.
Lori

United States

#105 Jul 18, 2010
Reflection of you wrote:
<quoted text>
Have you told your children the truth? How about his son and his daughter? Do these SHOES fit you as well!? Years go by yes, but things will never be forgotten especially those who lost someone who was the victim! Blame is not the issue here, it's TRUTH! Is her life a reflection of yours? Heartache, yes, lots and her poor kids were sent away for some else to console them. Heartache, yes, his mother will cry everyday for the rest of her life after she had pleaded with Jayme to leave Joe alone if she didn't love him or want him. Forgiveness may bring peace when the truth has been spoken and the person is truly sorry!
Our adult children know everything, but you see Reflection of you....what happened in our family I had no part of...I came after the fact...picking up pieces. Paying for something I had nothing to do with. Even now all of these years later I have to hear rumors...and yes thats what they are rumors. God knows and thats all that mattera to me...but you see I did not even know these comments were posted about me until my daughter who is Jaymes friend told me....Mom get online and see the stupid stuff these people are writing. We are still confronted with the stupidest of scenarios....people can make up lies, but forensics dont lie. My heart does go out to his family, his children, that pain never goes away...I know I have seen it in my children...and yes I say my children cuz I have been there all of these years. I could have left, but I didnt I chose to stay through all the horrible things people would say, but you see I dont care what anyone thinks or says behind our back, we are a family and have been for many years. And our family started when we were alone, not any time before then. So get your facts straight. God forgive you! Our family has had very rough times, and noone knows, but us...but God was there...he knows the truth and my husband and I have been great parents and grandparents, with no help from all those who find it soo easy to talk behind our backs. So...yes I stand with my head held high, cuz I have been a very good mother. Jayme will survive, and her children with the help of those who love them and our Lord will heal them. I wish someone would come up to my husband with the rumors of how we got together and what they think happened that horrible night.....of course not, because everyone knows the truth but its easier to hide behind fake names and accusations. So, yes our children the 4 of them know who we are and how we got together and it was not as others say, but you continue living in your own world, cuz you dont matter to us. Our minds are clear, and we sleep well at night. We dont sit thinking we know how others live....we take care of our own. We dont have time and I would not have even responded, but my daughter ( like you wrote His son and daughter) yes that daughter is the one that told me. Consoling???? I have done that, and so much more....and I was nowhere near that nightmare. But God placed me there knowing that we would need eachother during very difficult times for both of us and our children. So...until you can stand with your real name in my face with facts, plz dont make comments about things you dont know. Forensics dont lie!!!!! You do know that autopsies are done in Alb? Truth???God knows the truth and children as small as they are, know more than people can imagine.
Lori

United States

#106 Jul 19, 2010
bet ud like 2 no wrote:
to lori shame on u did u write that just to clear ur consious. did sumthing simalier happen to u was it over shoes or ur lover how do u
like that. mind ur own business n grow up.
You can imagine our surprise ( my daughter included) when we saw rowlett texas??? WOW! But then I have never been given any credit, oh wait a minute....all these years you have not been around like my daughter said...where were they then and where are they now???
Lori

United States

#107 Jul 19, 2010
Reflection of you wrote:
<quoted text>
Have you told your children the truth? How about his son and his daughter? Do these SHOES fit you as well!? Years go by yes, but things will never be forgotten especially those who lost someone who was the victim! Blame is not the issue here, it's TRUTH! Is her life a reflection of yours? Heartache, yes, lots and her poor kids were sent away for some else to console them. Heartache, yes, his mother will cry everyday for the rest of her life after she had pleaded with Jayme to leave Joe alone if she didn't love him or want him. Forgiveness may bring peace when the truth has been spoken and the person is truly sorry!
You can imagine our surprise ( my daughter included) when we saw rowlett texas??? WOW! But then I have never been given any credit, oh wait a minute....all these years you have not been around like my daughter said...where were they then and where are they now??? Plz come tell my husband what you feel face to face. You cant right? You have seen us both face to face....why not say something then? Why hide behind your computer? Dont blame me, every one of you should be thanking me for all I have done! But that would be too much to ask right? It amazes me that after all of these years people can be soo blind. But once again...you dont matter and never have. Our Lord knows our family! God help you!
Why Not

Albuquerque, NM

#108 Jul 19, 2010
Who IS this idiot, and WHAT is she talking about????
Al Reine Jr

Albuquerque, NM

#109 Jul 19, 2010
Veteran wrote:
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Why is it when things don't go you people's way you have to make it about race. If you get your way then you are all happy. Typical attitude of self entitlement. And you have the nerve to talk about ignorance.
I'm sorry..where EXACTLY was a racial comment made????
Al Reine Jr

Albuquerque, NM

#110 Jul 19, 2010
Why Not wrote:
Who IS this idiot, and WHAT is she talking about????
I dunno. But there sure is a lot of rambling there. Does she really expect anyone to read posts that long?
Veteran

El Paso, TX

#111 Jul 19, 2010
Al Reine Jr wrote:
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I'm sorry..where EXACTLY was a racial comment made????
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Which post?
Lori

Scottsdale, AZ

#112 Jul 19, 2010
Why Not wrote:
Who IS this idiot, and WHAT is she talking about????
I am not an idiot I am responding to something that happened over 21 years ago and was thrown at me on these postings. This was for the person that replied to what I wrote...not your concern
Why Not

Albuquerque, NM

#113 Jul 20, 2010
Lori wrote:
<quoted text>
I am not an idiot I am responding to something that happened over 21 years ago and was thrown at me on these postings. This was for the person that replied to what I wrote...not your concern
tELL IT LIKE A STORY SO WE CAN UNDERSTAND.
The Informant

Las Cruces, NM

#114 Jul 20, 2010
Deputy276 wrote:
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Hey nimrod....they named her in the news story. Did you even read the story or just go into huggy-kissy mode immediately?
"Court documents show that Jayme Gutierrez..."
She's not exactly anonymous. You are posting hurtful comments to me. Boo hoo.
Nimrod? You can call me Michael if you like. I know the facts and I know the fakes. Its all opinions and personal thoughts which is actually quite healthy. I may have been a bit off when I said things and I do apologize to those individuals. I stand corrected to some degree.

"As-long-as I can make the last turn-off onto the return-road at the drag-strip, my Corvette is 'handling' JUST fine!!!!!"....Glensgages
Sweetz36

Silver City, NM

#116 Jul 15, 2014
My question is it possible to shoot yourself with a shotgun in the back of your head unless your double jointed in both arms?????

Since: Jul 14

Silver City, NM

#117 Jul 15, 2014
Truth & Justice for Joe Max Gutierrez http://Youtu.be/tyPUE5lyChc
WATCH THIS VIDEO ON YOUTUBE Then decide

Since: Jul 14

Silver City, NM

#118 Jul 15, 2014
Video works if you go to you tube type Truth & Justice For Joe Max Gutierrez
Sweetz36

Silver City, NM

#119 Jul 15, 2014
Watch video on YouTube type in Truth & Justice For Joe Max Gutieerez

Since: Jul 14

Silver City, NM

#120 Jul 15, 2014
Watch video on YouTube type in Truth & Justice for Joe Max Gutierrez

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