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whowhatwhen

United States

#22 Mar 22, 2012
anonymous wrote:
To Who What When let me explain my situation a little better okay...I have ALWAYS worked and I repeat always. I am 38 years old and I singlehandedly raised a wonderful 19 year old daughter WITH NO CHILD SUPPORT OR ASSISTANCE whose father was an abusive alcoholic and cheated on me repeatedly until I had enough and thought whats good for the goose is good for the gander years ago. I started dating my sons father then WHOOPS to my surprise found out he was married. But heard the same song and dance that pretty much every cheating husband says about how miserable they are and how they want a divorce. I was asked to get an abortion and I dont believe in that (every child deserves a chance)! So I left and ended it to save that mans marriage. Oh and I am not the only MISTRESS he has. He was cheating on his wife with me and me with somebody else. If she hasnt had enough of him by now OH WELL ! So YES I MADE A MISTAKE and MY SON yes I said MY SON aint the mistake that relationship was. The man would rather get in a tree and tell a lie than stand on the ground and tell the TRUTH. I dont ask for nothing I paid for the DNA test last year with a promise to be repaid. So dont judge til you have been there. I have heard the man threaten to kill his very first wife from another state over child support so YES I am SCARED TO DEATH. And 2500 for a good lawyer aint cheap.
If he was a cheater okay thats wrong but you should not have protected his family, you should of made him take care of his son in the first place. You both made your son your both responsible for him yes. What he did was wrong to cheat but the child did not ask to be born as parents both men and women need to stand up and do right by them. It is both of your faults, and your son is the only one truely hurt. It is not man against woman it is all about the children not about selfish men or woman. And yes I said men and woman, I don't take sides, it takes two to make a baby. And if you didn't want peoples opinons or truth then don't come on a website like this.
noway

United States

#23 Mar 22, 2012
cocky wrote:
<quoted text>Why dont all these men leave this lady alone. Gosh I read through all these posts and its going to be men for men and women for women. Everybody knows that. Just use your instincts on this and give it to God.
As a woman I agree 100% with whowhatwhen, so no it's not all about men for men and women for women. And yes ask god and have faith in him and it will all work out instead of asking complete strangers,this isn't the place for this.
INVESTIGATE IT

Lebanon, TN

#24 May 19, 2012
Please read reviews by Judge Clara Byrd before you pursue anything. I wish you luck. If anyway possible keep your case out of Wilson County, and out of her court room, I dont want you to lose your hard earned money, and not get a fair chance. Good Luck
investigate it

Lebanon, TN

#26 Sep 14, 2013
Take the advice and get an attorney if possible for around 750.00 . Try to stay away from DHS they wont help you if your not receiving services from the state TennCare they wont help you and will tell you to get an attorney. Connie Hearn is the DA there. The Wilson county office is not out to help anyone. Its better to deal with another county and find you another judge besides Clara Byrd who is a judge judy wannabe.
Ex district attorney

United States

#27 Sep 17, 2013
The other child he owes for is irrelevant. Pretty much you can get support from the time of your court date and forward. You will not get back pay for this child, if you had got an order and established paternity whenever the child was born then you will be entitled to back pay if he refused to pay. But since that didn't happen you will only be getting whatever they set the support at starting from now. Walk in to the child support office anytime, they will be glad to get things started for you.

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