just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#1 May 31, 2012
Where are all the good, honest, hard working and non-adulteress men? Is it that there are no such thing anymore? Wth?
Pipe layer

Saint Albans, WV

#2 May 31, 2012
Try a church.
just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#3 May 31, 2012
Pipe layer wrote:
Try a church.
yea but u really cant trust that either... Lol but good answer
haha

Parkersburg, WV

#4 May 31, 2012
The ones that are in the churches are just as bad. I have heard of several preachers running off with the piano players!
just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#5 May 31, 2012
haha wrote:
The ones that are in the churches are just as bad. I have heard of several preachers running off with the piano players!
yes i know!!!! Its awful!!! It just feels hopeless....
Just the Truth

Charleston, WV

#6 May 31, 2012
They are out there. I met my sweetheart of 33 years in a nightclub and we've been true blue ever since. It can happen if each partner thinks about the other's needs and tries to compromise. Also don't lie and don't embarrass your sweetie. If you don't want a cheater, definitely don't cheat yourself. And don't be a door mat. Everybody needs to stand up for what's right for them.

I sincerely hope each of you will find that person that completes your life as I was blessed when I found mine.
yeah buddy

Dublin, OH

#7 May 31, 2012
just wonderin wrote:
Where are all the good, honest, hard working and non-adulteress men? Is it that there are no such thing anymore? Wth?
like finding a needle in haystack. I have actually heard of people meeting in a club and living happily ever after and the preacher running off with the secretary like people said. My suggestion is to not consume yourself with looking, who needs all that drama! Geez. The world is going to crap and good people are hard to find
yeah buddy

Dublin, OH

#8 May 31, 2012
Pipe layer wrote:
Try a church.
you know what they say about that...going to church no more makes a person a Christian (an assumed good person) than standing in a garage makes them a car. Some of the most evil spirited, mean, nasty, cheating, lying...you get the point...people show up at church every Sunday morning. It looks good on the outside, says nothing about what's on the inside
just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#9 Jun 1, 2012
Just the Truth wrote:
They are out there. I met my sweetheart of 33 years in a nightclub and we've been true blue ever since. It can happen if each partner thinks about the other's needs and tries to compromise. Also don't lie and don't embarrass your sweetie. If you don't want a cheater, definitely don't cheat yourself. And don't be a door mat. Everybody needs to stand up for what's right for them.

I sincerely hope each of you will find that person that completes your life as I was blessed when I found mine.
I dont go to nightclubs, I very rarely drink, married men want to take me out which I will not even do that!!!! But it seems like all the single men that Ive met are just about getting as many girls as they can. I want to find a good man. I worry that I wont and Ill be alone. Its elk river its a small community and you hear about the "nice" guys havin sex with these "hoes" and it changes everything I think about these men. I hope I find someone that can appreciate a level headed, professional, woman. But I guess my type just isnt the "fun" type.
Stacy

Ardsley, NY

#10 Jun 1, 2012
yeah buddy wrote:
<quoted text>
you know what they say about that...going to church no more makes a person a Christian (an assumed good person) than standing in a garage makes them a car. Some of the most evil spirited, mean, nasty, cheating, lying...you get the point...people show up at church every Sunday morning. It looks good on the outside, says nothing about what's on the inside
There's not much difference in a church or bar...most people there are paying for friends...think about it, groups of people with no other common denominator than religion or "good times"...change your scene, do the things you like to do and don't look for a mate, one will come to you...
just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#11 Jun 1, 2012
Stacy wrote:
<quoted text>There's not much difference in a church or bar...most people there are paying for friends...think about it, groups of people with no other common denominator than religion or "good times"...change your scene, do the things you like to do and don't look for a mate, one will come to you...
I know I think of that! Thank you for your kind words....!!!
just wonderin

Ardsley, NY

#12 Jun 3, 2012
Just the Truth wrote:
They are out there. I met my sweetheart of 33 years in a nightclub and we've been true blue ever since. It can happen if each partner thinks about the other's needs and tries to compromise. Also don't lie and don't embarrass your sweetie. If you don't want a cheater, definitely don't cheat yourself. And don't be a door mat. Everybody needs to stand up for what's right for them.

I sincerely hope each of you will find that person that completes your life as I was blessed when I found mine.
that is inspiring to me. I told my significant other that I didnt want to be cheated on, he says " people get cheated on thats how it is" .. I want to think all men are not this way.... I want to know I have a partner that I can trust....
Just the Truth

Charleston, WV

#13 Jun 5, 2012
Stacy wrote:
<quoted text>
There's not much difference in a church or bar...most people there are paying for friends...think about it, groups of people with no other common denominator than religion or "good times"...change your scene, do the things you like to do and don't look for a mate, one will come to you...
Exellent observation and advice!
Just the Truth

Charleston, WV

#14 Jun 5, 2012
just wonderin wrote:
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that is inspiring to me. I told my significant other that I didnt want to be cheated on, he says " people get cheated on thats how it is" .. I want to think all men are not this way.... I want to know I have a partner that I can trust....
And did you ask him how he would feel if you cheated? Did his parents cheat on each other? Could be how he was raised.

Also remind him that if he is going to cheat, you expect him to at least wear a condom so he doesn't bring an STD home to you.
idk

Ardsley, NY

#15 Jun 5, 2012
Just the Truth wrote:
<quoted text>And did you ask him how he would feel if you cheated? Did his parents cheat on each other? Could be how he was raised.

Also remind him that if he is going to cheat, you expect him to at least wear a condom so he doesn't bring an STD home to you.
didnt give him the chance to cheat on me.... Broke up with his lazy poor azz
idk

Ardsley, NY

#16 Jun 5, 2012
Just the Truth wrote:
<quoted text>And did you ask him how he would feel if you cheated? Did his parents cheat on each other? Could be how he was raised.

Also remind him that if he is going to cheat, you expect him to at least wear a condom so he doesn't bring an STD home to you.
just the thought of him cheating makes me sick.... Im not dealin with it
Just the Truth

Charleston, WV

#17 Jun 5, 2012
idk wrote:
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didnt give him the chance to cheat on me.... Broke up with his lazy poor azz
Seems reasonable to me. You deserve better than that.m

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