Is it cheating?
HeartBrokenFool

United States

#1 May 9, 2013
I've been dedicated to my man for almost 2 years. He was my crush when I was 15 years old and when we ran into each other 24 years later I knew I was still crushing. Seven months into the relationship my daughter was using his phone and found a txt telling him how good it was to see him the night before. He replied with a mutual text. After dwelling on it I confronted him and he reversed the entire situation and made me the bad person for "snooping". We began to see one another again. He is fully aware that I believe in emotional infidelity. I was research some info for his vaca coming up in 2 weeks online. I discovered that his facebook was open and he got an I'M from a woman in Arizona. Talking about his upcoming trip etc. So my question is this: If a man is txting "hey gorgeous" and telling another woman tht she is the best n thanks her for the late night phone calls etc but doesn't say a word to the one that is here with him now physically lovingly caring for him is this cheating? If so, should I confront him or talk to her and let her know somehow that this "man" has hurt me and will do the same to her. All comments good or bad are welcomed.
The Author

United States

#2 Aug 13, 2013
As I expected he was cheating emotionally. What he don't know is what he lost. Its better to have loved and lost than never have felt it. I know he will NEVER find another me...

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