I had classmates in school that graduated yet were not really capable of practicing in a competent fashion. This happens in all fields. Apparently yours is no exception.<quoted text>
That's funny, I've made a living doing so for over 30 years.
I prefer family dynamics and reality therapy. They work.
You might recognize the three R's: realism, responsibility, and right-and-wrong in my responses.
Realism is often nothing more than an opinion. Likewise for right and wrong. Responsibility can fall through the same cracks.