can any one tell me how these fathers who have homes and vehicals and pay child support when they want and claim ssi get there childsupport dropped to 0.00 claim they can't pay when welare is supporting our children. being behind thousands of dollars and not wanting to see there child or have contact with them there whole life. Is that a human being? should they have rights not to take care of the child? what about how hard the mother and child struggle to live. every one knows the legal system in nm. finding help is a loss cause...