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“aka Tina Boudreaux Lavergne”

Since: Apr 09

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#22 Aug 6, 2010
I think that it is very disrespectful to do that to your spouse. I wouldn't even have his male friends over while he was away. He is out there supporting our family and the last thing he needs to worry about while working a dangerous job, is worrying I am doing something wrong. It should go both ways also, not just a woman while not at home, the man should also respect her by not having women friends over or her friends or go out in the bars. Anything to make them suspicious while away is very damaging to a marriage. I guess that is why we are still together after 26 years. We have respect for each other and many people today who get married do not want to work at it, it is just like a job, it will not run it self, you have to be involved for it to stay a strong relationship. Even if it does get boring while he is away, I have hobbies that don't entail going out with others to keep me busy.

Since: Mar 09

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#23 Aug 6, 2010
cp cajun wrote:
I think that it is very disrespectful to do that to your spouse. I wouldn't even have his male friends over while he was away. He is out there supporting our family and the last thing he needs to worry about while working a dangerous job, is worrying I am doing something wrong. It should go both ways also, not just a woman while not at home, the man should also respect her by not having women friends over or her friends or go out in the bars. Anything to make them suspicious while away is very damaging to a marriage. I guess that is why we are still together after 26 years. We have respect for each other and many people today who get married do not want to work at it, it is just like a job, it will not run it self, you have to be involved for it to stay a strong relationship. Even if it does get boring while he is away, I have hobbies that don't entail going out with others to keep me busy.
Amen.

Trust, Respect, and love.
someonewhobeenth ere

Big Spring, TX

#24 Aug 7, 2010
I don't think its good that anybodies wife should be in bars.I work offshore and my wife started going out because she said she wasn't happy and she found happiness.She started having an affair and then left me.I work offshore to be able to give my family everything they needed.We were truely blessed.Then all the trouble started,all the lies and staying out all night,I would call home and get no answer until the next day,and to tell me she was sleeping.What kind of dumbie did she think I was.I had phones all over the house including the bedroom.Please ladies if you love your husbands don't do that to them,its hard enough being away at work to make a living then to have that kind of shuff on your mind working in these conditions.To you who do that to their husbands you surely don't know what you have,you have a man that's willing to get hurt or even killed for the sake of his wife and kids so that they can be happy.Y'ALL PRAY TOGETHER AND FOR EACH OTHER SO THAT THE ENEMY DON'T MESS UP YOUR HAPPY HOME.In Jesus name.
my foot

Canada

#25 Sep 8, 2010
The correct answer is only if she's real fat and ugly. If your wife is real fat and ugly you should let her go to the bar without you. If she ain't explain to her darlin you're entirely to attractive to be going out without ya man.
interested

Lafayette, LA

#26 Sep 26, 2010
Leonard Fosse wrote:
If your wife goes to a bar too much without you it is a problem. My wife was going to the bar a couple of times a week with a friend so say to help her friend find someone. After about 3 months I noticed my wife and her friend were kissing in the bedroom. I coulda shit.
damn dude you didnt try to join in u could have had them both
no name

Arnaudville, LA

#27 Oct 20, 2010
I don't think a married person has any business being in a bar without their spouse. It can only cause trouble for their marriage. If you are already having trouble, then get a divorce and you can party all you want.
hell yeah

United States

#28 Oct 20, 2010
it worked for me wrote:
<quoted text>This is what happened to me. I knew she was in the bars some when I was offshore. We have both a shower and a jacuzzi tub in our bathroom. She would always bathe in the tub, and I would always take a shower.
Right before leaving for my 14 day offshore stint I put a brand new bar of soap in the shower. When I got back I could tell someone used the soap. So I set a trap. I put the shampoo and soap exactly an inch apart before I left. When I got back the soap and the shampoo were about 5 inches apart.
Wife never cleans my shower. That is what I do on my days off.
I contacted Sherman Cravins a PI who was referred to me by my brother. Sherman and I met when she was at work. He looked over the situation and installed a little motion activated camera hidden in the air conditioner vent over our bed.
When I got back, Shermin and I reviewed the tape. Wammo a perfect shot of her giving head, then engaging in straight sex.
I brought the tape to a lawyer and we filed for divorce.
We had to disclose the tape to the other side, so she knew she was caught. At the courthouse, her attorney was begging my attorney to settle the case. We kept saying no. We wanted the judge to see her giving head. Anyway, we finally settled for her to pay me $1000 alimony per month for five years, and her not get anything for community property. The best $300 investment I ever made is the investment I made by hiring Mr. Cravins.
Sir!!! You are my new hero!!
someonewhobeenth ere

Opelousas, LA

#30 Oct 23, 2010
People let's face it,The vows that they took,for better or for worst,for richer or poorer for sickest or in health until death do us part was only said for personal gain.It was really for someone to take care of someone else not each other.If the husband and wife knew their place in marriage then the wife would not be in the bar in the first place she would not be disrespecting her husband while he's offshore.Its face it, people go to bars for different reasons leading up to one and 9 out of 10 that what happens.And then that poor man is being blamed for everything because he tried to take care of his family.The first thing out of her mouth is you never made me happy.What an excuse.No one can make anyone happy it is an emotion.God gives us joy,peace and love with love being the greatest of them all.They don't understand that those vows weren't between them and the people at the wedding,they were between them and God.So now they sin against their husband and God.So ladies next time you feel like barhopping think about the temptations that it brings.
Assumptions

Sunset, LA

#31 Dec 31, 2010
I think the reason this was ever posted was because of the woman that was kidnapped in
Eunice, raped, beat and left naked in a rice field n Ville Platte. She is from the church point area....and this happened while her husband was offshore! So probably the family, wife, or girlfriend of one of these three rapists, is trying to get dirt on the victim.....from people in her home town!
cajunfreak

Iowa, LA

#32 Jan 1, 2011
dont belong in bar in churchpoint it dont matter because she got to be ugly and stink oh sorry that what men in cp want
Richard

Sunset, LA

#33 Jan 1, 2011
no
CHARISMA

Elton, LA

#34 Jan 14, 2011
Interested wrote:
I know I'm going to get slack for this one but...It depends on the people. Not everyone is looking to cheat when they go into a bar. There has to be trust in a relationship or else why be in it. Some, not saying all, do go out to just hang with friends & relax after a hard week. I go out with my friends on occasion & so does my husband. Both of us can show up where the other is & there is nothing to hide.
I totally agree with this!!!!

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