Not to be hateful or snide to the victim's family in any situation, but you know the criminals families suffer too. Maybe more so, because they wonder "why" and "what if". There are no winners in this situation. May God comfort both families.
I agree totally but so do the Shunicks. They are all such wonderful people. Guilt will eat at a person from the inside out. They probably all blame themselves with those same questions. I think we all do when we are at any loss or death even though we know when its our time, no matter where we are, its just our time. God bless them all.