wondering

Beckley, WV

#1 Mar 14, 2011
How do I end a affair of 5 years with a married man whom I love dearly but its time to put my energy back into my marriage here at home. Me and my husband are in our 50's but he has had numerous affairs on me in the past. None for the past 15 years that I know of, but he is very verbally abusive to me and my insides are constant turmoil. Im not sure how much I love him anymore but know I need to try and salvage what marriage we have left. But I am finding it very difficult to end things with the other man because I truly do love him. Hes married too so I know me and him can never be together as a real couple. Im just so ocnfused and need help bad.
hmm

Stuarts Draft, VA

#2 Mar 15, 2011
Its sounds like if ur husband is mean to you, you really had no other way to get the loved you needed, has the other man ever said anything about leaving his wife?
wondering

Beckley, WV

#3 Mar 18, 2011
No the other man has never said he would leave his wife. So I know that will never happen. he says he loves me too but we both have too much invested in our marriages. So its a no win situation.
I Do

Spearsville, LA

#4 May 2, 2011
You should end it and pray god spares both of your cheating souls
Partypants

United States

#5 May 2, 2011
You should have left your husband a long time ago.
I Do

San Angelo, TX

#6 May 3, 2011
They should both leave their spouses
jus sayin

Bedford, VA

#7 May 3, 2011
if they do it with you eventually they will do it to you
Goofy

United States

#9 Jun 4, 2011
I heard that Mickey Mouse was wanting a divorce from Minnie. When he went to court the judge was going to throw it out of court. The judge told Mickey that he could not grant a divorce on the grounds that Mickey thought Minnie was crazy. Mickey told the judge that he had misunderstood him, he was not saying that Minnie was crazy, and he was not seeking a divorce on those grounds, what he was telling the judge and what he was wanting a divorce for was because Minnie was "fuc*ing" Goofy!! LMAOROTFPMP!! Now that is some funny sh*t right there!!:-)
egg noodles and ketchup

Princeton, WV

#10 Jan 14, 2012
you have to end it and when your sick of it you will, but maybe you need leaveyour husband to you will be miserable with him and without the other one. fresh start is he best start new take care of you first before you go looking for a new guy.

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