Girl from the local hardees 1994

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scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#1 May 9, 2013
in 1994 i lived in Christiansburg for a year. i drove to raonoke every day for work. overall cburg was cool. and i got to see some good football at va tech.

i would stop at the local hardees every morning to get some breakfast to eat on my way into roanoke. i still recall how beutiful that drive was. i would take the road down by the huckleberry in and go thru a few small towns then thru salem and into roanoke.

there was this girl who worked the hardees. and she would often be working the drive thru. i would put my order in. and whne i would get to the window she would say things like, "you know we never get to talk" and she would ask me questions and such.

but she always would press the whole "we never get to talk" so, one time i gave her my phone# on a piece of paper and said to call me sometime and we could talk.

well the next monday i went thru the drive thru and i heard her say welcome to hardees...
i ordered my usual and another voice came on to give me my total and another person was at teh window.
i didnt think anything of it until it happened several times

then i realized that something was different....
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#2 May 9, 2013
so, i just kept my usual routine although it bigged me that as soon as the girl took my order and heard it was me, she avoided me.

how did we go from "we never talk" to her avoiding me over giving her my phone#?

well i let it go. and even stopped going by there.
took my business to a mcdonalds in salem.

then one day i had to meet a client in cburg. and he wanted to meet at the hardees.

i said ok. and he wanted to have lunch first. so we went in and there was the girl.

as soon as she saw me she went into the back and the manager took oour order and looked at me like i had done something.

i still dont understand what happened.
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#3 May 9, 2013
so, i sterred clear of that hardees because apparently shewas makin me out to be some kind of stalker or something.

then one day i went to the local laundromat. i lived off of chinquapin trail and went to the closest one on the main drag.

and there she was! i just walked by her and said nothing. i had my clothes basket with me. she looked at me in horror. she had a little boy with her that i suspect was her son. and she made it out of there qucik like i was some threat to her.

i will never forget this. i dont know why she initiated all those "we never get to talk" moments at the drive thru and then when i simply gave her my phone# and name on a strip of paper she started behaving like this.

i didnt know if anyone else had a similar experience or knows who she is. i just want to have it conveyed to her that i didnt appreciate this and how as a new person in town she made me feel like some awful person when i had done nothing. nothing at all.

thank you.
hmm

Blacksburg, VA

#4 May 10, 2013
Girls are crazy around here like no joke and I'm a girl myself, its an attention thing she probably told people you where stalking her even though you wasn't she clearly was flirting with you first, so she could have their attention and was probably horrified to see you because she had probably said those thing and was afraid you tell her ass off. no joke I know a girl that claimed every boyfriend she has ever had "stalked" her, and when they would get new girlfriends she would run and tell them that and then try and add them on facebook who sends their " stalker" a friend request?, well truth came out on her a few months back when her face appeared in the crimetimes for violating a restraining order. I know it bugs you but don't let it, she was just an attention whor&
scared of nutjobs

Brentwood, TN

#5 May 10, 2013
thanks for that. to hear this coming from a female really helps.
i have a few more stories from my time in cburg. i will post another of them now.

thanks again and best wishes.
hmm wrote:
Girls are crazy around here like no joke and I'm a girl myself, its an attention thing she probably told people you where stalking her even though you wasn't she clearly was flirting with you first, so she could have their attention and was probably horrified to see you because she had probably said those thing and was afraid you tell her ass off. no joke I know a girl that claimed every boyfriend she has ever had "stalked" her, and when they would get new girlfriends she would run and tell them that and then try and add them on facebook who sends their " stalker" a friend request?, well truth came out on her a few months back when her face appeared in the crimetimes for violating a restraining order. I know it bugs you but don't let it, she was just an attention whor&
scared of nutjobs

Brentwood, TN

#6 May 10, 2013
during my year in cburg back in 1994, i used to go to the huckleberry inn for a few beers and some entertainment. and to talk to some ladies.
im sure you guys probably know this woman. it was 1994 and i went in and this band was playing.
this blonde lady in her 20's was singing and playng some keyboards. i later saw her on local tv on a commercial for something.
they band was doing songs by the eagles, journey, foreigner, other poop songs too.
they were pretty good.
before one of the last songs of an early set. the blonde girl said they were gonna do a song and take a break. she offered the patrons to suggest some songs they might like to hear later on in the evening.
well i wanted to request a song just to paticipate. and so, after that set. the blonde girl came off the stage and i walked up and said hello. she said hi. and i asked if they could play "old time rockn roll" by bob seger?
this blonde girl ripped me a new azzhole over that. she yelled at me that she wasnt playing some trashy song like that. and exclaimed that she doesnt sing garbage like that.
i was shocked. i didnt know what to say except sorry. i was blown away that this song request would create such a reaction considerng what songs they had played. so, i humbly walked away and finished my beer and never went in the hucklebuck again.
there is another hucklebuck story. i will save that for another day.
i just dont understand what set her off about requesting that bob seger song. i was really trying to ask for something from that 70's genre they were playing. thats all. and she ripped me like i asked her if she would strip or something.
i know she was a local personality. like i said she appeared on some commerical i saw on tv back then too. i wish someone could give me her name.
id like her to know that i didnt appreciate that sht and it was uncalled for.
yet another mark against cburg that always has me driving by but never stopping to spend my money.
its a shame too. that area is beautiful. its a nice drive all around that area. i think they call it the new river valley and then the roanoke valley. but God! the people i ran across while there.
what was this girls problem?
its just that you have to live well and outlive stupid peoples behavior sometimes.
if you recall her name please let me know.
thank you.
Mag

Roanoke, VA

#7 May 12, 2013
Wow! So lets get this straight...you had a few bad experiences with a few rotten eggs in Cburg and judge the whole town based on those? I grew up in Bburg...lived there raised my kids there, moved to Cburg 4 years ago...a change I wish I'd made years ago! I dont know what roads you have since chosen in life, but it's evident you have not moved beyond the past...that is shame. One cannot have a fulfilled future while trudging around in the past.
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#8 May 12, 2013
mag,
you havent got anything straight.
im not judging the whole town. im relating my experiences from a horrible year there.

there is more to tell.

and im not living in the past by relating experiences that i had there. in fact it might be a good thing to illuminate some of the bad behavior there. it might make a few people cringe. good!

and four years ago isnt 1994. it may well be a better place now. i dont know but i dont want to find out. i had a lifetime of grief in that small town in a years time.

i think there were lots more than a few rotten eggs. watch your back. i know there is still that sickly element there.

and i think its good to shed light on it. often things go unchecked and they dont get better.

i have a happy life. i just look back on some of the places i have been and thngs i have seen and i like to document them and relate them.

characterize it however you wish.
i have outlived numerous assessments only to see years later those persons not having it so good after all.
Mag wrote:
Wow! So lets get this straight...you had a few bad experiences with a few rotten eggs in Cburg and judge the whole town based on those? I grew up in Bburg...lived there raised my kids there, moved to Cburg 4 years ago...a change I wish I'd made years ago! I dont know what roads you have since chosen in life, but it's evident you have not moved beyond the past...that is shame. One cannot have a fulfilled future while trudging around in the past.
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#9 May 12, 2013
the huckleberry inn must not be the place to hangout.
another time i went there to have a few beers and to watch some live music. and to hopefully talk to a few women.

i was having a beer and having a good time watching the band play that night.

i talked with a few women. after the band played for a bit they opened up the dance floor and an attractive woman came over to ask me to dance. we did and then she came back to my table and we talked a bit and she went on and mingled.

i also mingled and spoke to a few ladies. the band played again and when they played a slow song, here comes that woman over to ask me to slow dance.

we did. it was nice. and we talkked some more and would mingle separately and so on.

so, finally the bar was closing. it was the last song and the last dance and this wman came over again to have me dance. we did and at the end some guy walked up and shouted at me and pushed me for dancing with his wife. i pushed him back.

the whole place just stopped. i looked over at her and she had this dumbfounded look on her face but didnt deny it.
i said well nobody told me that. and to make matters more strange this guy was the bouncer who had been at the door and walking the bar the whole night.

he tried to tell me that i had some nerve httin on some mans wife. and i told him he had some nerve thinkn that i knew that.

we stared each other down and then another bouncer came up and got between us. i looked over at the woman who was acting non chalantly as if there was no drama.

the other bouncer suggested that i leave. i did and that was it.

so, why didnt the woman tell me she was married to the bouncer?
she didnt deny it.
and if they werent on good terms why hang there.
had he screwed around on her so she was using me to get back at him?

i just didnt need to be a part of their trashy drama.

so theres another one.

i have another hucklebuck story for another time.

and one from an interacial couple from va tech who singled me out.

cant help but tell these.
its good to tell.

too often people get to play out their sick behavior without being made accountable. its kinda nice to be able to lay it all out on a post.

cburg isnt awful probably but i had so many weird experiences that i would think twice about saying, "good morning" to anyone in the city limits.
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#10 May 12, 2013
another time i was working a part time job because my day job had a slow down.

i started delivering these discount coupon books that are sold annually in the area. or at least were. this was 1994.

one of the deliveries i made was to a nice home thats over on that ridge before you get to the baseball field.

a nice looking young blonde girl answered the door. she seemed college age.
she she was friendly and let me in while she got her checkbook.
wheni walked in theere was a black guy, a college age guy himself.
i said hello and he didnt say anything.
she got her checkbook and as she walked towards me, the black guy stopped her and said something to her.

her facial expression changed immediately towards me and she had this hateful look on her face. she walked towards me and told me that she had changed her mind about the coupon book and that i needed to leave.

i was aghast as i didnt know what had just happned.
i looked at him and he looked at me with a scowl. i said, i dont understand.." and she yelled for me to leave or she would call the cops.

so i said ok and left.

i dont know what happened but it was like the guy got her to act that way to me.

i had no problem with him or her and i dont know what this was about.
Mag

Washington, DC

#11 May 13, 2013
So, another unfortunate event. I assume you were fairly young then and perhaps that is why those events seem so big. However from my veiw point they are just minor unpleasantries in a world where much bigger and ugly things happen. I also assume you are just getting things off your chest, and if that is therapeutic then by all means continue. But if you are hoping to change anything from 1994 you will
be disappointed. And because you don't direct these with those individuals you are not even calling anyone out, they are probably no longer here or have changed anyway. It is unfortunate that this 1 year has followed you.
scared of nut jobs

Brentwood, TN

#12 May 18, 2013
mag,
i dont know their names. i may have known their first names at one time but so much time has passed i dont recall their names.
i dont hope to accomplish much here. i just wanted to lay this out in a local forum because im sure that nutcase at the hardees was like that to other people. so, if this happened to get back to her even now might make her feel like crap a bit, i would be happy.
what a distorted individual she was.

and that local personality at the hucklebuck. i know somebody knows her name. i would like to call her out by name. just for kicks. tit for tat you know?

there wast a developed internet then or i would have done it then.
just want to put down in words the things people routinely do.

for me if any of this gets back to whoever they are, then thats great. but if not, then i hope it validates others like me who have put up with ridiculous b.s. at the hands of people with issues.

you see, for the women i have posted about its really that no one did anything to them and that was their opportunity to hurt someone.

daddy must have done something to them. i want say it out loud. and i want them to know it. i want other women to examine the issues they have and how they act it out.

cause im free to do what i want. any old tiiime!
Mag wrote:
So, another unfortunate event. I assume you were fairly young then and perhaps that is why those events seem so big. However from my veiw point they are just minor unpleasantries in a world where much bigger and ugly things happen. I also assume you are just getting things off your chest, and if that is therapeutic then by all means continue. But if you are hoping to change anything from 1994 you will
be disappointed. And because you don't direct these with those individuals you are not even calling anyone out, they are probably no longer here or have changed anyway. It is unfortunate that this 1 year has followed you.

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