Can u forgive someone who has hurt u ?

Can u forgive someone who has hurt u ?

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Since: Dec 12

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#1 Dec 13, 2012
Do u just live a lie , and pretend ur not hurt , or do u step up ,and tell that person
Diamond n the ruff

United States

#2 Dec 13, 2012
I think in order to move on , for what ever the reason may be , u first have to let go .
stormy_sunshine

United States

#3 Dec 13, 2012
Diamond n the ruff wrote:
I think in order to move on , for what ever the reason may be , u first have to let go .
The pain of any kind of hurt, grows deep within ,sometimes it's really hard to forgive and move on
Diamond in the ruff

United States

#4 Dec 13, 2012
stormy_sunshine wrote:
<quoted text>The pain of any kind of hurt, grows deep within ,sometimes it's really hard to forgive and move on
Are you talking about a man ? If so they are dogs ! They think with the head between the legs
Raine

Chillicothe, OH

#5 Dec 13, 2012
I think in order to get closure u have to tell that person how u feel n it might help u to move on. Dont let them get ya down tho :)
sormy_sunshyne

United States

#6 Dec 13, 2012
Raine wrote:
I think in order to get closure u have to tell that person how u feel n it might help u to move on. Dont let them get ya down tho :)
I hear what ur saying , and I do try , the person in question , knows how deep I've been hurt , and plays on it
soon2beXwifey

United States

#7 Dec 13, 2012
sormy_sunshyne wrote:
<quoted text> I hear what ur saying , and I do try , the person in question , knows how deep I've been hurt , and plays on it
Girl I feel u. It's hard to get past the hurt. My husband cheated and I was devastated but daily he added insult to injury, after that I never full .felt like he was mine. The love I had soon faded then died. Now the divorce is on. I hope u can get thru ur hard times. Life is too short to be miserable. It can't rain forever!
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#8 Dec 13, 2012
soon2beXwifey wrote:
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Girl I feel u. It's hard to get past the hurt. My husband cheated and I was devastated but daily he added insult to injury, after that I never full .felt like he was mine. The love I had soon faded then died. Now the divorce is on. I hope u can get thru ur hard times. Life is too short to be miserable. It can't rain forever!
thanks for the push ,think that's what I needed.good luck to u in your new life . I just got to get out of my funk ,and not let the games get to me
Michelle

Demotte, IN

#9 Dec 13, 2012
My sons father has hurt me repeatedly over the past 4yrs..he is well aware of the pain I went thru because he is the one who caused it, along with the many homewrecking whores in chillicothe..so I left him only to get back together and be hurt again..but I finally realized that Im never going to stop loving this man, I gave him my heart mind body and soul, so if I leave him Im even more miserable sitting and wondering "what if?" My point is, love doesnt just go away and if you truly love someone you should always try to make it work because youre gonna be miserable with or without them.. People can always change..and if you stick with them thru their good and bad, chances are they will realize how bad theyre fuckin up and change for the better.. Just my thoughts..Im not saying be naive or a pushover, just never stop hoping for the better..
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#10 Dec 13, 2012
Michelle wrote:
My sons father has hurt me repeatedly over the past 4yrs..he is well aware of the pain I went thru because he is the one who caused it, along with the many homewrecking whores in chillicothe..so I left him only to get back together and be hurt again..but I finally realized that Im never going to stop loving this man, I gave him my heart mind body and soul, so if I leave him Im even more miserable sitting and wondering "what if?" My point is, lov doesnt just go away and if you truly love oksomeone you should always try to make workbecause youre gonna be fuckin up and change for the better.. Just my thoughts..Im not saying be naive or a pushover, just never hoping for the better..
Ok I hear what ur saying , I think my point is , u can love a person , they hurt and keep hurting u over and over , there has to be a enough point , a no more ! Yes I may love u ,but I love myself also . A point where the pain inside is what keeps u going , but one morning u just wake up and say no more
Anal Andy

Dublin, OH

#11 Dec 13, 2012
Google this name. Elisabeth Broderick. Or Betty Broderick. She was one of my moms best friends. I grew up with her kids. Now I ain't saying she has the most comfortable bed or the best view in San Diego. She does, however, have closure.

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#12 Dec 13, 2012
U can forgive if you want.. but never FORGET!
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#13 Dec 13, 2012
I hear what ur saying ,I think the hard part is saying ENOUGH is enough ! Yes I nay love u ,but I love myself more . And being able to love ne enough to know ,some people can't change , or don't want to .
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#14 Dec 13, 2012
feisty gatto wrote:
U can forgive if you want.. but never FORGET!
No I don't think I will ever forget , well maybe with age , I might .. But loving a person , that's knows u ,maybe better then u know yourself ?
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#15 Dec 13, 2012
Thanks everybody , for the food for thought , this does help .
angie

Chillicothe, OH

#16 Dec 13, 2012
stormy_sunshyne wrote:
Do u just live a lie , and pretend ur not hurt , or do u step up ,and tell that person
I tryed to forgive my ex 4 leaving with a girl, from a bar while I was in the restroom. He told me the nexed day this really crazy story. I was also catching him in lies he even known he was busted in a lie but was still trying to lie ot of it. I can not stand liers I hate liers thats so so childish I made him to pack his bags. I kept in contact with him for 3 months I started to catch him in lies again so I told him to leave, then I met the man of my dreams. Im still with the man of my dream the lies went away im having an great life now. My ex said he would do anything to get me back but its to late.
How are your titties

Dublin, OH

#17 Dec 13, 2012
That is some funny shit. He left while you were in the restroom? Lol
stormy_sunshyne

United States

#18 Dec 13, 2012
How are your titties wrote:
That is some funny shit. He left while you were in the restroom? Lol
That's not funny ! If it's true , it's sad
Diamond in the ruff

United States

#19 Dec 13, 2012
Should get kicked in the balls ,
How are your titties

Dublin, OH

#20 Dec 13, 2012
Did he pay the tab before he left? I mean, I have gotten BJs in the restroom while my girlfriends or wiife have been at the bar, but this guy was just rude. Some of us are good men.

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