Where are the girls that want to sett...

Where are the girls that want to settel down???????????

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chilli

Chillicothe, OH

#1 Jan 31, 2013
I go out to the bar and see the same [email protected] Girls going out during the week. Was trying to hook up with this girl she was on the same page intill she got with her sister! What makes a girl do that shes not all that but in her mined she thinks she is! But after hanging with her sister shes not ready to settle down. Both are over weight and think their that lol. I think im trying to hard because I had plenty of times to settle down and never did maybe its Karma!

MikeLane

Since: Dec 12

Columbus, OH

#2 Feb 1, 2013
chilli wrote:
I go out to the bar and see the same [email protected] Girls going out during the week. Was trying to hook up with this girl she was on the same page intill she got with her sister! What makes a girl do that shes not all that but in her mined she thinks she is! But after hanging with her sister shes not ready to settle down. Both are over weight and think their that lol. I think im trying to hard because I had plenty of times to settle down and never did maybe its Karma!
Alot of members told me on here to find one in church.
But I might be a little to wild for that kind of woman
yep

Nashville, TN

#3 Feb 1, 2013
chilli wrote:
I go out to the bar and see the same [email protected] Girls going out during the week. Was trying to hook up with this girl she was on the same page intill she got with her sister! What makes a girl do that shes not all that but in her mined she thinks she is! But after hanging with her sister shes not ready to settle down. Both are over weight and think their that lol. I think im trying to hard because I had plenty of times to settle down and never did maybe its Karma!
I am female and I am alone been alone for a long time now cant trust anyone the only one I can count on is me there are way to many drug addicts in chilli town to many people wanting to lay up in their mommas house noone wants to work I have been at my job for 17yrs and bought my own house 10yrs ago pay my own bills and Im not sharing with anyone thats how I look at it

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#4 Feb 1, 2013
Before my man and I got together I made it clear that if he can't stand on his own two feet he can't stand with me. He didn't have to earn what I earn but he had to contribute.
There are good people out there, but I doubt they will be found on Topix.
When you want to find a quality person to settle down with you have to look in a quality place. Not a bar or a sex form on the Internet.
John Q Public

Chillicothe, OH

#5 Feb 1, 2013
It's a yo-yo'ing gender problem. Guys don't want to settle down when they are 16-22ish but most girls in that age have the wedding fairy tale in their mind. Then, once they hit bar age, they want to go out and whore it up. So around 22-30 ish guys start looking to settle down and girls are now the exact opposite.

After 30 it's a crap shoot, you still have women that want to run the bars (usually ones that had children at a young age and are now making up for lost time that their kids are older) and some guys that never really grew out of that phase.

Your best bet for finding one that wants to settle down is look for one in her 30's And above who's already got the running around out of her system.
too effn true

Herndon, VA

#6 Feb 1, 2013
I am 27 and have never been the type to run the bars. I would much rather spend that time with whomever Im dating, granted its a good relationship with the same interests. Unfortuneately I am single and just left a four year relationship with my sons father but hope to find someone that will appreciate and stand by me not above me someday :)
IDK

Nashville, TN

#7 Feb 1, 2013
where in the heck do you find a good( guy or girl) if you dont go to bars and stuff I mean this down is sh*t I am 36 and I gave up I wont just settle and its impossible to find a good guy all I am looking for is someone respectful, has a job, and not an addict and I cant even find that
too effn true

Herndon, VA

#8 Feb 1, 2013
IDK wrote:
where in the heck do you find a good( guy or girl) if you dont go to bars and stuff I mean this down is sh*t I am 36 and I gave up I wont just settle and its impossible to find a good guy all I am looking for is someone respectful, has a job, and not an addict and I cant even find that
Maybe try to meet someone through mutual friends or relatives...that way you kind of have a heads up of what youre getting into. Just my suggestion, but hellIm in the same dilemma lol. Ive been split up for over a year now and am ready to meet a new guy, but havent been able to so far. Its frustrating.
too effn true

Herndon, VA

#9 Feb 1, 2013
*Let me rephrase, meeting a new guy is easy, but meeting one with the qualities I am looking for has been impossible so far.
IDK

Nashville, TN

#10 Feb 1, 2013
I have went through family and friends to find a good guy but even my family and friends dont know any good guys how crazy but like I said I have just gave up
chilli

Chillicothe, OH

#11 Feb 1, 2013
John Q Public wrote:
It's a yo-yo'ing gender problem. Guys don't want to settle down when they are 16-22ish but most girls in that age have the wedding fairy tale in their mind. Then, once they hit bar age, they want to go out and whore it up. So around 22-30 ish guys start looking to settle down and girls are now the exact opposite.
After 30 it's a crap shoot, you still have women that want to run the bars (usually ones that had children at a young age and are now making up for lost time that their kids are older) and some guys that never really grew out of that phase.
Your best bet for finding one that wants to settle down is look for one in her 30's And above who's already got the running around out of her system.
Thats my problem the girls 35 and above still partys like a 21 year old. Fooling around with difrent men forget that,way to many STDs out there. I know this girl that gets her son every weekends and would rather go to partys. Besides spending time with her son enjoying them last moments and memories before he turns 18 teen. Women like that don't need kids I would rather spend my time with my kids. I also seen 40 and 60 year olds partying like there 21 how embarrassing! I feel embarrassed for them the way they acted. I can see every once in awail but not all during the week partying same people.
IDK

Nashville, TN

#12 Feb 1, 2013
Not all girls 35 and above party like that.... I surely dont wouldnt want to and yes you are right to many STD out there no man or sex is worth my life.
too effn true

Herndon, VA

#13 Feb 1, 2013
I enjoy being a mommy :) There isnt anything in this world that would come before my son. Seeing the smile on his face when we are playing "cars" or the feeling of love that I get when he runs toward me with his arms opened wide for a hug could never be replaced or imitated. He is my Lil Man. But, I do need adult interaction and conversation. If not as a serious love then maybe just a friend for the time being? Ross county is very high on the list for STDs and the scary part is that most people who have them are so bitter about it that they dont care who they spread it to. That is why I dont sleep around and never have. Not saying I dont enjoy sex but I enjoy it better when I am in a commited relationship.
jdk

Chillicothe, OH

#14 Feb 1, 2013
Probably with men who can spell "settle".
too effn true

Herndon, VA

#15 Feb 1, 2013
Most men look at children as an inconvenience or competition, which makes my search even more difficult. Im not looking for a father for my son by any means, he already has one, but I desire a man who would love my child just the same and give him quality time and attention as he does me.
sad

Chillicothe, OH

#16 Feb 2, 2013
I'm in a relationship and have been for sometime. I would love to get engaged to the bf and settle down even more than what we already are. I have told him this and he has even said the same thing a few different times.. It just never happens and it sucks. Very disappointing. Hopes are always up and I'm always crushed. I love him, I don't even want the ring, just want him on a deeper level.

Since: Jan 13

Lexington, KY

#17 Feb 2, 2013
Im not sure i believe in marriage anymore,if you love someone and are committed to them whats the point of having a piece of paper but only for the legalities,wills,child support,etc.I think marriage like organized religon limits the freedoms a person has.If im going to settle down which to me im already settled down i just dont have a significant other it would be with someone who is comfortable enough with themselves and doesnt need all the social trappings most people need,i am my own person and i dont need anyone to validate me,i am worthy of the best and will no longer settle for just anyone and if that means i will be alone then so be it because i am comfortable enough with myself.

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#18 Feb 2, 2013
joanna50 wrote:
Im not sure i believe in marriage anymore,if you love someone and are committed to them whats the point of having a piece of paper but only for the legalities,wills,child support,etc.I think marriage like organized religon limits the freedoms a person has.If im going to settle down which to me im already settled down i just dont have a significant other it would be with someone who is comfortable enough with themselves and doesnt need all the social trappings most people need,i am my own person and i dont need anyone to validate me,i am worthy of the best and will no longer settle for just anyone and if that means i will be alone then so be it because i am comfortable enough with myself.
I applaud you Joanna.

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