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3 Well your coment was totaly off base you know nothing about my son or his father who i may add was a very abusive person he use to beat me hand cuffed me to a frezzer burnt my son a number of times and my son burnt so bad he was in the burn unit at providance hospital but chris was a good person a careing father give me a brake he did nothing for my son payed no child suport was never a father a father takes care of his children protects them chris did non of this he put my son down every chance he could he was a evil person i think you should know the whold time line in our lifes with him and after before you point a finger the state of Alaska did nothing to protect him or me my son got beat by his father and chris did what ever he could to keep my son down in many ways befors you go and judge and put chris on a pedistal you need to know there was way more to this and you think for one min. chris was not drinking think again he did not stop drinking nor was he drug free know your facts first ok!!! he was a very mean drinker adn a drope and use to try and attack his son people very close to chris and lenny told me and how he was treated whil the short time with his father she her self was very hard on my son they both put him down the human muind can only take so much my son only wanted love from his father he never got any love from him he got only put downs to the end one thing we need to think about when a child kills a parent there are surtain things to puse it that far right and it usually end up with the child with a history of abuse kids just do not kill a parent ot of the blue.You must think do i think it was right no i do not think it was right in no way do i feel sorry for chris no i do not he got killed by the monster he created i do put the blame on chris he was never around for him and when he was i was hell. I think your coments ugly as sin was very childish you do not know the whole story and i think you would do yourself better not to jump in and judge no face value His father was no stranger to jail and a record but where that get us??? My heart gose out to the people in Anchorage that got killed and hurt i feel the greatest sorrow for them and there loved ones that young man with so much to offer the world a shame life ened all to soon and no reason for it at all.This has affected so many people in so many ways.And my life will never be the same eather never thought in a million years this would happen.He was not a scarie person he never hurt any one i do think he snapped.This as effected our famiely and his Grandmother who is 76 years old we are a very close and this hunts us every day and always will till i die.I love my son with all my heart but this shows us that we never truly know how much we can take till we break. |
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1 First, I would like to offer my sympathy to you as a mother. I know that you will always love your son and I commend you for that. Noone knows what the reasons are that people do what they do but by the same logic, noone has the right to judge because every human is just one situation away from making a wrong choice. I am not saying that to lessen the loss of the people who were killed by your son, but only because I truly believe that anyone has the capacity to hurt and/or kill others if all the circumstances of their lives reach that point in time when the wrong choice seems to be the right one. We are all humans, and the human species is not with major flaws....every one of us. I met your ex Chris Sr. once when my then boyfriend (later spouse)and I went to visit him at the base in San Diego. He seemed like such a happy-go-lucky guy and I really enjoyed spending time with him. We went to the San Diego Zoo and spent a few hours with him. Later, after marrying Chris Sr.'s cousin, I sent Xmas cards to him, and I believe to you when Chris Sr was in Maine. Then somehow we lost contact....that was so many years ago. Much later I heard that Chris Sr's family had disowned him because of his drug use or some such reason. I do not know if Chris Sr even had a funeral...I could not find an obituary for him when I searched Google. That I find incredibly sad, if it is true. I can tell you that it affected his extended family here in AZ with shock and deep sadness. Again, we do not know the relationship between Chris Sr and Chris Jr. but it is so tragic that it had to end this way. My oldest son also has issues and I have heard the cruel comments that people say regarding why he would do what he did, since he is an incredibly intelligent person. I know that there are two sides to every story and that every situation in a person's life, combined with that person's personality and ability to handle stress, can greatly impact a person's ability to do the right thing under extreme emotional duress. Noone deserves to die because another person is mentally incapable of making the right choices, but again, noone should judge another unless they have walked in their shoes, and many more people than anyone can imagine will end up in their shoes or with a family member or friend that has crumbled mentally under the stress of dealing with life with a mental illness. Until you have been there, do not judge....I commend you for loving your son unconditionally. And I am deeply sorry for Chris Sr's untimely death and the death of other innocent victims....it is a tragedy to all that are involved and will continue to affect EVERYONE on all sides for the rest of their lives. Truly a human tragedy of great proportions. Good luck to you - stay strong and positive and try to recover as much of your life as you can. I know how hard it is, because nothing will ever be the same. |
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1 I can say you wont say nothing to my face I will say the truth and dont care if you like it or not i dont know you i was in his life ok erin i have said from the get go saw dead wrong IF YOU COULD READ Chris was abusive AND THE DEVIL it would not ever be very good for you to ever come around me my husband has done more for erin than chris ever did no chris people called him outher names i also said it was wrong all the way around in no means was it right it has hurt so very many people and i never said he should not be in jail i have said what chris did to him and how he was to me but i am sure you lived in our house you think you know . I have also never said erin was right heck no chris girlfriend went threw more than anyone in a life time ever should have to go threw threw and i did tell her i was truley sorry what erin did to her i went to court i saw the pictures and it was a night mare i feel for the people in Anchorage and the young man Jason Erin has hurt so many people and it was very stupid I do not agree what he did in no means I wish it never happened not just for my son but for every one this has hurt so very many people We were not in Alaska i had a death in my Uncle past away we were not here it hit us to like i couldent belive it shock You dont know me if you did you would know i am not a bad person i did nothing to erin to do this he was grown he made his own choices now he will be held accountable for his actions in what he did You have no right to blame me nore will i take the blame I am sorry for what he did but i know how chris treated him and some of his friends from school he saw told me to and i go by what i have see and know But to you to try and blame me i ill say none of us are held accountable for this but erin i think it was a very unthinkable act and a total night mare i am a mother and i do love my son |
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1 james this is sherrys husband if you think you are going to get in my wifes face i will be there to and i dare you to get stubid with my wife you might intimidate a womaN BUT YOU DO NOT SCARE ME THE SLIGHTEST BIT SO DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO AND I WILL STAND UP FOR MY WIFE SO DONT BE A BITCH GO AHEAD And get in her face and you dont know the story because you all live in a cave chris and your mother pieces shit to have anyone living in a shack behind the house no electric no toilet no nothing your mother swhould be ashamed of herself for even thinking that she was a good mother or stepmother sofuck you and im looking forward to you trying to bully my wife BITCH |
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1 if you have a beef call the person, why vent your crap in public...and bring back the chair that sicko needs to fry |
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1 no? well i did and what that man did to that women is imhumane, i love lennie and i always will, she has alway been good to me, she still calls me her "little sis" thats all i have to say on the subject |
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