unhappy men in relationships

unhappy men in relationships

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wondering

Charleston, WV

#1 Jul 29, 2014
u know what I hate to see girls dating guys and have a couple kids togather and the girls say that they are both happy and staying togather forever but you see pictures of all these couples on face book and you can tell the guy is so unhappy with her it shows girls if you look at your owm picture with them it would show you they are not happy and it will one day end as soon as they stop feeling sorry for you that's sad free the boy you wont let go and move on lifes too short for bs
true blue

Charleston, WV

#2 Jul 29, 2014
i know a couple of them sad
get a diary

Belle, WV

#3 Jul 29, 2014
wondering wrote:
u know what I hate to see girls dating guys and have a couple kids togather and the girls say that they are both happy and staying togather forever but you see pictures of all these couples on face book and you can tell the guy is so unhappy with her it shows girls if you look at your owm picture with them it would show you they are not happy and it will one day end as soon as they stop feeling sorry for you that's sad free the boy you wont let go and move on lifes too short for bs
Maybe they don't like having their picture taken...or maybe they just don't smile for pics.
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Communicate

Chesapeake, OH

#5 Jul 29, 2014
struggling wrote:
I feel the same way in my relationship. I love her so much but I am not happy with the sex at all. I have never been so unsatasfied with it in my life. I feel so giulty for feeling this way but I love her so much and know I will never find another girl like her again on this earth. I feel so tremendously guilty for feeling this way and know karma is gonna destory me for posting this
. Any relationship that works is based in communication. People that love each other talk about what makes them happy.
YeaWeSeeIt

Belle, WV

#6 Jul 29, 2014
I enjoy seeing a certain homewrecker post photos of her and her "man" doing things together, posing in the pool like a cheesy Harlequin romance novel cover or her posting pics of her "man" playing softball but the F'n hilarious part is he never EVER posts photos of her on his social media where the public can see. Gotta love that one sided romance. I figure he doesn't post her pics on his sites cuz he doesn't want to ruin his game since he's a serial cheater and afterall that's how she got him.
Hahaha

Beckley, WV

#7 Jul 29, 2014
Wondering, maybe you're just a home wrecker wishing he is unhappy with her....
real talk

Charleston, WV

#8 Jul 30, 2014
struggling wrote:
I feel the same way in my relationship. I love her so much but I am not happy with the sex at all. I have never been so unsatasfied with it in my life. I feel so giulty for feeling this way but I love her so much and know I will never find another girl like her again on this earth. I feel so tremendously guilty for feeling this way and know karma is gonna destory me for posting this
well if u love her then sit her down and talk to her don't destroy your marriage over some whore all u will do will catch a disease and give it to her and lose her when she finds out u cheated every one gets caught up if u love her u wouldn't think about another at all because u cant go back once u do something stupid not worth it
unhappy

Charleston, WV

#9 Aug 31, 2014
real talk wrote:
<quoted text> well if u love her then sit her down and talk to her don't destroy your marriage over some whore all u will do will catch a disease and give it to her and lose her when she finds out u cheated every one gets caught up if u love her u wouldn't think about another at all because u cant go back once u do something stupid not worth it
maybe im through she thinks the kids hold me well ill be able see them don't have to be un happy I love someone from awhile back
dont lead her on

Charleston, WV

#10 Sep 14, 2014
Unhappy - Why did you get with her in the first place, if you love someone that was before her? And why would you have kids with her if you was in love with someone else? That is crazy and you shouldn't mess with peoples feelings/heart. What happened to the woman that you love from so long ago? Hmm, theres a reason you said from so long ago (because its in the past). And you are about to lose your present and future because of the past. Get over it and leave it in the past or you will be miserable forever. And please explain how she thinks the kids will hold you. All you have to do is leave her, if you are unhappy. Dont lead her on and ruin her life.
i hit it

Madison Heights, VA

#11 Sep 15, 2014
YeaWeSeeIt wrote:
I enjoy seeing a certain homewrecker post photos of her and her "man" doing things together, posing in the pool like a cheesy Harlequin romance novel cover or her posting pics of her "man" playing softball but the F'n hilarious part is he never EVER posts photos of her on his social media where the public can see. Gotta love that one sided romance. I figure he doesn't post her pics on his sites cuz he doesn't want to ruin his game since he's a serial cheater and afterall that's how she got him.
WHATS HIS NAME ?
cg

Charleston, WV

#12 Sep 15, 2014
struggling wrote:
I feel the same way in my relationship. I love her so much but I am not happy with the sex at all. I have never been so unsatasfied with it in my life. I feel so giulty for feeling this way but I love her so much and know I will never find another girl like her again on this earth. I feel so tremendously guilty for feeling this way and know karma is gonna destory me for posting this
ur pissed bc of poor sex yet she's the best thing u have found and will ever find so get over yourself bc aex isn't everything and if yall love eachother that much u shud b able too talk to her about bc maybe she's holdin back a good relationship u can discuss anything like my wife and I do
get real

Belle, WV

#13 Oct 11, 2014
YeaWeSeeIt wrote:
I enjoy seeing a certain homewrecker post photos of her and her "man" doing things together, posing in the pool like a cheesy Harlequin romance novel cover or her posting pics of her "man" playing softball but the F'n hilarious part is he never EVER posts photos of her on his social media where the public can see. Gotta love that one sided romance. I figure he doesn't post her pics on his sites cuz he doesn't want to ruin his game since he's a serial cheater and afterall that's how she got him.
don't matter how many dumb photos they can still cheat I mean they might be old pics lol
Lmfao

Rock Creek, WV

#14 Oct 12, 2014
get real wrote:
<quoted text>don't matter how many dumb photos they can still cheat I mean they might be old pics lol
Dodd???
Kittylover

Charleston, WV

#15 Oct 13, 2014
Hey folks, I was just reading the notes on the thread. I agree that it is sad when couples have kids together and then end up being unhappy. It is sad for them and really sad for the kids. But folks, did you all ever stop to think that the unhappiness is because people are not doing things the way the lord intended. You grow up, get an education, get a job, then you find your mate, get married, make your home and them have kids. People nowadays focus too much on the need to have sex. Guys, I know most of you would much rather have a brand new car if you could get one...why do you expect anything else from the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. Wouldn't you think it would be nice to have someone who belongs to you and only you. Someone who believes in you for the person....the real man that you are and not how you "rate" among the other 5 or ten other men she has had? Girls, save yourselves until you marry. Be that special woman that every man needs in his life. Love your men for who they are. Not how good they are in the sack. Believe me, no matter how good they are now, that doesn't last. Let God be your pilot, and love each other they way he says to and you can have a wonderful lasting relationship with each other and God.

I am not meaning to be preachy, I am just sharing what I feel being a woman who has been rejected time and again for someone who would "put out" without strings. My heart has been broken more times than you can imagine. I don't know if I will ever open my heart to anyone again.

You certainly have the right to believe as you wish. I am not offended by that and I hope you are not offended by what I said.
kR k

Charleston, WV

#16 Mar 29, 2015
dont lead her on wrote:
Unhappy - Why did you get with her in the first place, if you love someone that was before her? And why would you have kids with her if you was in love with someone else? That is crazy and you shouldn't mess with peoples feelings/heart. What happened to the woman that you love from so long ago? Hmm, theres a reason you said from so long ago (because its in the past). And you are about to lose your present and future because of the past. Get over it and leave it in the past or you will be miserable forever. And please explain how she thinks the kids will hold you. All you have to do is leave her, if you are unhappy. Dont lead her on and ruin her life.
maybe she pushed getting pregnant over and over to keep him because she knows he likes kids how sad , pretty soon you will be too old to pop out kids then what lol
Joho

Charleston, WV

#17 Mar 30, 2015
Doesn't matter some women having kids just so they don't have to work and can live off hud and others pay their bills so they don't have to get off their butts and get a job or they just use the kid for food stamps
John

Cedar Grove, WV

#18 Mar 30, 2015
It's because the women now days want to set on their ass while the man works do nothing but screw around with dope heads while he's at work.Sad but true
John

Cedar Grove, WV

#19 Mar 30, 2015
Id say 90% are like that.Women are horrible these days.
So correct

Chicago, IL

#20 Oct 5, 2016
John wrote:
Id say 90% are like that.Women are horrible these days.
I would say your girl is the 90% right cause shes getting it in everywhere but home lol
%
Natural beauty

Charleston, WV

#21 Oct 9, 2016
YeaWeSeeIt wrote:
I enjoy seeing a certain homewrecker post photos of her and her "man" doing things together, posing in the pool like a cheesy Harlequin romance novel cover or her posting pics of her "man" playing softball but the F'n hilarious part is he never EVER posts photos of her on his social media where the public can see. Gotta love that one sided romance. I figure he doesn't post her pics on his sites cuz he doesn't want to ruin his game since he's a serial cheater and afterall that's how she got him.
Lol getting back karma are we little girl

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