Why do we stick around?

Why do we stick around?

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Confused

United States

#1 Jul 25, 2012
Just wondering if anyone out there has been sticking around with their man because it is what your used to? I am not sure if I am still in love with my husband or if it is because he needs me there to do things for him and to keep him out of trouble!!! Don't know if it's worth staying around anymore!!!
hugs

United States

#2 Jul 26, 2012
If there is doubt, then its time to walk away. Dont do him any favors, there are plenty of men out there that will treat you good, you just got to get out there. I stayed with husband for convenience also and when I left he found someone more compatible to him and so did I. The biggest fear is being alone, so we run back. Stay true to yourself and march alone, one day someone will be marching to the same beat you are. Good luck.
Confused

United States

#3 Jul 26, 2012
Thanks! Just seems like it has been a long time to just walk away! I think if something were to happen to him that I would feel like it was all my fault!!! He is a very hard headed individual and he listens to NO one but wants everyone to listen to him!!!! Thanks again!!!
hugs

Haslet, TX

#4 Jul 26, 2012
Ask yourself these questions:
Do you still live him, or is convenience what keeps you there?
Are you willing to live like this for the rest of your life?
Are you being true to yourself?
Im not questioning if he's a good man, I'm just stating that if you aren't happy then you aren't giving your marriage your all. You both deserve better than that. The hardest part is walking away. Good luck.
Confused

United States

#5 Jul 27, 2012
U know he is a good man, but his ways have changed in these past couple of years! Loving him, I do but not like I used to! As for being true to myself, NO! I don't care to live like this forever!! As for being on my own, I know I can do it with no problem because I have a good job and I am a hard worker that likes to advance in whatever I do! I know I don't know you, but you have some good advice! That is probably what I would tell someone who would be in my shoes!!!
hugs

United States

#6 Jul 27, 2012
Glad I could help. Loving someone and being in love with someone are two different things. I hope it works out for you. Good luck in your new journey
Confused

United States

#7 Jul 27, 2012
I guess if I decide to up and leave I will be on my own for quite a while to see how life treats me! I was so used to standing alone and then for so long I have had someone to kinda lean on and it will be different!! Guess like my mom used to say! Pick your head up high because the good lord doesn't ever give you more than you can handle!!!! Thanks again!!!!
standards n practices

United States

#8 Aug 4, 2012
Get back home and serve your man you ungreatful witch!
hugs

Haslet, TX

#9 Aug 5, 2012
Is that how you treat your wife? Im sure that is how your dad had your mother, but now a days, us women don't put up with that crap. You're lucky you found some idiot that allows her husband to treat her like that. Good for you, now go tell that fool to fetch your slippers.
Haterz proof

Haslet, TX

#10 Aug 7, 2012
Bow down all you hoes quit whinning and go fetch my meal lmfao
lol

Moore, TX

#11 Oct 16, 2012
This Haterz proof is related to Sara Reyna or is Sara Reyna
Take care of your kids and stay off topix.
Your all over topix
Your disgusting .
Just read all your feed backs and you make me sick.

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