hahaha

Marlinton, WV

#332 Oct 7, 2012
Ladies, i have to say. Seems to me all your doing is putting a $ on your children s forehead..If the non custodial parent dont wanna pay. To hell with them..Buck up and pay for your child! Quit crying poor me, I have to do this all on my own...Idiots!

Since: Nov 11

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#333 Nov 2, 2012
hahaha wrote:
Ladies, i have to say. Seems to me all your doing is putting a $ on your children s forehead..If the non custodial parent dont wanna pay. To hell with them..Buck up and pay for your child! Quit crying poor me, I have to do this all on my own...Idiots!
And dumb for doing so, it takes 2 to make a baby, and you are just letting him by without helping out fiancially, the children he made are his responsibilites as well, so get you butt to the court house and get what your child deserves!!
mommy99

United States

#334 Dec 29, 2012
Ive seen just as many deadbeat moms who use their children as "paychecks" as I have Dads who arent involved with their children. The system is biased towards women, and many women take advantage of it. It is rediculous to ever have to pay 1200 a month for one child. I dont care what the standard of living was prior, what does a 5 year old need to keep a "standard of living"? Trips to disney world every day? I am a woman, and a mother, and I am sick of women using men to support their lifestyles and using alimony, child support, medicare, welfare, to take care of their children when they are capable of contributing to their childs financial stability. There are definately legitimate reasons for all of these programs, but I feel more often than not that they are abused, and I feel it is much more frequently abused by women than men. Men should have equal rights to the children, not every other weekend rights, and men need to stand up for this. Dont lay down and take what the women will give you. There are just as many times where the Father will be a better provider and more stable parent than a mother, they need to fight for their rights.
will

Nitro, WV

#335 Dec 29, 2012
The whole divorce process is a bunch of crap geared solely for the woman and screw the man! I was raped in family court! I hate that place down there and every damn judge in it!
angel

Huntington, IN

#336 Dec 30, 2012
My husband pays everymonth that is the first thing He does and the sad thing is.we had them last year and they lived here with us.their mom still got child support plus 578.00 in food stamps.and not a dime went on her kids.my husband and i took care of them and she layed in the bars.he is getting ready to take them again...this time he needs to take her to court.
heather

United States

#337 Jan 2, 2013
I get childsupport ive been getting it since my daughter was 2 she is 10 now... i get 385
52 bc he was in the military i only have problems when i dont recieve a payment.. waiting on hold for 2 hrs is horrible i also have 2 other kids i work full time 50 hrs plus.. we deserve the child support we get from the fathers that left outta of the childs life.
Paulo Milano

Cocoa, FL

#338 Jan 15, 2013
Curious wrote:
<quoted text> Hey smart mouth! I WORK and HAVE worked since my son was born because of a lazy good for nothing man who don't have to backbone to help pay for the child he helped create! Too many of you MEN don't want the responsibility of anything once you get out of the bed! You MAKE ME SICK with your attitude - most women have to work because of DEADBEATS who want to take the easy road out. You NEED to get a BRAIN before you smart off at people because some of us WORK to support what SOME OF YOU MEN won't! Get a life and think before you run your stupid mouth!
I really have a difficult time with this. A woman can have an abortion, and the state can approve this. What makes no sense, is that if a man says he does not want the child, he has no say so for an abortion. SO if the mother sleeps with someone who has money, then why would she have an abortion? This is tax free money. This is money that does not have to be claimed on taxes by the mother. This is money that a man cannot deduct on his taxes, even though he will pay more than a mother collects in a year through a job. If you were to add in the amount before taxes are taken out, it would be well more than any mother would make. SO why not lie on your back and collect child support, collect TANF (which a man will have to pay back), and the mother can go to the court and tell a judge falsely that she and her kid(s) were threatened, and the man gets a permanent injunction on him. So he pays for a child he did not want to have,(because he has no abortion rights) the mother plays mind games with the child(ren) about the father, and the father has to work two or three jobs to pay for a child he may never see. There must be a law that will allow a father to have the same abortion rights as a mother. This is the great country we live in. This will stop this BIG BUSINESS of the government collecting child support. And some of you may not know, but the government gets .15 cents for every dollar they collect. This adds up to BILLIONS of dollars. In California last year the state collected over 750 million dollars in child support, and the revenue was 278 million dollars on the money they collected. And neither the mother nor the fasther are hurt. The kids are used as pawns for the sole purpose of getting money.....This is pathetic. SOmeday, people will have to give an account for their actions. I speak firsthand knowledge, and I pay for kids that I know are not mine, but the state will not let me have a DNA test, until the child support is out of arrears. I was adjudicated a 29K back child support, and because the mother gave the wrong home address, I defaulted on paternity, because of the evil of the mother . The kids do not have my last name, I have not seen them in 13 years, and when I get the DNA test done, then I can sue the mother for fraud, but I will never see this money. Even hired a private investigator to find the mother, and was told that they were living with another man, the children did not look like me, and that the children looked just like the man who was living with this female. " The Injustice system". SO you think I am a deadbeat?? Never seeing kids, I have paid over $375,000 (after taxes). the mother has a nice home, and she continues not to work, and has two other children by different fathers..All of this information gained from a private investigator. From a Marine's perspective, they have never seen or dealt with a pissed off Marine. This story above shows the honor and integrity of the USMC person. Looking forward to your sound off about this.
godisfake

Saint Albans, WV

#339 Jan 21, 2013
Imagine if people put all that effort into finding a loser as they do to finding a job and supporting their kid lol. Sorry I just see a lot of women using child support for themselves to live off of lol
mom also fighting

Lynchburg, VA

#340 Feb 4, 2013
Bad to the Bone wrote:
The morons in the WV Supreme Court need to rule that the child support ENDS WHEN THE CHILD IS 18.
Not a day later.
Of course they wont. We have a crew of man-haters in the child support office, and they are ruling the courts who are also spineless man-haters.
in my opinion if a
dead beat is behind on childsupport then it should not stop at 18 also the child may still be in school and should have support
mom also fighting

Lynchburg, VA

#341 Feb 4, 2013
In my case I was married and we had our son, then after severial attempts to save the marriage,for catching him cheat with my cousin the time 15 yr old cusion and other chic now wife I had enough. I had to do through divorce 3 times before he finally gave it though he cheated severial times. Any how e is now married and so am I and my husband is my sons dad not his biological dad. He does everything for him and my son has a disability. His fathers place is to pay child support, my husband who never says a word about supporting us is there. But I feel my sons father should step up he is 5 grand behind and courts just now doing contempt. For those who say we should not complain or do anything. You are so wrong. I worked 3 jobs at once before my new marriage to my husband now to support my son and I while all alomg his father works side jobs to not have to do anything.LAWS should be inforced I now that in the end one great Law will when we reach the end of life.The bible says those who don't take care of there family are in danger of hells fire.
mom also fighting

Lynchburg, VA

#342 Feb 4, 2013
Oh and. Any one who makes nasty coments iam not on any welfare and all law on men and women alone should be enforced women can be jst as guilty as men
curious

United States

#343 Feb 13, 2013
My ex and I missed a court date a few years ago that we both were unaware of. The judge dismissed everything but child support kept taking money out of his checks he finally fought it and vs reimbursed him 3200 dollars now their saying I owe that. What can I do?
over rated

Homer, MI

#344 Feb 14, 2013
I am a womenn,It don't matter how many time you go to court on your kid father / mother bout child support if they don't want to pay it then they will never get a job.they will alway work under the table. me myself I don't depend in my kid father shit they are my kids and I'm gonna take care of them regardless. I m not chasing no man down foe no money he know those are his kids and if he don't care enough to help with them then screw him
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#345 Feb 14, 2013
Possums,As a mother It pains me to read about such ignorant and dependant women. I have made a fortune many times over and have never asked anyone for anything. I could support my own children. Yes I am married and happily so, however that said, If it ended tomorrow I would still be wealthy and independant. You poor, pitiful heifers need to get a grip and a career. Go to college and obtain a degree. Of course it's easier if you keep the kitty closed until you are financially stable and strong, something most of you loose girls have not been able to do obviously. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
Thinking its bs

United States

#346 Jun 20, 2013
Starting off in my young life I done things the way they are supposed to be. Met a young man dated for year and a half. Got married, 2 yrs later we BOTH decided to have a child. Once that child was 1 yr old, his father decided it was too much for him and split. Ordered to pay CS and did here and there for a few years. Remarried, wife works for DHHR, quits his job to work under the table, and no longer pays his child support. So if I do call CS guess who will kno about it?
This sure as hell says a lot to me about the way our DHHR and CS is handled. My child father paid his support (most of the time) until he married a DHHR employee. Now he does not!!!
interesting

Charleston, WV

#347 Jun 21, 2013
Thinking its bs wrote:
Starting off in my young life I done things the way they are supposed to be. Met a young man dated for year and a half. Got married, 2 yrs later we BOTH decided to have a child. Once that child was 1 yr old, his father decided it was too much for him and split. Ordered to pay CS and did here and there for a few years. Remarried, wife works for DHHR, quits his job to work under the table, and no longer pays his child support. So if I do call CS guess who will kno about it?
This sure as hell says a lot to me about the way our DHHR and CS is handled. My child father paid his support (most of the time) until he married a DHHR employee. Now he does not!!!
You can make your case private and have it handled outside Kanawha county ;-) I have this issue (I'm a dad by the way)
what u said

Daniels, WV

#348 Jun 24, 2013
hahaha wrote:
Ladies, i have to say. Seems to me all your doing is putting a $ on your children s forehead..If the non custodial parent dont wanna pay. To hell with them..Buck up and pay for your child! Quit crying poor me, I have to do this all on my own...Idiots!
Totally agree!
JAM6860

Towanda, IL

#349 Jul 20, 2013
Can anybody tell me why a child support order would just suddenly just be stopped , the child is 13.While nobody has ever met this child and no valid proof or documentation has ever been seen - taxes and monies from every job ever held has been being with held and put towards this order, suddenly notification is sent that the order has been terminated.We need help because the child in question could be floating around someplace in foster care.We never even had any address to anywhere the child and parent lived.Thank You.
dotdotdot

United States

#350 Jul 20, 2013
CS in WV is a joke. In the 15 years that I was supposed to receive it, I got $385.00 total, and nothing was ever done to my ex. Every time he'd get $4,000 -$5,000 behind, they'd "lose" our file and start his arrears back over at $0.
smfh

Charleston, WV

#351 Jul 21, 2013
yall should be more selective who you spread your legs open for and have children with, then you wouldn't have to worry about child support

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