How to Deal with a Controlling Woman ...

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#63 Jul 24, 2012
Bend her over your knee and treat her like a lil b1tch maybe she would either straighten her ass up or enjoy it! You can always pound her ass literally and tell her everytime she tells you what to do then you will keep doin it or hell go get a toy for that part of the body and keep it there while you have the remote to it and humiliate her with it when yall go out! IDK just saying!
Me

Ardsley, NY

#64 Jul 24, 2012
Tarah wrote:
Theres a famous saying that goes" if you dont love me at my worst, you damn well dont deserve me at my best",, well id personally like to show some of these so called men on here my worst! Fn idiots have no clue on how to treat a woman! From the looks of their spelling and use of language they probably just point and grunt when they want something! Theres no way any of them could actually carry on an intelligent conversation with a woman! However they are probably running their mouths on here bcs they dont have any control at all at home, and this is their only escape! Pretending they are smthn their not! Grow up jack asses!
Based on your discourse, I'm assuming you are one of these insatiable, controlling women in which this forum was started. Lol
Truth

Miramar Beach, FL

#65 Jul 24, 2012
lmao wrote:
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I don't even see any men on here.
Nope. No men here.
Truth

Miramar Beach, FL

#66 Jul 24, 2012
Beautiful_Disaster421 wrote:
Bend her over your knee and treat her like a lil b1tch maybe she would either straighten her ass up or enjoy it! You can always pound her ass literally and tell her everytime she tells you what to do then you will keep doin it or hell go get a toy for that part of the body and keep it there while you have the remote to it and humiliate her with it when yall go out! IDK just saying!
I'm sorry daddy never loved you.:(
Juan

Pearland, TX

#67 Jul 24, 2012
If not for that little thing between their legs there would be a bounty on them.
Truth

Miramar Beach, FL

#68 Jul 24, 2012
Sorry about that teeny peeny you got there, Jaun. :(
Christian husband

Wimauma, FL

#69 Mar 14, 2013
A relationship like this is a cause of some other deep seated problem.

The best thing to do is lead by example of love. If they see love, they may in the future turn to love also. I expect you would need out side help on this type of personality disorder - and yes, it is a personality disorder.

Also, love is not being a door mat though. You have rights to stand up and stand in freedom. It is okay to be stern, but everything must be rooted in love.

Another side note: I have seen many of children come our of a family where one or the other mate was controlling. The children were not well adjusted. The behaviorism passed down the line really made a mess of these kids in more ways then one can count. Daughters having relationships with men three times their age, sons with identity problems, addiction problems, etc... you name it.

This type of behavior is NOT normal - they need help and so will you if you hang around their personality disorder too long..

truth

Charleston, WV

#70 Mar 14, 2013
Divorce them. Life's too short. The stress alone will kill you. If you gotta "work on it" it was a joke to begin with...don't listen to the "marriage for life" small minds on here!
really?

Charleston, WV

#71 Mar 14, 2013
truth wrote:
Divorce them. Life's too short. The stress alone will kill you. If you gotta "work on it" it was a joke to begin with...don't listen to the "marriage for life" small minds on here!
The only small mind on here is you! No marriage is perfect and it takes TWO to make it work...when there are "others" on the side or secrets being held from your spouse it makes it nearly impossible to work on...my advice is to be straight up. The truth shall set you free! If you love each other bring
Everything to the open. And this time build from a solid foundation. It's hard to have that when one is keeping secrets and both are not on the same page. Admit YOUR faults and work on yourself, then everything will fall into place.
Crazy Woman

Saint Albans, WV

#72 Mar 14, 2013
Dude ... Women are NUTZ !!!!!! ain't none of us KNOW what we want when it comes to a relation sh i t ... The main priority a woman has is to feel safe at the very least 99.9% of the time..... That's what I want. I want to work, take care of my kids, want to do the things I want to do, BUT.... I want to feel SAFE.... Too bad I have bought several hand guns, had to take the concealed weapons classes, took/taught self defense classes, and need to carry a permit bc I'm "armed and dangerous'... Overbearing men suck.
MsKamish

Charleston, WV

#73 Mar 15, 2013
If "YOU" have to ask how to deal with a "controlling Woman.." YOU are the problem!
really?

Chesapeake, OH

#74 Mar 15, 2013
MsKamish wrote:
If "YOU" have to ask how to deal with a "controlling Woman.." YOU are the problem!
EXACTLLY!! Sounds like someone sticking their nose in business that isn't theirs and trying to cause problems.
Experienced

United States

#75 Mar 16, 2013
Heed my warning. Nothing will change. Get the hell out while you can.
Spencer

Brandon, MS

#76 Mar 20, 2013
He luvs me wrote:
<quoted text>I would not be with a man that I could not have control over, I wear the panties in my home and my husband will tow the line, and if he disagrees and wants a divorce at anytime, I will be the first to sign the papers. We have a super relationship and as long as he a plays by my rules we'll have no problems. He knew I was a controlling woman before we were married.
Guess what. You are a personality disturbed sociopath. You are a disgusting woman.
bob

Northfork, WV

#77 Mar 21, 2013
give her a knuckle sandwich
INTHEMHOES

Charleston, WV

#78 Mar 21, 2013
as long as the hoe gives up the puss . control me baby...
FACT

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#79 Jun 7, 2013
WTF wrote:
Most men make the number one mistake in life that will haunt them right up until the end: That's asking a woman to marry them in the first place. By doing so, you are making promises that she expects you to fulfill forever, and which often you simply cant, due to yourself or her. Either way, you're screwed.
Here's the trick that has saved me several times: Force THEM to beg YOU to marry. This works two ways: You want to marry them, or You don't, but could be persuaded to give it a shot.
Put off marriage for a while, telling her that "you don't want to marry me. Seriously, you could do much better and I don't think we'd be as happy if married". Keep going along these lines until finally giving in. Go ahead and marry her. One of two things will happen: You'll live together forever, or you'll get divorced at some point. If that happens, you hold ALL the cards.
You see, the number one thing women hate is a liar. So DONT. If you tell her the truth up front, she knows she has no one to blame but herself if it ends. You warned her. You tried to avoid marriage. But you gave it a shot and that's all you could do. Even the meanest greediest woman will agree that you wouldn't be in this mess if it wasn't for her. You will slide into the divorce MUCH smoother than you would believe.
See, women have been pulling this trick on us since the beginning of time. It's why we always get royally screwed. They make us beg THEM. Promise THEM, when in fact all we really wanted was to get in her pants. Once you promise a woman something, you better believe that she will take that promise to her grave, and you along with it.
Women are no different than men. They can just hold out asking longer than we can. So, bide your time, love her up, and she WILL pop the question.
The entire point of telling you all this is that this topic wouldn't even be necessary about this one controlling that one etc. All that is childish and if you're dissatisfied, bail out. Dont take the abuse from either side.
only white people because your divorce rates are outstanding!
FACT

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#80 Jun 7, 2013
white people are the furthest thing from monogamy and are all dirty infideLs!
FACT

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#81 Jun 7, 2013
white people mrry toivorce so they can get some free alimony!:P-----q:=$$$$$
FACT

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#82 Jun 7, 2013
marry to divorce typo

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