Do black men prefer women of their ow...
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#87 Mar 31, 2014
yep wrote:
Black men like white girls because they don't stink and they shave and are not as loud and dramatizing as the black girls. That's why black girls are so jealous of the white woman
It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. Iím so glad she got what she asked for (and more)!

Dear Jamie:

Iím sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.

I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just donít understand a lot of Black femaleís attitudes about our relationship.

My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.

Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why donít they look at themselves and make some changes.

I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when weíre out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us; Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley SnipesÖ

I could go on and on. But, right now, Iím a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Donít be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If Iím wrong, Black men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#88 Mar 31, 2014
RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.
I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy.
The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.
I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.
Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth ĎBabyfaceí Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women. And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.
I just donít want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history!
It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
It is because of the black womenís strength; elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them.
..........
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#89 Mar 31, 2014
Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.
I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why donít you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?
I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.
BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill.
No offense taken, none given.
Signed, Black Royalty
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#90 Mar 31, 2014
If you would like to read the whole article...just google "A Disgusted White Girl" a letter to sister 2 sister magazine. I am a black man...if I wanted a woman that i could run over top of and control, I would pick a white woman. If I wanted a wife she would definitely be black, spanish, or even asian. White women are weak.
Enough

United States

#91 Mar 31, 2014
MJK92 wrote:
If you would like to read the whole article...just google "A Disgusted White Girl" a letter to sister 2 sister magazine. I am a black man...if I wanted a woman that i could run over top of and control, I would pick a white woman. If I wanted a wife she would definitely be black, spanish, or even asian. White women are weak.
You are what is wrong with this country. Quit seeing color and see people for who they are. That response talked about why white women tan their skin, well why do black women use fake hair. Enough is enough. My black man does not control this white woman and never has he tried. If any man feels he has to control someone, he has self confidence issues inside himself. I'm not jealous or envious of any woman regardless of skin color. It's called confidence within ones self. Quit being borderline racist and look beyond the color.
Tyrone Shoelaces

Charleston, WV

#92 Mar 31, 2014
Black men prefer white women cuz blacks smell like feces.
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#93 Mar 31, 2014
Black women use fake hair because its easier to style and they don't buy white women's hair...its usually Indian or Brazilian. I didn't say nor did the article say that ALL black men date white women because they are docile, its saying MOST. So you may have a good one. It like 1 in 1,000 lol. Don't be mad...what did you do own your house, your car, have a good job to get him. You got a big butt? lol he probably has some side chicks!
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#94 Mar 31, 2014
Also...its kind of a turn on to mess with white girls. It pisses daddy off! lol
Enough

United States

#95 Mar 31, 2014
MJK92 wrote:
Black women use fake hair because its easier to style and they don't buy white women's hair...its usually Indian or Brazilian. I didn't say nor did the article say that ALL black men date white women because they are docile, its saying MOST. So you may have a good one. It like 1 in 1,000 lol. Don't be mad...what did you do own your house, your car, have a good job to get him. You got a big butt? lol he probably has some side chicks!
1) black chicks with blond hair is not Brazillian or Indian, 2) he bought ME a house, 3) he is home every night and doesn't need a side chick, 4) I can finance myself and have never asked him to buy me anything, 5) my butt is anything but fat, and 6) men who a raised to be men don't treat anyone in that manner you described, so what does that say about these supposed strong black women raising sons to behave in that manner as opposed to treating them as you would want a man to treat your own mother. If you are using white women as you speak of, you are a racist, probably have kids who are mixed that likely hate you for your racist ways and probably are too lazy to get your butt off the playstation to get a job and support your offspring. Yeah, that's the sign of a great man, I think not.
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TPB

Mount Lookout, WV

#97 Apr 1, 2014
Not all black women wears wigs or weaves. Me, BlkBarbie and DeeDee have nice, clean, long, straight, curly, beautiful, natural hair that goes down our backs and so do almost all the black/mixed women we know. All 3 of us are mixed and we always get compliments about how good we look on a daily basis #Truth :)
TPB

Mount Lookout, WV

#98 Apr 1, 2014
Btw, not all black women just go for black men and date only black men. BlkBarbie is married to a white man and we know all kinds of black women who are with a white man or dated a white man. Not all black/white men or women are the same #Truth :)
TPB

Charleston, WV

#99 Apr 1, 2014
Squawk
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#100 Apr 1, 2014
Enough wrote:
<quoted text>1) black chicks with blond hair is not Brazillian or Indian, 2) he bought ME a house, 3) he is home every night and doesn't need a side chick, 4) I can finance myself and have never asked him to buy me anything, 5) my butt is anything but fat, and 6) men who a raised to be men don't treat anyone in that manner you described, so what does that say about these supposed strong black women raising sons to behave in that manner as opposed to treating them as you would want a man to treat your own mother. If you are using white women as you speak of, you are a racist, probably have kids who are mixed that likely hate you for your racist ways and probably are too lazy to get your butt off the playstation to get a job and support your offspring. Yeah, that's the sign of a great man, I think not.
1. Brazillian or Indian hair can be DYED BLOND! 2. You suck real good. 3. He is creeping in the day time. 4. If you can finance yourself than thats probably another reason he is with you. 5. 80% of men like to hit a fatty from the back. 6. Maybe if black women wouldn't have been raising your children and cleaning your houses for pennies than they would have had time to raise their children to be descent citizens too, and the black mothers today wouldn't have to start from the bottom...they would have at least a helping hand. The government promotes welfare...so maybe if they gave them a helping hand when they were IMPROVING themselves, then they would be able to raise their children right.

Also I have no mixed kids. My kids are not mutts or the water downed version. They are descendants from African Queen and Kings, authentic. I am also a college student working on my Pre-Med, you don't have to be an Uncle Tom to be educated.
LoL

Charleston, WV

#101 Apr 2, 2014
MJK92 wrote:
<quoted text>
1. Brazillian or Indian hair can be DYED BLOND! 2. You suck real good. 3. He is creeping in the day time. 4. If you can finance yourself than thats probably another reason he is with you. 5. 80% of men like to hit a fatty from the back. 6. Maybe if black women wouldn't have been raising your children and cleaning your houses for pennies than they would have had time to raise their children to be descent citizens too, and the black mothers today wouldn't have to start from the bottom...they would have at least a helping hand. The government promotes welfare...so maybe if they gave them a helping hand when they were IMPROVING themselves, then they would be able to raise their children right.
Also I have no mixed kids. My kids are not mutts or the water downed version. They are descendants from African Queen and Kings, authentic. I am also a college student working on my Pre-Med, you don't have to be an Uncle Tom to be educated.
God help everyone if you are Pre-Med student. If you are Pre-Med, shouldn't you be studying to save lives as opposed to worrying about who is involved with who? Worry about your own business and let everyone worry about their own. Not everyone is a racist pig such as yourself. Quit talking about history that happened before you were even born. If you are truly trying to move forward and grow, then quit looking back. Better yourself by not being a racist.
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#102 Apr 2, 2014
I am not a racist, but i will defend my people when need be. History is important. You have to know where you come from before you know where your going. This whole state is full of racist white people...are you saying that it is okay for white people to be racist and we're just suppose to lie down and take it? absolutely not. I do study....everyday. Why do you think im on this computer everyday lol DUH. A lot of white people act like slavery and segregation was so long ago. My grandmother was in a segregated school and she is still alive today. So how does that not affect me when every where I turn in this state, white people are constantly judging me and holding their purse like I am going to rob the...just because the color of my skin??? No matter that I have a bachelors degree and have never held a gun or committed assault in my life.
LoL

United States

#103 Apr 2, 2014
MJK92 wrote:
I am not a racist, but i will defend my people when need be. History is important. You have to know where you come from before you know where your going. This whole state is full of racist white people...are you saying that it is okay for white people to be racist and we're just suppose to lie down and take it? absolutely not. I do study....everyday. Why do you think im on this computer everyday lol DUH. A lot of white people act like slavery and segregation was so long ago. My grandmother was in a segregated school and she is still alive today. So how does that not affect me when every where I turn in this state, white people are constantly judging me and holding their purse like I am going to rob the...just because the color of my skin??? No matter that I have a bachelors degree and have never held a gun or committed assault in my life.
If a white person made your statements trying to support their race sir, they would be called a racist, white supremisist or the like. Regardless of what color you are, racism is racism whether you want to accept it or not. I'm sorry your grandmother went to a segregated school, history is a sad thing sometimes, but all the same it is history and it's over. Move on from it as most people have. History is not an excuse to be judgemental of another person's choice in who they are involved with. Just because you know scum that use women, regardless of color, does not mean all men treat their partners that way. Look at the bigger picture sit. Reading on topix obviously isn't studying your pre-med.
H Lee Black

Chicago, IL

#104 Nov 11, 2014
True wrote:
I believe they do I prefer white women... Not all, but the majority do.Most black women are just DRAMA to sum it up! I am currently dating a nice, educated, hard working, black man who treats me and my children wonderful. You people on here are ridiculous!!!
I must concur with the comment you made about black women being consumed in drama. I have experienced a plethora of this over the years. No matter what your education level is, your credit score, whether you own your own home and car, your career status; it is never enough. I will be considerate that make the statement that it's not all black women; however a good majority of them are consumed in this madness and that is all I have encountered over the years. As a result it has burdened me down financially, I have been despised due to my level of education and that I can engage in a high level of intellect. I have been looked at as a currency withdrawal machine due to my career status and the kind of car I drive not knowing the struggles internally that I have to continue and endure through lingering liabilities from a divorce being hatched up by the court system and having to raise a child. I have also been disrespected with the verbal lashings and onslaughts that are used as schemes to try and break down my self esteem and thrust through my emotions. Now I realize that all women of different ethnicity backgrounds can engage in this type of behavior. I just deem it unacceptable as of to date what I have had to endure over the years; and this is coming from a 43 year old black male.
whoopwhoop

Belle, WV

#105 Nov 12, 2014
love chocolate wrote:
All I know is I am white and I love black men. Have not found the one for me yet, but I am looking. Not many in my area.
Quit being a coal burner and you might find a decent man.
BlkandWht

London, KY

#106 Nov 12, 2014
Anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>
It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. Iím so glad she got what she asked for (and more)!
Dear Jamie:
Iím sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.
I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just donít understand a lot of Black femaleís attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why donít they look at themselves and make some changes.
I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when weíre out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us; Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley SnipesÖ
I could go on and on. But, right now, Iím a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Donít be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If Iím wrong, Black men, let me know.
Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
No questionsa asked. It is apparent that it is and always will be racist on both sides. Take all color away and there would be NO discussions. Everyone has to admit mixed children are the most beautiful children with the most gorgeous hair, skin, and all. I wonder where that all came from??? Black and White mixed!!!!!!!!!! Face it! wear it! It's the truth and blacks and whites know it. I can pull either off, lol I can be around white and hear about blacks and I can be around blacks and here racist against whites..........sooooooooooooo ooo,,,,,there u go. That is just the way it is!
Im just so sick of hearing this ridiculous bull!!! So sick of it.!!!!!!
BlkandWht

London, KY

#107 Nov 12, 2014
I black, I white. I go around blacks who are racists, whites who are racists. Mixed kids are the most gorgeous in all the world and u know why that is?? Yea, blacks and whites mixed and made us!!!!!!!!!! Only dummies talk about black this, white that. So sick of it. I can't wait until u can make the difference between the two! So sick of this crap..

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