Unbelievable

Charleston, WV

#1 Jun 27, 2013
Trying to understand why men cheat on their wives with nasty women! Seeing this over & over. Men that have beautiful wives choose to cheat with women that are in no way in the same league as their wives. Is it because they have gotten older & that's all they can get? Need to understand. So many friends going through this right now..in their early 40's..
Omg

United States

#2 Jun 27, 2013
I totally agree with you and its the same way with married couples in their 20's.
opinionated

Chesapeake, VA

#3 Jun 27, 2013
Unbelievable wrote:
Trying to understand why men cheat on their wives with nasty women! Seeing this over & over. Men that have beautiful wives choose to cheat with women that are in no way in the same league as their wives. Is it because they have gotten older & that's all they can get? Need to understand. So many friends going through this right now..in their early 40's..
This is my oponion and nothing ese! Yopu are probably a lil' jealous of those women! Your man on the other hand is a lil' on the wild side and still likes to play the field has not grown up and not as mature as you, if I were you I might play the game of reverse psycology, if he cares for you, then he will show his love for you or he will leave.
My story

Martinsburg, WV

#4 Jun 27, 2013
They do it for sex. I started cheating on my wife with another lady who wasn't as pretty nor in my wifes league in any category, but the other lady flirted with me and it made me feel good about myself.

I lost my wife, house, family and my dignity. yes the sex was fantastic, but I promise you it wasn't worth it.

I was 36 and she made me feel good about myself. I was married for 16 years prior to the affair and I still haven't gotten over ther divorce.
opinionated

Chesapeake, VA

#5 Jun 27, 2013
My story wrote:
They do it for sex. I started cheating on my wife with another lady who wasn't as pretty nor in my wifes league in any category, but the other lady flirted with me and it made me feel good about myself.
I lost my wife, house, family and my dignity. yes the sex was fantastic, but I promise you it wasn't worth it.
I was 36 and she made me feel good about myself. I was married for 16 years prior to the affair and I still haven't gotten over ther divorce.
You are weak! You're letting your little head tell your big head what to do. You let that lil' brainless head ruin your life and hurt your wife.
even if

Moseley, VA

#6 Jun 27, 2013
you have steak at home..need a little hamburger
every now and then..
Unbelievable

Charleston, WV

#7 Jun 27, 2013
I agree with some of the comments such as makes them feel good that someone wants them, but it's with women you would never dream of looks wise.
Unbelievable

Charleston, WV

#8 Jun 27, 2013
opinionated wrote:
<quoted text>This is my oponion and nothing ese! Yopu are probably a lil' jealous of those women! Your man on the other hand is a lil' on the wild side and still likes to play the field has not grown up and not as mature as you, if I were you I might play the game of reverse psycology, if he cares for you, then he will show his love for you or he will leave.
If they were even remotely pretty then there might be some jealousy. Actually it's disgusting to see what they will lay down with. I guess blinders come on or something. Them again they aren't exactly spring chickens anymore & think they aren't going to get caught so they go for it. Why would you want a mans love that obviously doesn't care for you if he's sleeping around? The reverse psychology is pretend you don't know then bust him out & move on. Life's to short!
Billhilly

Baltimore, MD

#9 Jun 27, 2013
Men cheat because it is in there nature. It is not natural to be with only one mate. Even the men that are faithful have to fight the urge everyday
Kitty Kat

Faber, VA

#10 Jun 27, 2013
My story wrote:
They do it for sex. I started cheating on my wife with another lady who wasn't as pretty nor in my wifes league in any category, but the other lady flirted with me and it made me feel good about myself.

I lost my wife, house, family and my dignity. yes the sex was fantastic, but I promise you it wasn't worth it.

I was 36 and she made me feel good about myself. I was married for 16 years prior to the affair and I still haven't gotten over ther divorce.
So what would you do if you were tempted again?
wow

Charleston, WV

#11 Jun 27, 2013
men would not cheat if women kept their selves nice. and took car of their mans needs. statistics show that women cheat more than men
huh

Charleston, WV

#12 Jun 27, 2013
wow wrote:
men would not cheat if women kept their selves nice. and took car of their mans needs. statistics show that women cheat more than men
Did you not read anything before your comment? They SAID that the wives are attractive, and fit, and take care of themselves, and then men go screw with trash.

Even the man who is speaking with experience said the same thing.

You must be pretty thick to miss that stuff. Geeze!!
Agree

Charleston, WV

#13 Jun 27, 2013
wow wrote:
men would not cheat if women kept their selves nice. and took car of their mans needs. statistics show that women cheat more than men
I agree that both men and women cheat... I guess boredom plays a huge factor. Need a thrill or something. Seems to be the knew normal. I don't think keeping themselves fit or nice looking has anything to do with it. Bottom line is if you love someone you wouldn't do it.
punkin eater

Charleston, WV

#14 Jun 27, 2013
I have cheated. I am a woman. The man I had an affair with also had a wife. It was purely sexual. Not emotional. It happens ALL the time. People get lazy in relationships, they forget to grow and mature. They blame people for changing when it is human nature to change.
Eat steak every night for 15 years. I damn can of spam sounds good after awhile.
Too many folks get caught up in monogamy.
I would rather have a relationship built on honesty instead of monogamy.
As for my affair, I did tell on myself and my family did split up. I HATE that for my children, but I am thankful that I got out of a situation I wasnt pleased with. Everyone involved is happier, even the kids.

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