How to get over loosing the love of y...
Prick

Charleston, WV

#45 Sep 17, 2013
Yes i agree with who ever said if it was true love they wouldve never left. I lost someone recently and yes it sucks, but you cant waste your time on someone that doesnt want to be with you. And one more thing! Dont fall in love with a married woman. They will tell you that they love you and that they are leaving there spouse but its BS! They are just getting from you what there husband isnt giving them at home. Just move on to the next, you nevr know, you just might end up with the real true love of your life! Just gotta have patience!
lolly

Chesapeake, OH

#46 Sep 18, 2013
Prick wrote:
Yes i agree with who ever said if it was true love they wouldve never left. I lost someone recently and yes it sucks, but you cant waste your time on someone that doesnt want to be with you. And one more thing! Dont fall in love with a married woman. They will tell you that they love you and that they are leaving there spouse but its BS! They are just getting from you what there husband isnt giving them at home. Just move on to the next, you nevr know, you just might end up with the real true love of your life! Just gotta have patience!
Uh...yeah...the whole "being with someone who is married to someone else is bad" I thought was a given. Pretty much is the deal with both men and women. Guess there are still some dumb a$$es in the world.
wampum

Barboursville, WV

#47 Sep 18, 2013
it's hell when you "loose" somebody.
Simon

Charlottesville, VA

#48 Sep 18, 2013
wampum wrote:
it's hell when you "loose" somebody.
Did you pass spelling in the 4th grade??
True

Charleston, WV

#49 Sep 18, 2013
Prick wrote:
Yes i agree with who ever said if it was true love they wouldve never left. I lost someone recently and yes it sucks, but you cant waste your time on someone that doesnt want to be with you. And one more thing! Dont fall in love with a married woman. They will tell you that they love you and that they are leaving there

spouse but its BS! They are just getting from you what there husband isnt giving them at home. Just move on to the next, you nevr know, you just might end up with the real true love of your life! Just gotta have patience!
Don't catch feelings for a married woman or a married man. That's the beauty of it all, you get their pleasure without all the drama of a relationship.
Prick

Charleston, WV

#50 Sep 18, 2013
True wrote:
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Don't catch feelings for a married woman or a married man. That's the beauty of it all, you get their pleasure without all the drama of a relationship.
Yeah thats how it was supposed to have went but after spending alot of time with them then the feelings start. Shouldve busted out then. lol
tim

Barboursville, WV

#51 Sep 19, 2013
Simon wrote:
<quoted text>Did you pass spelling in the 4th grade??
look at the title of this thread, dipsquat. "loosing" should be "losing". wampum was just making fun of the misspelling. you are a moron.
Cinnamon

Hockessin, DE

#52 Sep 19, 2013
Prick wrote:
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Yeah thats how it was supposed to have went but after spending alot of time with them then the feelings start. Shouldve busted out then. lol
does she know how you feel. Some guys don't tell you how they feel, I know that's how it started with my bestfriend, we hung out in started fallen in love. I stopped talking recently cause he's so confusing.
1219

United States

#53 Sep 19, 2013
adj wrote:
You give me a really creepy feeling. Intense drama. I can tell that you are bad news. No wonder he left you. You are the kind of person who uses somebody else up.
No, making a judgement like that based on posts about a specific topic and emotion really isn't a sound way to determine another character. The last post was a response to the person the post was about, they posted in the thread.
Slimshadyslover

Mineral Wells, WV

#54 Sep 19, 2013
True wrote:
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Don't catch feelings for a married woman or a married man. That's the beauty of it all, you get their pleasure without all the drama of a relationship.
Sometimes people don't plan to get involved with a married person..sometimes it just happens! Sometimes married people hook up with other
Married people cause we all know most marriages lack sex. I found myself looking for a man to engage in sexual activities. You figure if two married people hook up they will not cross boundaries. The sex I had was unbelievable. Amazing and basically can't be described in words! He had passion that gets me off instantly! I still consider myself sexy but my husband tells me no! We don't sleep in the same bed anymore. For 2 years this guy and I hooked up and it stopped abruptly! I was not happy about it and till this day all I can think about is touching him and feeling him on me. You have to not allow any thing special happen and strictly talk only to hook up for sex. That is how we did it for a couple years. We haven't been together for a while but I'm sure someday will happen again. I hope it does. As for now he is happily married and for me...I haven't been happy for years. I don't like not having hot sex. Having an affair is not for the weak. It takes a lot of control not to cross lines and develop feelings. If you find yourself in a affair about to happen make it clear from the start that it is sex only and don't want anyone falling in love. We did that from the beginning. I have to say he is the only guy that has not ended up addicted to me. I'm one of those type people get addicted to! Not a good thing! I feel showing love is a weakness anymore and TRUE LOVE doesn't exist.
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Prick

Charleston, WV

#56 Sep 19, 2013
Cinnamon wrote:
<quoted text>does she know how you feel. Some guys don't tell you how they feel, I know that's how it started with my bestfriend, we hung out in started fallen in love. I stopped talking recently cause he's so confusing.
Yes ive told her and told her. What do you mean he is so confusing, because he doesnt comunicate well maybe?
Prick

Charleston, WV

#57 Sep 19, 2013
Slimshadyslover wrote:
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Sometimes people don't plan to get involved with a married person..sometimes it just happens! Sometimes married people hook up with other
Married people cause we all know most marriages lack sex. I found myself looking for a man to engage in sexual activities. You figure if two married people hook up they will not cross boundaries. The sex I had was unbelievable. Amazing and basically can't be described in words! He had passion that gets me off instantly! I still consider myself sexy but my husband tells me no! We don't sleep in the same bed anymore. For 2 years this guy and I hooked up and it stopped abruptly! I was not happy about it and till this day all I can think about is touching him and
feeling him on me. You have to not allow any thing special happen
and strictly talk only to hook up for sex. That is how we did it
for a couple years. We haven't been together for a while but I'm
sure someday will happen again. I hope it does. As for now he is
happily married and for me...I haven't been happy for years. I
don't like not having hot sex. Having an affair is not for the
weak. It takes a lot of control not to cross lines and develop
feelings. If you find yourself in a affair about to happen make it clear from the start that it is sex only and don't want anyone falling in love. We did that from the beginning. I have to say he is the only guy that has not ended up addicted to me. I'm one of those type people get addicted to! Not a good thing! I feel showing love is a weakness anymore and TRUE LOVE doesn't exist.
Yes i agree completly with everything you said and thats what i told myself also but after years i couldnt control myself. i found myself madly in love with her and prob always will.
Cinnamon

Hockessin, DE

#58 Sep 19, 2013
Prick wrote:
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Yes ive told her and told her. What do you mean he is so confusing, because he doesnt comunicate well maybe?
yes exactly. He needs communicate better let his emotions show.
Prick

Charleston, WV

#59 Sep 19, 2013
Cinnamon wrote:
<quoted text>yes exactly. He needs communicate better let his emotions show.
Well i would put that effort in to communicate better but... seems like she has better things to do rather than to talk to me here lately. Oh well life rolls on!
Soooo

Charleston, WV

#60 Sep 19, 2013
Prick wrote:
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Well i would put that effort in to communicate better but... seems like she has better things to do rather than to talk to me here lately. Oh well life rolls on!
Go after what you've always wanted. Nobody else will ever satisfy you the way the she could. You know this already.. Somehow get the message to her.
Prick

Charleston, WV

#61 Sep 20, 2013
Believe me shes gotten the mess plenty, she refuses to live for herself and atleast give being happy a chance. shes so scared of taking that chance that its taking a toll on her life, depressed n stuff but i can only do so much, you cant force someone to be with you. And theres a time where i gotta think of myself and atleast try to be happy. But yeah im afraid that you're right theres nobody thats ever going to make me feel the way she makes me feel and thats not cool.
Captain Obvious

United States

#62 Sep 20, 2013
Best advice I heard to help me is "don't cross oceans for someone who won't cross puddles for you"
Slimshadyslover

Mineral Wells, WV

#63 Sep 20, 2013
Prick wrote:
Believe me shes gotten the mess plenty, she refuses to live for herself and atleast give being happy a chance. shes so scared of taking that chance that its taking a toll on her life, depressed n stuff but i can only do so much, you cant force someone to be with you. And theres a time where i gotta think of myself and atleast try to be happy. But yeah im afraid that you're right theres nobody thats ever going to make me feel the way she makes me feel and thats not cool.
It is sad feeling like that! I know how u feel! Been there...still there! I am a recovering addict and have learned that being truly happy DOES NOT happen often! It is awesome to try and make the people around you happy but what about a persons own happiness! Everyone is entitled to be content! If she is making everyone happy but herself then reality is she will be miserable! I don't know if she is holding a marriage together for children or what but if she is that is still all the wrong reasons! A family is not determined by two parents living under the same roof! A family is defined by love and caring and sticking together no matter what!
Cinnamon

Chesapeake, OH

#64 Sep 20, 2013
Prick wrote:
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Well i would put that effort in to communicate better but... seems like she has better things to do rather than to talk to me here lately. Oh well life rolls on!
maybe she's waiting for you to call. I know I'm waiting for him to call me. He was sweet at first gave me his grandma necklace one time we talked four hours. Now he acts so weird. So I decided to work it out with the father of my kid. Cause the pain. Isn't worth it.
Miss Purly

United States

#65 Sep 20, 2013
You move on of course but NEVER get over the love of your life. I spent 10yrs with mine. We've been apart 12 & have remained friends. I would rather have him in my life as a friend than not in my life at all. Plus we were very young & actually are closer now. If it is meant to be for us to reunite one day it will happen. We are both in other relationships now but no one will ever fill his shoes.

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