need to know

Charleston, WV

#1 Jan 19, 2013
If you asked your husband for the pass codes for his 2 Facebook accounts and he refused and then deleted them, he got defensive, what's your thoughts?
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Dr Phil

Charleston, WV

#3 Jan 19, 2013
Divorce him
james

Charleston, WV

#4 Jan 19, 2013
First of all would you give your passwords to him without being defensive? Second how did you ask him? Third why would you want to get on his accounts? Juat because he wouldn't let you on them doesn't mean he was doing anything wrong he night have been using one or both of the aqccounts to plan a suprise party, trip, or special event. If you started accusing him of wrong doing and used an attitude I don't blame him for shutting them down. Remember that there is always the possability that he is innocent of any wrong doing.
think about it

Montgomery, WV

#5 Jan 19, 2013
need to know wrote:
If you asked your husband for the pass codes for his 2 Facebook accounts and he refused and then deleted them, he got defensive, what's your thoughts?
He's hiding something! I caught my husband cheating, he left, he started dating the girl but he still booty calls me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
alabama man

Northfork, WV

#6 Jan 19, 2013
think about it wrote:
<quoted text>
He's hiding something! I caught my husband cheating, he left, he started dating the girl but he still booty calls me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
lol, you are pathetic then
think about it

Montgomery, WV

#7 Jan 19, 2013
alabama man wrote:
<quoted text>lol, you are pathetic then
Never said I'm still sleeping with him, he just still calls/texts for sex. I'm smarter than that!
alabama man

Northfork, WV

#8 Jan 19, 2013
well, i take it back
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need to know

Chesapeake, OH

#10 Jan 19, 2013
think about it wrote:
<quoted text>He's hiding something! I caught my husband cheating, he left, he started dating the girl but he still booty calls me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Yes I feel he is... I've given him a chance to admit it but he just gets defensive.
autumn

Charleston, WV

#11 Jan 19, 2013
If time passes and he says you can...then that would also make me wonder if while that time passed if he didn't delete some things. I have been married for over 20 years and I can tell you that if a man gets upset that you would even ask such a thing...well that right there is your answer. Watching a mans face has always taught me something. I once dated a guy in high school, every time I would catch him up in a lie, his face and cheeks would turns red like Santa Clause. I would watch him like a hawk, follow him. Sometimes you have to play as dirty as they do.
BEreal

Chesapeake, OH

#12 Jan 26, 2013
james wrote:
First of all would you give your passwords to him without being defensive? Second how did you ask him? Third why would you want to get on his accounts? Juat because he wouldn't let you on them doesn't mean he was doing anything wrong he night have been using one or both of the aqccounts to plan a suprise party, trip, or special event. If you started accusing him of wrong doing and used an attitude I don't blame him for shutting them down.
Remember that there is always the possability
that he is innocent of any wrong doing.
You are exactly right. I think it's soo hippacritical or however you spell it please for all you teachers out there forgive me but anyways I think it's so
hipp.... For someone to get mad or even break it off with you for in her case him not wanting to
give the codes, in my case let's just say talking to someone, when they let's just say again do the same thing as I did but it's different and it's so bad and awful that I did it. Why do people have such doublestandards? I myself think they are just being plain selfish and just by not looking at what they do and not willing to try to work
it out are plain and simple hippacrits!
Anonymous

Elkview, WV

#13 Jan 26, 2013
think about it wrote:
<quoted text>
He's hiding something! I caught my husband cheating, he left, he started dating the girl but he still booty calls me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. I am guilty of cheating once got divorced met a wonderful new woman who i love very much and have never nor would i ever cheat on her. I think maybe it's the situation you're in honesty i have learned the hard way is the best policy if he's not hiding anything give up the passwords
BEhappy

Chesapeake, OH

#14 Jan 26, 2013
Dozerman70 wrote:
<quoted text>I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. I am guilty of cheating once got divorced met a wonderful new woman who i love very much and have never nor would i ever cheat on her. I think maybe it's the situation you're in honesty i have learned the hard way is the best policy if he's not hiding anything give up the passwords
Good point! The situation.
Survivor

Charlotte, NC

#15 Jun 13, 2014
Anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. I am guilty of cheating once got divorced met a wonderful new woman who i love very much and have never nor would i ever cheat on her. I think maybe it's the situation you're in honesty i have learned the hard way is the best policy if he's not hiding anything give up the passwords
"I love very much and have never nor would I ever cheat on her".
Let me see....I'd venture to say that you've said those words at least once before pertaining to the love of your life who you "cheated on only once"! The spouse that you promised God that you would never forsake, for better and for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health...'till death do you part!
Cheating and distrust go hand in hand......I wouldn't trust you as far as I could throw you! I find you extremely humorous! That's a good one! Your initials aren't JEG by chance are they? Lol!
your gut---

Charleston, WV

#16 Jun 14, 2014
need to know wrote:
If you asked your husband for the pass codes for his 2 Facebook accounts and he refused and then deleted them, he got defensive, what's your thoughts?
Trust your gut---
Fat Fannie

Charleston, WV

#17 Jun 14, 2014
And if you have a gut, you get what you deserve.

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