i dont know

Alexandria, VA

#66 Feb 17, 2013
Ya Know wrote:
If a man or woman cheats it is all in how they were raised their parents must not have taught them any morals at all because if they did then they would be honest and end the marriage that way the husband or wife wouldn't get hurt, also I believe that it is as much the other woman or mans fault also because you know it takes two. So if you feel the need to cheat just don't do it and get a divorce and move on it isn't fair to the one being faithful.
Amen!! I've been cheated on and I think about it everyday and it's a hurt that is painful but I stayed with him and now I worry everyday, is he going to cheat again?
Winky

Alexandria, VA

#67 Feb 17, 2013
i dont know wrote:
<quoted text>
Amen!! I've been cheated on and I think about it everyday and it's a hurt that is painful but I stayed with him and now I worry everyday, is he going to cheat again?
Yes
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mm

Charleston, WV

#69 Feb 18, 2013
Ask Candice Keenan
Judy Bob

Charlottesville, VA

#70 Feb 18, 2013
Because they are experienced lickers.
qi

Nitro, WV

#71 Feb 18, 2013
Unfortunately, because they can......
wondering

Charleston, WV

#72 Feb 18, 2013
I'm married male. Where can I find one of these women? Lol
Fellow female

Alexandria, VA

#73 Feb 18, 2013
Ask Peggy Borth at TMH...
Oh the lack of humanity

Alexandria, VA

#74 Feb 18, 2013
People aren't faithful because it is not in the human makeup to be monogamous. Men cheat because they can. Plain and simple. Women cheat because they can. Men and women both are guilty of this behavior.
wondering

Alexandria, VA

#75 Feb 18, 2013
Fellow female wrote:
Ask Peggy Borth at TMH...
Is she hot?
playing with fire

Coraopolis, PA

#76 Feb 18, 2013
Oh the lack of humanity wrote:
People aren't faithful because it is not in the human makeup to be monogamous. Men cheat because they can. Plain and simple. Women cheat because they can. Men and women both are guilty of this behavior.
Pretty much sums it up. I don't even know why people bother getting married
Oh the lack of humanity

Alexandria, VA

#77 Feb 18, 2013
People get married because they are told from the beginning of life that it is what they must do. People get married because society makes being single a very shameful and unwanted state of being.
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humph

Alexandria, VA

#79 Feb 19, 2013
People get married because of the tax incentives!!!!!
it hurts

Alexandria, VA

#80 Feb 19, 2013
playing with fire wrote:
<quoted text>Pretty much sums it up. I don't even know why people bother getting married
Honestly I don't either, once a cheater, always a cheater !!! So hurtful and u never 4 get!!!
playing with fire

New Castle, PA

#81 Feb 19, 2013
it hurts wrote:
<quoted text>Honestly I don't either, once a cheater, always a cheater !!! So hurtful and u never 4 get!!!
You never forget but what you learn from it lasts a lifetime.
playing with fire

New Castle, PA

#82 Feb 19, 2013
Oh the lack of humanity wrote:
People get married because they are told from the beginning of life that it is what they must do. People get married because society makes being single a very shameful and unwanted state of being.
Well said and so true.
oh the lack of humanity

Charleston, WV

#83 Feb 19, 2013
if a man (or woman) cheats once, you can also bet that he/she will do it again. Chances are if you caught your little cheater, then it's not the first time they cheated, just the first time they got caught. People don't change unless something drastic forces them to do it. If fidelity is a deal breaker, cut ties and move on--cause it will happen again (and again). If there is something worth saving in your relationship, then just deal with the fact that you have a partner who craves variety. Lots of relationships thrive on a "don't ask" policy and everyone is happy.
the exception

United States

#84 Feb 19, 2013
I think that the married party is the one the spouse should be pissed about. I for one met a guy, lived in diff states but kept in constant contact and met up several times a year and I fell in love with him. Over the course of several years a little information comes from time to time. I was in college and wasn't ready to get.married so I was happy with not getting married at the time so I never. Questioned the reason y he never asked and he was in the military so he never moved because of that. We Hung out with his friends who never said anything. I've visited him he visited me. No reason to ever think he was married. But after about four years of long distance stuff I graduated and was ready to move on in life. That's when I found out he was actually still married with three kids. under one roof. The story I was told was that he was previously married but seperated then divorced and had two kids and then knocked her up once drunk when they were " working it out" . When I found out I was pissed and felt like a complete moron. I broke it off with several heated conversations. I didn't talk to him at all until about two years later he got back from overseas and contacted me and said he was really divorced for "real" this time. I was skeptical but his friend said yeah its true so he did sweet talk me because I still had a lot of feelings for him. I already had a job in my state and had some family issues that prevented me from moving. So this goes on about another year still visiting each other super happy. And then I get this nasty b!tchy email from the snarky wife that apparently he never did divorce. I understand she should be pissed but.. in my instance it had been about 8 years since I met him, I broke it off when I found out he was married and then I was deceived again so how is it ok that I get the brunt of all the hatred and be threatened to have all my personal stuff posted online and my professional career ruined and my family harassed and have not just her but every wicthy friend of hers harass me when yes I was stupid gullible and naive but I never intentionally tried to be a " slutty homewrecker." It was all her husbands crap that made the mess but I had to deal with the aftermath when I was just as much a victim as her. That's y I don't think women should jump to conclusions and automatically start trying to ruin the other woman's life. Just saying get ur facts straight first. And yes after I finally did respond to the wife we had several messages and I never contacted him again. I have no reason to. But.. all my info and pictures which I thought were private with my boyfriend are in the hands of a scorned wife to use whenever she gets the notion to Piss off the husband. So really people shouldn't be such b!tches to the other woman all the time. Or characterize her as all the comments on here seem to do. Just a thought to all those who think they know all about everything.

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#85 Feb 19, 2013
the exception wrote:
I think that the married party is the one the spouse should be pissed about. I for one met a guy, lived in diff states but kept in constant contact and met up several times a year and I fell in love with him. Over the course of several years a little information comes from time to time. I was in college and wasn't ready to get.married so I was happy with not getting married at the time so I never. Questioned the reason y he never asked and he was in the military so he never moved because of that. We Hung out with his friends who never said anything. I've visited him he visited me. No reason to ever think he was married. But after about four years of long distance stuff I graduated and was ready to move on in life. That's when I found out he was actually still married with three kids. under one roof. The story I was told was that he was previously married but seperated then divorced and had two kids and then knocked her up once drunk when they were " working it out" . When I found out I was pissed and felt like a complete moron. I broke it off with several heated conversations. I didn't talk to him at all until about two years later he got back from overseas and contacted me and said he was really divorced for "real" this time. I was skeptical but his friend said yeah its true so he did sweet talk me because I still had a lot of feelings for him. I already had a job in my state and had some family issues that prevented me from moving. So this goes on about another year still visiting each other super happy. And then I get this nasty b!tchy email from the snarky wife that apparently he never did divorce. I understand she should be pissed but.. in my instance it had been about 8 years since I met him, I broke it off when I found out he was married and then I was deceived again so how is it ok that I get the brunt of all the hatred and be threatened to have all my personal stuff posted online and my professional career ruined and my family harassed and have not just her but every wicthy friend of hers harass me when yes I was stupid gullible and naive but I never intentionally tried to be a " slutty homewrecker." It was all her husbands crap that made the mess but I had to deal with the aftermath when I was just as much a victim as her. That's y I don't think women should jump to conclusions and automatically start trying to ruin the other woman's life. Just saying get ur facts straight first. And yes after I finally did respond to the wife we had several messages and I never contacted him again. I have no reason to. But.. all my info and pictures which I thought were private with my boyfriend are in the hands of a scorned wife to use whenever she gets the notion to Piss off the husband. So really people shouldn't be such b!tches to the other woman all the time. Or characterize her as all the comments on here seem to do. Just a thought to all those who think they know all about everything.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If you find out he's been cheating with you; don't ever think he won't cheat on you as well! And as for lying? Once a liar, always a liar. Use common sense sweetheart!
Juliet

Washington, DC

#86 Feb 20, 2013
Jimmy wrote:
<quoted text>My wife sleeps with a married man every night.
If you are the "Jimmy" I think you are? Too bad YOU DON'T!!!
Juliet

Washington, DC

#87 Feb 20, 2013
i dont know wrote:
<quoted text>
Amen!! I've been cheated on and I think about it everyday and it's a hurt that is painful but I stayed with him and now I worry everyday, is he going to cheat again?
He is. Once a cheater - always a cheater. Sorry, but a leopard doesn't change it's spots.

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