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IWarnedYou

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So not being happy at home is a GOOD honest reason for cheating!!!!! Why doesnt anyone take marriage vows serious anymore
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#45
Feb 4, 2013
 
No, it's not a good reason. I've been cheated on by a spouse. It's a horrible experience. What I learned was that if he (or vice versa) isn't happy at home he will go elsewhere to find his happiness. Sometimes people fall out of love, stress drives them apart, sometimes we simply marry the wrong person for all the wrong reasons. There are all sorts of reasons why a marriage can fail and someone cheats. Once someone cheats there really isn't much
Hope. Trust issues are hard to overcome.
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#46
Feb 4, 2013
 
taylor wrote:
<quoted text>So if you are this single "we'll educated professional" only looking for a discreet romp in the hay..why with a married man. They're a lot if single men just like you that want the same! Why go through the drama of "hiding it from the wife?" I believe that there is something more to your logic then you are saying. I've been on both sides you see. The mistress and the wife that was cheated on. There is an addiction to the role that you play "the sexy mistress" it makes you feel good about yourself in this sort of a sick way. He has a loving wife, kids, and a perfect life...yet he his still looking at you...think about it honestly
If his life is PERFECT..why cheat?
IWarnedYou

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#47
Feb 4, 2013
 
I was cheated on by my husband of 19 years we had an amazing sex life.....and trust....no you never get that back because every time we made love after i was always thinking does he or did he do that to her.....very very hurtful
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sick wrote:
<quoted text>You are as stupid as you write!! It's called cheating and as far as the woman having sex w a married man, well that tells me she is a nasty slut:) why break up a family, when there are plenty of single men? Hmmmm you are a low life!!
And that married man cheating? What is he?
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#49
Feb 4, 2013
 
IWarnedYou wrote:
I was cheated on by my husband of 19 years we had an amazing sex life.....and trust....no you never get that back because every time we made love after i was always thinking does he or did he do that to her.....very very hurtful
It leaves a lifelong scar. But I never just blamed the other woman. We were all at fault when it came down to the bottom line. Of course it took several years to see that. He's now with the woman he left me for. Sometimes married people do indeed fall in love with someone other than their spouse. Sad but true
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Because they don't care to stab another woman in the back and destroy a family. Ask a couple CAMC ER nurses. They know all about that!
IWarnedYou

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#51
Feb 4, 2013
 
Yea or your next neighbor that u have to see every day
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Hmmm wrote:
Because they don't care to stab another woman in the back and destroy a family. Ask a couple CAMC ER nurses. They know all about that!
Some women enjoy the game of back stabbing. And really, if your husband is cheating, lying SOS, what are you losing?? Absolutely nothing.
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#53
Feb 5, 2013
 
a lot of women have a grass is always greener on the other side attitude. that's why i like to have a girlfriend because they like it better when they think your choosing them over her. a hot wife or gf are the ultimate wingmen. i know guys who wear fake wedding rings just to draw in the snatch.
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SayCheese wrote:
<quoted text>If his life is PERFECT..why cheat?
Ego, self-esteem, addiction to cheating...it gives them a rush to do these things. Most have cheated in every relationship and that's all they know how to do. Don't matter if they are happy with their wife or not.
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taylor wrote:
<quoted text>Ego, self-esteem, addiction to cheating...it gives them a rush to do these things. Most have cheated in every relationship and that's all they know how to do. Don't matter if they are happy with their wife or not.
Men cheat bottom line!!! Denial is what women have!! And the women know they r married and they do not care!! They both are worthless humans! I know I was cheated on and it hurts at first and then you start to hate him!!! Sad!! Pathetic world!!!
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#56
Feb 5, 2013
 
IWarnedYou wrote:
Seriously?
My wife sleeps with a married man every night.
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Jimmy wrote:
<quoted text>My wife sleeps with a married man every night.
lol thats cute
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If a man or woman cheats it is all in how they were raised their parents must not have taught them any morals at all because if they did then they would be honest and end the marriage that way the husband or wife wouldn't get hurt, also I believe that it is as much the other woman or mans fault also because you know it takes two. So if you feel the need to cheat just don't do it and get a divorce and move on it isn't fair to the one being faithful.
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Guilty wrote:
This will be my last response as I have a meeting. I honestly believe that if someone gets caught cheating it is because they wanted to be caught. We are beyond discreet out of respect for each other.
Bev, We may not agree and I have never said that what I do is right for everyone but it is right for me at this time in my life.
Have a good day...
I can't wait until you get what is coming to you. One day you will be on the other end. On that day remember what you said here.
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#60
Feb 8, 2013
 
because they were molested!
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because they were molested!
Is that you liz? Lmao
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wow wrote:
Here's what I don't get. Why is it always the "home wreckin' whore" who is laid to blame? She's not married, and likely the dude bangin' her LIED to her about his marital status.
Stop blamin' the other woman, and start keeping your house in order.
Married men cheat because they're not happy with what they're getting at home. Period.
Very well said...it's not the woman fault...he is to blame....he is either greety or just not happy at home
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The homewreckin girl is just as guilty as the man. Who ever just wants to take it out on the man and not the other female is either scared of the other female or shes just a simple B. The homewreckers deserve to get the blame along with the cheating husband or wife and who ever doesn't agree with me on that is either a homewrecker themselves or their just a plain simple B who's afraid of the other person.

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