wow

Charleston, WV

#24 Feb 4, 2013
Here's what I don't get. Why is it always the "home wreckin' whore" who is laid to blame? She's not married, and likely the dude bangin' her LIED to her about his marital status.

Stop blamin' the other woman, and start keeping your house in order.

Married men cheat because they're not happy with what they're getting at home. Period.

Since: Nov 11

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#25 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
I have been sleeping with a married man for a couple of years. I eventually gave in to his relentless hounding.

It is not something that I take lightly but I also have no illusions of having a relationship with him other than the sex.

I'm single and don't see him as relationship material but rather someone that I enjoy having sex with. It is simply just sex. Why would I want a relationship with someone that cheats on their wife?
Because it elevates your low self esteem to know your the OW! What you aren't realizing is he is reducing you to nothing more than being a whore! You have no self respect, no respect for your fellow women, his children (if he has any), which further reduces your morals to damn near about zero!
Your damaging (with this creeps help of course and he is first and foremost to blame), a family, a marriage, your own emotional well being and self esteem!
Remember.....what comes around goes around!
Just sayin'!
Kerri

Charleston, WV

#26 Feb 4, 2013
I agree! I know someone who has been seeing a married man for a couple of years now and he keeps lying to her. That is all this man knows how to do. If his mouth is moving than he is lying. I can see thru his bullshit but she wants to believe him. His wife obviously believes him too because she stays right where she is at. I don't know why these girls stay with him because he has been a cheater all of his life and neither one of them are going to change his cheating ways. He is having his cake and eating it too!
forgetaboutit

Alexandria, VA

#27 Feb 4, 2013
Geez be, that's a little harsh don't you think? You ever realise.that it takes two to tango? You want lay blame solely on the female... Besides, you obviously have no.idea that a lot of people see sex as just that,, sex, No.emotional connection, no relationships, just seeing someone that is attractive and having some fun... But i.can tell you this for 1000% sure, if a guy cheats on his wife/girlfriend, its because she isn't giving him what he needs at home..
wow

Charleston, WV

#28 Feb 4, 2013
Bev Grey wrote:
<quoted text>
Because it elevates your low self esteem to know your the OW! What you aren't realizing is he is reducing you to nothing more than being a whore! You have no self respect, no respect for your fellow women, his children (if he has any), which further reduces your morals to damn near about zero!
Your damaging (with this creeps help of course and he is first and foremost to blame), a family, a marriage, your own emotional well being and self esteem!
Remember.....what comes around goes around!
Just sayin'!
You don't sound bitter at all *rolls eyes*
?

Charleston, WV

#29 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
I have been sleeping with a married man for a couple of years. I eventually gave in to his relentless hounding.

It is not something that I take lightly but I also have no illusions of having a relationship with him other than the sex.

I'm single and don't see him as relationship material but rather someone that I enjoy having sex with. It is simply just sex. Why would I want a relationship with someone that cheats on their wife?
So my question to you is did you know he was married before you started messing with him or after?

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#30 Feb 4, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
Geez be, that's a little harsh don't you think? You ever realise.that it takes two to tango? You want lay blame solely on the female... Besides, you obviously have no.idea that a lot of people see sex as just that,, sex, No.emotional connection, no relationships, just seeing someone that is attractive and having some fun... But i.can tell you this for 1000% sure, if a guy cheats on his wife/girlfriend, its because she isn't giving him what he needs at home..
You need to reread what I said sweety! I plainly stated the creep is first and foremost to blame!
I simply hold no respect for fellow women who do these things to other women! If we wouldn't allow it, men wouldn't cheat!
She hit the nail right on the head when she said, "why would she want a relationship with a man who cheats on his wife"? So why has she reduces herself to be involved in such?
He's not the only man around with a pecker! I'm sure she could meet plenty who are more than willing to have a wonderfully fun sexual fling w a beautiful woman AND THEY ARE UNATTACHED!
It simply is a way for her to feel good about herself because of low self esteem!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#31 Feb 4, 2013
[QUOTE who="?"]<quoted text>So my question to you is did you know he was married before you started messing with him or after?[/QUOTE]
She said she "finally gave in to his hounding". Sounds ta me like she knew but initially refused for awhile.
Guilty

Charleston, WV

#32 Feb 4, 2013
Bev Grey wrote:
<quoted text>
Because it elevates your low self esteem to know your the OW! What you aren't realizing is he is reducing you to nothing more than being a whore! You have no self respect, no respect for your fellow women, his children (if he has any), which further reduces your morals to damn near about zero!
Your damaging (with this creeps help of course and he is first and foremost to blame), a family, a marriage, your own emotional well being and self esteem!
Remember.....what comes around goes around!
Just sayin'!
Wow... here I always thought that my self esteem was high. See here is the thing Bev. I know that the only thing that I need a man for is SEX. I don't need him to pay my bills or keep a roof over my head. I am an educated professional and can take care of myself but I enjoy a good ole' romp in the sheets occasionally.

I could walk in any bar in Charleston and take someone home but I prefer a discreet long term relationship in order to maintain my professional reputation.

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#33 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
<quoted text>Wow... here I always thought that my self esteem was high. See here is the thing Bev. I know that the only thing that I need a man for is SEX. I don't need him to pay my bills or keep a roof over my head. I am an educated professional and can take care of myself but I enjoy a good ole' romp in the sheets occasionally.

I could walk in any bar in Charleston and take someone home but I prefer a discreet long term relationship in order to maintain my professional reputation.
That's great that your such an independent woman! I like that! Sleeping with a married man? That's hardly discreet; considering if the wife finds out! That's the worse thing that could happen to your "reputation" my dear!
Think about those possible consequences! Your much too intelligent for that can of worms, wouldn't you think?
Guilty

Charleston, WV

#34 Feb 4, 2013
This will be my last response as I have a meeting. I honestly believe that if someone gets caught cheating it is because they wanted to be caught. We are beyond discreet out of respect for each other.

Bev, We may not agree and I have never said that what I do is right for everyone but it is right for me at this time in my life.

Have a good day...
?

Charleston, WV

#35 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
This will be my last response as I have a meeting. I honestly believe that if someone gets caught cheating it is because they wanted to be caught. We are beyond discreet out of respect for each other.

Bev, We may not agree and I have never said that what I do is right for everyone but it is right for me at this time in my life.

Have a good day...
See this is where you are wrong if he wanted to be caught he wouldn't be sneaking around in the first place. As you stated before you've been messing with a married man for a few years which tells you he has no intentions of leaving his wife for you or any other woman. Men who want to get caught I would like to think would just leave not sneak around. It's whores like you who makes it easy for a married man to cheat. I don't blame the woman but obviously you went into this knowing that he was married so you are just as wrong as he is. Shame Shame Shame!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#36 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
This will be my last response as I have a meeting. I honestly believe that if someone gets caught cheating it is because they wanted to be caught. We are beyond discreet out of respect for each other.

Bev, We may not agree and I have never said that what I do is right for everyone but it is right for me at this time in my life.

Have a good day...
You have a wonderful day as well! ;)
forgetaboutit

Alexandria, VA

#37 Feb 4, 2013
What does it matter if he is single or married, if all a woman is wanting is a romp in the sack, it doesn't matter who it is with, she gets what she wants, he gets what he's NOT getting at home, and its no different than banging a stranger
Bev Grey wrote:
<quoted text>
You need to reread what I said sweety! I plainly stated the creep is first and foremost to blame!
I simply hold no respect for fellow women who do these things to other women! If we wouldn't allow it, men wouldn't cheat!
She hit the nail right on the head when she said, "why would she want a relationship with a man who cheats on his wife"? So why has she reduces herself to be involved in such?
He's not the only man around with a pecker! I'm sure she could meet plenty who are more than willing to have a wonderfully fun sexual fling w a beautiful woman AND THEY ARE UNATTACHED!
It simply is a way for her to feel good about herself because of low self esteem!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#38 Feb 4, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
<quoted text>What does it matter if he is single or married, if all a woman is wanting is a romp in the sack, it doesn't matter who it is with, she gets what she wants, he gets what he's NOT getting at home, and its no different than banging a stranger
It's called morals; but some folks don't care about that! For myself, it's a personal thing between me and my savior!
?

Alexandria, VA

#39 Feb 4, 2013
Bev Grey wrote:
<quoted text>It's called morals; but some folks don't care about that! For myself, it's a personal thing between me and my savior!
Some people don't understand... I totally respect everything that you've said.
sick

Alexandria, VA

#40 Feb 4, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
<quoted text>What does it matter if he is single or married, if all a woman is wanting is a romp in the sack, it doesn't matter who it is with, she gets what she wants, he gets what he's NOT getting at home, and its no different than banging a stranger
You are as stupid as you write!! It's called cheating and as far as the woman having sex w a married man, well that tells me she is a nasty slut:) why break up a family, when there are plenty of single men? Hmmmm you are a low life!!
taylor

Danville, WV

#41 Feb 4, 2013
Guilty wrote:
<quoted text>Wow... here I always thought that my self esteem was high. See here is the thing Bev. I know that the only thing that I need a man for is SEX. I don't need him to pay my bills or keep a roof over my head. I am an educated professional and can take care of myself but I enjoy a good ole' romp in the sheets occasionally.

I could walk in any bar in Charleston and take someone home but I prefer a discreet long term relationship in order to maintain my professional reputation.
So if you are this single "we'll educated professional" only looking for a discreet romp in the hay..why with a married man. They're a lot if single men just like you that want the same! Why go through the drama of "hiding it from the wife?" I believe that there is something more to your logic then you are saying. I've been on both sides you see. The mistress and the wife that was cheated on. There is an addiction to the role that you play "the sexy mistress" it makes you feel good about yourself in this sort of a sick way. He has a loving wife, kids, and a perfect life...yet he his still looking at you...think about it honestly
forgetaboutit

Charleston, WV

#42 Feb 4, 2013
Lol stupid? Just because I know how women and men think and what makes them tick? Trust me, the people that try the hardest to look happy, are the most unhappy..
SayCheese

Brunswick, OH

#43 Feb 4, 2013
So, what you women are saying is that a woman is a slut if she sleeps with a married man, well what about the married man sleeping with the other woman? What's he, a saint? Obviously you don't have much of a marriage if your man is sleeping with someone else. How is the other woman wrecking a home and a family? I doubt his arm was twisted if indeed he didn't start the whole affair. All you have is a lovely little piece of paper that says your entitled to half. Its Not a guarantee that the marriage will work out, that you're both in love with each other and that anything is going to last till death do you part. You don't own your husband. He isn't property for you to control. If you aren't making him happy, someone else is going to do it for you. That doesn't make her a slut, it makes her an opportunist. It's highly doubtful she feels bad about it or cares what or how the wife feels. A happy man will not stray and an unhappy man deserves to be happy. Bottom line.

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