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taylor

Madison, WV

#22 Feb 2, 2013
faith wrote:
<quoted text>Fact of Life I have something to ask you.but first I am going to give a little of my oppinion and facts. I am going to try my best not to judge you, for I dont know you but here it goes:

I dont know your reasons for cheating; whether it is something you feel she has done to make you do it or something that you feel makes you feel superior or important but please hear me out.

Whether she is a good wife and mother or not, at some point, I am going to assume you loved her, because you married her. 1 example I am going to give you here,(and I know, it never happens to the good person that means well, or is inferior, believe me it does) But have you ever heard of HPV??? to most it is something that may go away, have a procedure and it is gone.

It is a sexually transmitted diease that 99% of men dont know they carry until their wife or girlfriend is diagnosed with it... IT IS THE #1 Reason for CANCER of the cervix. There is a 1% Chance of getting this cancer with out you or your partner having the diease. It can be something that is taken care of in the doctors office, but it can also be something that can kill your wife.. You may think.. I am healthy she doesnt have that.. sometimes it is too late to know. It may not have a physical sign like herpes or the clap... Look up on google total pelvic extraction. Your wife may not know you are cheating, and think everything is fine, but what happens when she goes to the doctor for bad cramps or abnormal bleeding, and they tell her it is stage 3 or 4 cancer!!! What will your children think of you when Mommy looses her hair and is sick because daddy wanted to have a good time for about 10 mins?!?! you think this does not happen.. look it up. I DARE YOU!!! And what will she think.. Some woman who trust there husbands dont get an annual pap smear as they should, they see no reason for it... Please think of how you will explain this to your children if something were to happen to their mom when they are old enough to understand what happened!!! Then will that 10min thrill at a hotel with whats her name had been worth it??? You as a man will not know you are a carrier of this, it will be your wife that informs you when her test comes back bad!!!

AND!! there are more cases of this dieases than you think. It is the #1 leading cancer among woman (Mostly not their fault)... Sometimes it can be taken care of, but it always has a consequence..could be surgery, or their life...

Please look this up and think about it!!!
Thank you!!! These men need to know. They think it is all fun and games. They need to grow up and look at how it effects their whole family.
Charles Manson

Charlottesville, VA

#23 Feb 2, 2013
Look to your momma!
Facts of a fake life

Charleston, WV

#24 Feb 2, 2013
Fact of life wrote:
Gooch i didn't say i was proud of cheating on my wife i was just being brutally honest about it. And since you brought it up i highly doubt that my Lord and Saviour will condemn me to hell to burn for all eternity just because i had sex with other women while i was married. Did our Lord not give us our sex drive?
I work everyday and pay taxes and my bills on time and i have a nice home and two wonderful children and have plenty of friends who care and respect me. I am not a bad person or dishonest in anyway. I just like to have sex with other women on occasions and that is all there is to it. Hell i even go to church around once a month with my parents if they ask.
But when i get old and all wrinkled up and my sex life is over i'll have some sweet ass memories to look back on.
Surely to god you are kidding lol. You sound like a complete moron. You should run back to the cave you crawled out of cro magnon. Not even close to the amount of men you think cheat. Just a few nasty trashy pieces of crap like you. You will burn in hell if there is one as one of the most basic commandments of ADULTERY u are taking a huge dump on. Sounds like your parents should have FORCED you to go to church more as a child. Or maybe you were scarred by watching dad bang a choir lady. Who knows. You will eventually get caught before your balls have a chance to rot off and get saggy and I hope your old lady takes you for everything lol or you die of aids first. Skank
TruthIs

Charleston, WV

#25 Feb 2, 2013
Fact of life wrote:
SMH
Let me tell you something you may not want to hear or even believe, but it's true. Almost every man in this country will cheat on his wife or girlfriend at some point during their relationship. No matter how long together. Now keep in mind there will be a few who do not cheat, but i can damned well guarantee you more do than don't. I've been married 15 years now and began cheating on her two weeks after we started dating and after we were married i had my first affair in less than a month.
I know one man who had sex with another woman the very next night after he was married.
who think their husbands are faithful are living in a fantasy world.
You freaking idiot!!! Don't you understand, the only reason your wife doesn't cheat is because she probably doesn't have time!! She's to busy taking care of everyday things because her dead beat cheating, narrow minded husband can't take care of!!! I'm not stupid I know most all men cheat. What I don't get is while your loving wife is taking care of absolutely EVERYTHING and raising the children that you both conceived, you are out sticking your LITTLE thing in every ho coming and going!! How the heck do you lay your head down at night???
All I can say is GOOD LUCK, KARMA is a biotch and it will catch up to you and the hoes your catching god knows what from!!!!!!
Charles Manson

Charlottesville, VA

#26 Feb 2, 2013
Fact of life. Never turn anything down even if it is face down.
CheaterCheaterPu mkinEater

Alexandria, VA

#27 Feb 2, 2013
If you are so furious at your man for cheating then why don't you go out and find you someone to cheat with? If you can't beat em join em!
TruthIs wrote:
<quoted text>
You freaking idiot!!! Don't you understand, the only reason your wife doesn't cheat is because she probably doesn't have time!! She's to busy taking care of everyday things because her dead beat cheating, narrow minded husband can't take care of!!! I'm not stupid I know most all men cheat. What I don't get is while your loving wife is taking care of absolutely EVERYTHING and raising the children that you both conceived, you are out sticking your LITTLE thing in every ho coming and going!! How the heck do you lay your head down at night???
All I can say is GOOD LUCK, KARMA is a biotch and it will catch up to you and the hoes your catching god knows what from!!!!!!
wondering!!??

Alexandria, VA

#28 Feb 3, 2013
How do you keep the other woman quiet?!! How do you keep from your wife ?!
Fact of life wrote:
I've cheated on my wife so many times i can't recall how many different women i've had sex with since i said those magic words "I DO". I work for a financial institution and travel frequently and when i am out of town i immediately go on the hunt for some strange. One month i bet i did so many different girls that i had to go home to my wife to get some strange.

Politicians, preachers, educators, doctors, lawyers, etc. all cheat.

Yes some men do remain faithful, and if you are one of them then good for you ( albeit i feel sorry for you ) but you have to know you are in the minority.
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Winky

Alexandria, VA

#30 Feb 3, 2013
Happy to say that I got some strange last night and it was good too!!! Now Ima fuck my wife tonight and spread the love you know what I mean wink wink! Thought about not taking a shower and letting her give me head! But idk if she will taste or smell her? Anyone ever did this? Can they tell?
amazed

Alexandria, VA

#31 Feb 4, 2013
How do you keep the other lady occupied enough to not tell the wife?
Fact of life

Charleston, WV

#32 Feb 4, 2013
You keep an affair quiet by being up front and honest with the lady you are involved with. I will tell the lady that i am happily married and have children and have no plans on any of that changing, but yes, if you would like to get together on occasions that is something i may be interested in.

Now mind you each situation is different, but that is the jist of it. Basically just be totally honest with the lady and let her know nothing can go any farther than sex. Some will go for it and some will not.

Also having anonymous one night stands out of town is really the way to go. Meet in a bar have a cocktail or two and give a phony name and have at it.

In summary one must be more honest with the lady you are having an affair with than your own wife.
question?

Alexandria, VA

#33 Feb 4, 2013
Fact of life wrote:
You keep an affair quiet by being up front and honest with the lady you are involved with. I will tell the lady that i am happily married and have children and have no plans on any of that changing, but yes, if you would like to get together on occasions that is something i may be interested in.

Now mind you each situation is different, but that is the jist of it. Basically just be totally honest with the lady and let her know nothing can go any farther than sex. Some will go for it and some will not.

Also having anonymous one night stands out of town is really the way to go. Meet in a bar have a cocktail or two and give a phony name and have at it.

In summary one must be more honest with the lady you are having an affair with than your own wife.
I think that is what would hurt the wife
More is the emotional understanding of it all btw the other woman , not the sex, but that you are closer in some ways to
The other woman .
question

United States

#34 Feb 5, 2013
Fact of life wrote:
You keep an affair quiet by being up front and honest with the lady you are involved with. I will tell the lady that i am happily married and have children and have no plans on any of that changing, but yes, if you would like to get together on occasions that is something i may be interested in.
Now mind you each situation is different, but that is the jist of it. Basically just be totally honest with the lady and let her know nothing can go any farther than sex. Some will go for it and some will not.
Also having anonymous one night stands out of town is really the way to go. Meet in a bar have a cocktail or two and give a phony name and have at it.
In summary one must be more honest with the lady you are having an affair with than your own wife.
Y would you be completely honest with the other woman when you can't be completely honest with your wife? How does that make any sense to you at all? You are one messed up dude that is for sure plus how would you feel if your wife done you the exact same way would that be alright with you?
nope

Richwood, WV

#35 Feb 5, 2013
Fact of life wrote:
You keep an affair quiet by being up front and honest with the lady you are involved with. I will tell the lady that i am happily married and have children and have no plans on any of that changing, but yes, if you would like to get together on occasions that is something i may be interested in.
Now mind you each situation is different, but that is the jist of it. Basically just be totally honest with the lady and let her know nothing can go any farther than sex. Some will go for it and some will not.
Also having anonymous one night stands out of town is really the way to go. Meet in a bar have a cocktail or two and give a phony name and have at it.
In summary one must be more honest with the lady you are having an affair with than your own wife.
that does not work most of the time because the other woman falls in love. i have been there myself and almost of the women i cheated with would get jealous of my woman and threaten to tell her. they would also get jealous of the other woman that i cheated with
cya

United States

#36 Feb 5, 2013
If you wanna have.sex with other women why not just divorce her.....because apparently you don't love or respect her or you would keep your d!ck in your pants......and absolutely your lord and saviour will condemn you its in the 10 commandments....HELLO!!!!! ITS disgusting to me you can lay down with another women then come home and sleep with your wife.....how can you even have a soul and do that to her...SMDH
nope

Richwood, WV

#37 Feb 5, 2013
cya wrote:
If you wanna have.sex with other women why not just divorce her.....because apparently you don't love or respect her or you would keep your d!ck in your pants......and absolutely your lord and saviour will condemn you its in the 10 commandments....HELLO!!!!! ITS disgusting to me you can lay down with another women then come home and sleep with your wife.....how can you even have a soul and do that to her...SMDH
that would be fine if you got everything you paid for and didn't have to pay alimony. it's not about emotion. it's about an animal urge that needs to be fulfilled in men anyway. in women most of the girls i have been with had DADDY ISSUES.
taylor

Hewett, WV

#38 Feb 5, 2013
nope wrote:
<quoted text>that would be fine if you got everything you paid for and didn't have to pay alimony. it's not about emotion. it's about an animal urge that needs to be fulfilled in men anyway. in women most of the girls i have been with had DADDY ISSUES.
Sounds like you are the one with the issues
taylor

Hewett, WV

#39 Feb 5, 2013
nope wrote:
<quoted text>that does not work most of the time because the other woman falls in love. i have been there myself and almost of the women i cheated with would get jealous of my woman and threaten to tell her. they would also get jealous of the other woman that i cheated with
Why get married in the 1st place? If you went into the marriage knowing that you couldn't or wouldn't be faithful? And is it ok for your wife to screw other guys? You could do all the screwing you want without the marriage
nope

Richwood, WV

#40 Feb 5, 2013
im not married. i am talking about girlfriends. i think it is insane for most ppl to get married.
taylor

Charleston, WV

#41 Feb 5, 2013
nope wrote:
im not married. i am talking about girlfriends. i think it is insane for most ppl to get married.
Right
I Know

Alexandria, VA

#42 Sep 30, 2013
This ain't even right.

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