CHILD SUPPORT!?!?!?! i need help asap

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Since: Aug 12

Charleston, WV

#1 Sep 18, 2012
soooo im in a rough spot at the moment. i was with this girl for a few weeks and had intercourse with her. well she had told me that she WAS NOT able to get pregnant due to some kind of genetics in her genes ( or something like that) and i am also allergic to latex so i cant wear latex condoms. we had sex 2-3 times and she got pregnant (so obviously she lied about not being able to have kids). we stopped seeing each other and we lost contact with each other for almost a year until i randomly get a message on facebook from her telling me she gave birth to "my child" and that shes taking me to court for child support. sounds like to me she was just trying to get pregnant by ANYONE just to get money (cuz she has never had a job) so is there any chance that the judge could take my side from where she lied to me just to get pregnant?
oh no

Charleston, WV

#2 Sep 18, 2012
If the child is yours you will have to pay... Ask for a paternity test!!! And there are lamb skin condoms for future reference!!!!

Since: Oct 08

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#3 Sep 18, 2012
BigMan1123 wrote:
soooo im in a rough spot at the moment. i was with this girl for a few weeks and had intercourse with her. well she had told me that she WAS NOT able to get pregnant due to some kind of genetics in her genes ( or something like that) and i am also allergic to latex so i cant wear latex condoms. we had sex 2-3 times and she got pregnant (so obviously she lied about not being able to have kids). we stopped seeing each other and we lost contact with each other for almost a year until i randomly get a message on facebook from her telling me she gave birth to "my child" and that shes taking me to court for child support. sounds like to me she was just trying to get pregnant by ANYONE just to get money (cuz she has never had a job) so is there any chance that the judge could take my side from where she lied to me just to get pregnant?
Yes you will pay bigtime. She will hold you hostage for the next 18 years and drain you anyway she can. You also have all the rights by law to be in the kids life, but id bet she will try to stop you. Abstanance works everytime its tried. Good luck from this golddigger.

Since: Aug 12

Charleston, WV

#4 Sep 18, 2012
so how much can/will they take out for child support?
oh no

Charleston, WV

#5 Sep 18, 2012
Depends on how much money you make!!!

“Think Like an Animal”

Since: Jul 12

Planet Earth

#6 Sep 18, 2012
DNA
Slam

Hurricane, WV

#7 Sep 18, 2012
They can take up to 45 percent of your pay! But in some cases they may not make you pay arrears since she just told you! But if paternity shows its yours u will pay
drake

Charleston, WV

#8 Sep 18, 2012
If she raped you then it should be pretty easy to have her arrested and get full custody. You can get WIC and Temporary Assistance for Needy Families, when she gets out she'll have to pay you child support. Just something to think about.
bigIrish

Mount Lookout, WV

#9 Sep 18, 2012
Dude, make the best of horrible situation. Yes she is entitled to damn near half your pay for the next 18yrs. I would however get a DNA test. If the kid is yours then man up and be a father. If not consider yourself lucky and quit being a dumbass and start wearing protection.
lol

Roanoke, VA

#10 Sep 18, 2012
Slam wrote:
They can take up to 45 percent of your pay! But in some cases they may not make you pay arrears since she just told you! But if paternity shows its yours u will pay
they can take your whole check if you owe back pay. I worked with a guy at the plant that made 800 a week an brought home 60 dollars a week until he was caught up.
shellbell

Grand Prairie, TX

#11 Sep 18, 2012
First of all im a woman and just because I have dealt with alot of similar situations with friends im gonna tell u like this... First of all EVERY TIME U HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL THERE'S A CHANCE SHE COULD GET PREGNANT PERIOD!!! Now having said that just because she got pregnant doesn't mean she lied to u... This could've been a miracle baby... It does happen... I also have friends who have also gotten pregnant while using condoms...pills...the shot... The ring... Only abstinence is guaranteed... Also I would definitely get a paternity test... Always get one if u have any doubt... Now this is important... DO NOT CLAIM THIS CHILD UNTIL U GET RESULTS FROM A PATERNITY TEST THAT SAYS U R THE FATHER... I say this because a friend of mine is paying for a child he later found out wasn't his but he had already claimed him and the courts basically said... Ok well ur screwed cuz ur still paying for him and now u have no visitation rights... But n the end if this is ur child please do not treat him like shit because u believe his mom is... He did not ask to come into this world but just like every child he deserves the love of 2 parents... And please don't talk bad about his mom n front of him... She is still his mom... It puts him n the middle... And he may grow up to hate u... Good luck
Bahaha

Athens, OH

#12 Sep 18, 2012
Go after custody
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Day-um

Charleston, WV

#14 Sep 20, 2012
oh no wrote:
If the child is yours you will have to pay... Ask for a paternity test!!! And there are lamb skin condoms for future reference!!!!
. Must suck to be you,,,, daddy!!
confused?

New York, NY

#15 Sep 20, 2012
Daddys have rights too wrote:
<quoted text>I hope that when you go to court, that the judge takes the child from the mother and gives you full custody. Also order the mother to get off of Welfare, get a job & pay you child support!
Good Luck Dad!
where does it say anything about him even wanting to peruse custody and why do you just assume the mother is on welfare.. my child gets no state assistance and no assistance from his father BUT he's on welfare do to some kind of "questionable" injury he's sustained this society is really screwed up and it all beings with people like this looking for loop holes to get out of taking responsibility for their actions- UNBELIEVABLE!

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#16 Sep 20, 2012
if its your child and the dna matches, u should pay. theres a consequence for our actions , dont make the child suffer. its a tough world anyhow
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skillet

Bronx, NY

#18 Oct 1, 2012
Good luck!

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