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IWarnedYou

United States

#1 Feb 4, 2013
How if you choose to try and forgive your spouse......how do you heal your heart?
Howdy

Chesapeake, OH

#2 Feb 4, 2013
It never fully heals! Some days are just better than others in forgetting!
IWarnedYou

United States

#3 Feb 4, 2013
I don't understand why.....why would you hurt someone you say you love
sct

Charleston, WV

#4 Feb 4, 2013
Maybe they did not intend to hurt you but it did.Hope that helps but I doubt it. Good luck.
IWarnedYou

United States

#5 Feb 4, 2013
sct wrote:
Maybe they did not intend to hurt you but it did.Hope that helps but I doubt it. Good luck.
ty....so most relationships don't make it through an infedelity....its so sad
question?

Chesapeake, OH

#6 Feb 4, 2013
Do you consider an emotional affair more hurtful that never develops into physical worse or a sexual fling more hurtful?
cya

United States

#7 Feb 4, 2013
The emotional one would hurt worse i think....because if its just sex you could try to deal with it better unlike an emotional affair where feelings develop
ceily

Belle, WV

#8 Feb 4, 2013
Move on
forgetaboutit

Chesapeake, OH

#9 Feb 5, 2013
All I wanna know is how many threads are you going to start on cheating husbands??? Sounds like you need a therapist, not topix...
taylor

Chesapeake, OH

#10 Feb 5, 2013
ceily wrote:
Move on
Really? "Move on" lol... It's not that easy my dear. You must be one of the Mistresses. If you think that you and your husband can work together through this, talk about it. Bring everything out in the open and make ALL FEELINGS clear to one another. Talk it out, a marriage is worth saving, and even the worst can be made into the best if BOTH try and are willing to be completely honest with one another. My husband, I found out made the mistake once. It was the most hurtful, devastating times of my life. We both sat down discussed honestly our faults. He manned up and completely owned up to all his wrong doings which lifted a weight off of his shoulder, after some time of respecting each other, loving each other unconditionally and having that open communication, we now have a marriage that is a blessing!

Since: Nov 11

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#11 Feb 5, 2013
[QUOTE who="question?"]Do you consider an emotional affair more hurtful that never develops into physical worse or a sexual fling more hurtful?[/QUOTE]
Emotional is no different than a physical affair; once trust is broken...there is nothing left!
Once a cheater, always a cheater! Cheating isn't about sex, it's about lack of communication and one party (cheater) needing their ego lifted.
forgetaboutit

Chesapeake, OH

#12 Feb 5, 2013
Lol Bev if I didn't know better, I would say you have been cheated on... Haha you seem very bitter for some reason.....

Since: Nov 11

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#13 Feb 5, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
Lol Bev if I didn't know better, I would say you have been cheated on... Haha you seem very bitter for some reason.....
I'm not bitter at all; But you are correct! I've actually come out on top of the world! God has a way of bringing the best out of what we thought was the worst of situations!
As long as I'm right w God and my morals aren't comprised, I'm good! He's "half " the man he used to be, not to mention the regrets he feels toward the emotional affair!
I'm much happier, thank you! I'm worth much more than lies and manipulation!
cya

United States

#14 Feb 5, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
All I wanna know is how many threads are you going to start on cheating husbands??? Sounds like you need a therapist, not topix...
this is a discussion board right!!!????
John

Troy, VA

#15 Feb 5, 2013
Get all you can while you can. It will give you a few good memories at the rest home while in the rocking chair. You will remember the smell.
nope

Charleston, WV

#16 Feb 5, 2013
John wrote:
Get all you can while you can. It will give you a few good memories at the rest home while in the rocking chair. You will remember the smell.
you got that right
well digger

Charleston, WV

#17 Feb 5, 2013
IWarnedYou wrote:
I don't understand why.....why would you hurt someone you say you love
Face it, it wasn't what you thought it was. It definitely wasn't for your spouse either. Move on, and don't be pathetic.
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taylor

Chesapeake, OH

#19 Feb 6, 2013
well digger wrote:
<quoted text>Face it, it wasn't what you thought it was. It definitely wasn't for your spouse either. Move on, and don't be pathetic.
Do you know this person?
cya

United States

#20 Feb 6, 2013
forgetaboutit wrote:
Yes but my goodness, who wants to wade through 4-5 threads from the same person about the same EXACT thing????
<quoted text>
then don't "wade" through them sweetie
cya

United States

#21 Feb 6, 2013
well digger wrote:
<quoted text>
Face it, it wasn't what you thought it was. It definitely wasn't for your spouse either. Move on, and don't be pathetic.
so yea...do you know them?

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