Child Advocate is a joke!!

Child Advocate is a joke!!

Posted in the Charleston Forum

broke

Hansford, WV

#1 Nov 5, 2012
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
ladida

United States

#2 Nov 6, 2012
broke wrote:
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
I love it. Blame BCSE for your inability to read your bloody court order, which explains that you, yes YOU, can file for a modification of your child support obligation. Trot down to the clerk's office and get the paperwork.
captain obvious

Canton, OH

#3 Nov 6, 2012
broke wrote:
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
so, it's a bad thing that the ex is spoiling your children with your child support?
jodi

Grove City, OH

#4 Nov 6, 2012
broke wrote:
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
why is her fault that she can afford to buy new things for herself and your children. do you feel you shouldnt have to pay because of that? the both of you made the child/children so the both of you are responsable.

go to the courts or contact your lawyer to have the payments modified.
A man

Charleston, WV

#5 Dec 13, 2012
broke wrote:
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
they take my income tax every year 4 back child support but I am not behind ????? child advocate is just a big legal scam!!!
Hillbilly

Baltimore, MD

#6 Dec 13, 2012
Only a joke if your a man, A way to make a good living if you are a woman.
Lil Evil

Charleston, WV

#7 Dec 13, 2012
This is the best thing I have ever read on Topix, If any truth has ever been posted on this fcking site, People this is it. We all know Kanawha County BCS is..... well they are. Well spoken Hillbilly.
Hillbilly wrote:
Only a joke if your a man, A way to make a good living if you are a woman.
Hillbilly

Baltimore, MD

#8 Dec 13, 2012
It's the same all over. Men hate it and woman love it. That shows how one sided it is. I bet you can tell by the comments on here who is male and female
Agree

Charleston, WV

#9 Dec 13, 2012
I'm posting as a women on both sides of the fence!! I'm divorced and have sole custody of our children in which I was awarded child support. With that being said, there are times I have given his child support back because I was doing fine and he wasn't. It's hard enough to make it in this world without paying child support!! That's why people should stay married if at all possible.

I am remarried to a Man who also has children and a obligation to pay child support!! I for one think Everyman or woman should pay for there kids, not only emotional, but financially!! Our economy has gotten so bad that its difficult for anybody to make it in this world.

I also believe that some people use their children as pay checks. Instead of working they sit around just like getting a welfare check and wait on that child support. In other words if someone falls on hard times ( and not a dead beat) people please try and understand! The main thing is yes providing for your child, but the greatest gift is showing that child love and attention each & everyday!!
citizen

Springfield, NJ

#10 Dec 13, 2012
Well said
Chld

Charleston, WV

#11 Dec 13, 2012
My mother raised 3 children and never got a dime of child support while my Dad and his new wife and kids drove around in new cars wearing name brand clothes and going on vacations, while my Mom was just trying to figure out where our next meal was coming from. My mom tried for food stamps and they denied her saying that my father was ordered to pay so much child support and that disqualified her financially to receive them and we NEEDED them, all the while my Mom never received a dime. My brothers are 29 and 24 and I am 26 and still to this day not a dime was taken from my father. no child support no income taxes nothing. Explain this ? I dont get it! and my mother tried to get child advocate to do something over and over again and still nothing. so its not always like that some mothers get screwed too.
Agree

Charleston, WV

#12 Dec 13, 2012
Chld wrote:
My mother raised 3 children and never got a dime of child support while my Dad and his new wife and kids drove around in new cars wearing name brand clothes and going on vacations, while my Mom was just trying to figure out where our next meal was coming from. My mom tried for food stamps and they denied her saying that my father was ordered to pay so much child support and that disqualified her financially to receive them and we NEEDED them, all the while

my Mom never received a dime. My brothers are 29 and 24 and I am 26 and still to this day not a dime was taken from my father. no child support no income taxes nothing. Explain this ? I dont get it! and my mother tried to get child advocate to do something over and over again and still nothing. so its not always like that some mothers get screwed too.
That's awful!! I don't agree with this situation at all! Some people get away with it, but if I'm not mistaken you kids as adults can go back and sue your father for back child support. They will take part of his social security or whatever income he gets. Check into it!!
A man

Charleston, WV

#13 Dec 13, 2012
jodi wrote:
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why is her fault that she can afford to buy new things for herself and your children. do you feel you shouldnt have to pay because of that? the both of you made the child/children so the both of you are responsable.
go to the courts or contact your lawyer to have the payments modified.
I work 4 $8.00 an hour who can afford a lawyer?
A man

Charleston, WV

#14 Dec 13, 2012
broke wrote:
They don't care a bit if your laid off, etc. I took a job that pays less to go back to work and they still hold me accountable for my old pay, meanwhile the ex is buying cars spoiling the kids making me look like the worst dad ever...we have joint custody, I can barely afford my utilities...they are dragging their feet and will not review my case. What do I do?
they are waiting until you get way behind then they will look at your case. I'm telling you they are dirty!!
wtf

Chillicothe, OH

#15 Dec 13, 2012
I think who ever has the kids should have to.work in order to receive child support!
Caleb

Hyattsville, MD

#16 Dec 13, 2012
Chld wrote:
My mother raised 3 children and never got a dime of child support while my Dad and his new wife and kids drove around in new cars wearing name brand clothes and going on vacations, while my Mom was just trying to figure out where our next meal was coming from. My mom tried for food stamps and they denied her saying that my father was ordered to pay so much child support and that disqualified her financially to receive them and we NEEDED them, all the while my Mom never received a dime. My brothers are 29 and 24 and I am 26 and still to this day not a dime was taken from my father. no child support no income taxes nothing. Explain this ? I dont get it! and my mother tried to get child advocate to do something over and over again and still nothing. so its not always like that some mothers get screwed too.
If what you say is true, that man should be in jail. If you can, do something about it. He deserves to pay no matter how late!

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