Portage, MI

#1 Jul 26, 2013
Friends with benefit for five years. What does it mean? Would like honest opinion & looking for advice not judgement pls!
Wasting time

Chesapeake, OH

#2 Jul 26, 2013
Don't waste ur time.

Charleston, WV

#3 Jul 26, 2013
It means you are lucky as he$&. Lol, if it works for you both and you are both satified with the situation then enjoy it and dont worry about what it means. I would love to have a true fwb

Charleston, WV

#4 Jul 27, 2013
I was a "fwb" for two years...we would hang out but never any real dates...he was able to avoid the boyfriend role. I convinced myself that he cared about me (and I honestly think he did) but I convinced myself that I was also being came to a point that I told myself that I didn't deserve that and I found someone that loved and appreciated me. I ended up stopping the fwb and married the man who truly loved and wanted me. I went over a year without speaking to my fwb...he called me when I had just got home from my honeymoon...I told him I was happily married....I could hear the disappointment in his voice but he was to late. So I guess I'm trying to say that if he/she really loved and wanted you....he/she would make it known to everyone! I'd also like to add...if there are no feelings involved then who cares....a fwb can work's when the feelings happen that ruin it!!

Chesapeake, OH

#5 Jul 27, 2013
Get it where you can. Have fun!

United States

#6 Jul 27, 2013
Thank you everyone & not for judging me! It does get hard sometimes because, I do care for him. But I also know that I am very much attracted to him. We have both had other relationships which we did not see each other while dating other peopl & when they ended we went back to each other. I find myself asking wondering if that's good or bad. Or how can five years later you not care about someone

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