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delirious

Chicago, IL

#1 May 22, 2012
I offered to help a male friend. He hasn't paid me anything back. He now treats me different. Is it right for a man to accept or ask a woman to help him financially and not pay her back? I feel that I was being used now. We are not even friends any longer. I look at this situation and realize a man should not take money from a woman but be able to handle his own business.
He is acting like he owes me nothing. What kind of man does this to a woman ? Sad and hurt by the whole situation. Not only did I lose my best friend, I lost the money :-(
lesson learned

Charleston, WV

#2 May 22, 2012
Any "male friend" that bums money is a loser. MEN work for a living and don't take handouts. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
Supporter

Summersville, WV

#3 May 22, 2012
Why do women continue to give money to men? Quit. A MAN does not take money from a woman. Sounds like a case for Judge Judy.
delirious

Chicago, IL

#4 May 22, 2012
lesson learned wrote:
Any "male friend" that bums money is a loser. MEN work for a living and don't take handouts. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
Yes I learned a hard lesson. I really thought he was my best friend and learned I couldn't even trust him :-(
I don't understand how a man could take and not give back. I was always taught that a man takes care of his own, but if he needed it he shoud give it back no matter what.
Delora DeVille

Orlando, FL

#5 May 22, 2012
Dear, I've seen this before. When a handsome man takes money or advantage of a not so attractive female just because he can. Don't give him any more. Instead have your teeth fixed, douche and buy some attractive clothing and have your hair done. Ladies always take care of themselves first. Heifers do not. You do not want to be another WV heifer dear, there are too many of them already. Are you fat dear? Perhaps you should stay away from the buffets and all you can eat places that are so prevalent in your area. They are for the masses and people of little means with little cash and even smaller brains. Thats why they are so abundant there dear. I do hope you improve and develope some self respect.
delirious

Chicago, IL

#6 May 22, 2012
Delora DeVille wrote:
Dear, I've seen this before. When a handsome man takes money or advantage of a not so attractive female just because he can. Don't give him any more. Instead have your teeth fixed, douche and buy some attractive clothing and have your hair done. Ladies always take care of themselves first. Heifers do not. You do not want to be another WV heifer dear, there are too many of them already. Are you fat dear? Perhaps you should stay away from the buffets and all you can eat places that are so prevalent in your area. They are for the masses and people of little means with little cash and even smaller brains. Thats why they are so abundant there dear. I do hope you improve and develope some self respect.
You have no class. You don't know me. You don't even know what you are talking about. I am very attractive. I do have self esteem and respect for myself. This conversation is out of your league. You need to step. Find another topic that is on your low level of intelligence. This is a topic for grown people, not lil a$$ minds of your kind.
Delora DeVille

Orlando, FL

#7 May 22, 2012
delirious wrote:
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You have no class. You don't know me. You don't even know what you are talking about. I am very attractive. I do have self esteem and respect for myself. This conversation is out of your league. You need to step. Find another topic that is on your low level of intelligence. This is a topic for grown people, not lil a$$ minds of your kind.
Why, you trashy old tramp. I was just trying to help. You have no self esteem or self respect. And sister you call me a person with low intelligence? Well i'm not the one on Topix crying over spilled milk, uhh, being dumped and ripped off. You are a pathetic hillbilly hag with no common sense or morals. Did he stop making love to you possum? Perhaps it was the lack of personal hygiene. Dear a little Summer's Eve goes a long way. You can do better, but first you have to be honest with yourself and others. Now, you posted on here and wanted others opinions, and now you don't like what you hear. Don't stalk him or get too depressed, just admit you are not that attractive and a nice looking man took advantage of the fact that you were desperate for attention and sex.
delirious

Chicago, IL

#8 May 22, 2012
Delora DeVille wrote:
<quoted text>Why, you trashy old tramp. I was just trying to help. You have no self esteem or self respect. And sister you call me a person with low intelligence? Well i'm not the one on Topix crying over spilled milk, uhh, being dumped and ripped off. You are a pathetic hillbilly hag with no common sense or morals. Did he stop making love to you possum? Perhaps it was the lack of personal hygiene. Dear a little Summer's Eve goes a long way. You can do better, but first you have to be honest with yourself and others. Now, you posted on here and wanted others opinions, and now you don't like what you hear. Don't stalk him or get too depressed, just admit you are not that attractive and a nice looking man took advantage of the fact that you were desperate for attention and sex.
I've seen your other posts on topix. You say the same thing over and over. No one has respect or even care what you have to say. You only entertaining yourself because you must be very lonely. Your words show how little minded you are and that you can not read well. Nowhere in the conversation do I say my best friend and I had sex ! You are trying to take a conversation and make it about you. Well this one is not about you. I see that this is the only way you receive attention. Have at it. I do not entertain ignorance.
By the way. I work..have my own money..I am very attractive. Have respect..I am a woman with class. With that may God bless you and forive you for your ignorance
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#9 May 22, 2012
delirious wrote:
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I've seen your other posts on topix. You say the same thing over and over. No one has respect or even care what you have to say. You only entertaining yourself because you must be very lonely. Your words show how little minded you are and that you can not read well. Nowhere in the conversation do I say my best friend and I had sex ! You are trying to take a conversation and make it about you. Well this one is not about you. I see that this is the only way you receive attention. Have at it. I do not entertain ignorance.
By the way. I work..have my own money..I am very attractive. Have respect..I am a woman with class. With that may God bless you and forive you for your ignorance
Dear believe me i am as far from ignorance as you are from being high class. No i never said this was about me, it's about you and your lack of self respect and letting a man take advantage of you and going on a public forum for advice and council. No dear i am far from being lonely, in fact i have a very full and rewarding life. I ask for nothing from noone and i damned sure don't let others take advantage of me either. I hope you learned a lesson. Charity begins at home and it sounds like you are in need. Next time dear don't get too involved with a man unless you know him well and he is a person of morals and character. I wish you well. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
feel u

Chicago, IL

#10 May 23, 2012
Delirious, I feel u. I have been in a similar situation. It is hard to get over when someone takes your kindness for weakness. You are better off without this person as your friend. I'm praying you will find comfort and that God will bless you for what you did. His evilness will show and he will be seen for what he is. Be strong and your blessings will be coming your way
Charleston Resident

Charleston, WV

#11 May 23, 2012
Delirious - first of all, you need to ignore Haggie's posts - its obvious that all of them clearly reflect HER life. In other words, don't feed the troll. I agree with feel u - you are better off without this man in your life. You probably are not the first woman to be used by this inconsiderate A-hole. A true friend would not do this to another friend.
the crazy man

United States

#12 May 23, 2012
its not really a man but a sick homosexual making those comments to the original poster.
A woman wouldnt make those comments just a sick homosexual woman hater.
Delora DeVille aka Hagatha May , your the one needing
a douch but you would have to lay in a bathtub of Summers's Eve to rid your stink for a week.
go away fag ... far away.
oh no

Williamstown, WV

#13 May 23, 2012
Hagatha May wrote:
<quoted text>Dear believe me i am as far from ignorance as you are from being high class. No i never said this was about me, it's about you and your lack of self respect and letting a man take advantage of you and going on a public forum for advice and council. No dear i am far from being lonely, in fact i have a very full and rewarding life. I ask for nothing from noone and i damned sure don't let others take advantage of me either. I hope you learned a lesson. Charity begins at home and it sounds like you are in need. Next time dear don't get too involved with a man unless you know him well and he is a person of morals and character. I wish you well. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
Why is it that you can't keep your user names straight, Hag?! You were posting under DeVille something or other, and got pissed off because a "possum" "talked back" to you, and slipped up.

Loser.
delirious

Chicago, IL

#14 May 23, 2012
Charleston Resident wrote:
Delirious - first of all, you need to ignore Haggie's posts - its obvious that all of them clearly reflect HER life. In other words, don't feed the troll. I agree with feel u - you are better off without this man in your life. You probably are not the first woman to be used by this inconsiderate A-hole. A true friend would not do this to another friend.
I agree with all your saying. Thank you
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#15 May 23, 2012
the crazy man wrote:
its not really a man but a sick homosexual making those comments to the original poster.
A woman wouldnt make those comments just a sick homosexual woman hater.
Delora DeVille aka Hagatha May , your the one needing
a douch but you would have to lay in a bathtub of Summers's Eve to rid your stink for a week.
go away fag ... far away.
First of all"crazy man", not only are you crazy, you are stupid too. Calling a lady a homosexual cause you can't stand her for her wealth and knowledge and don't agree with her. I am a happily married woman and detest hillbillies like yourself. You are a typical example of why possums in WV have the reputation they do. Delora Deville happens to be a friend of mine and she detests stupid hillbillies too. You must have a very lonely and meaningless life to come on here and call a woman a homosexual. You are a disgusting pig. TaTa for now Lady of Quality ps you "men" in WV are just not used to a strong woman who can stand up to you and not cower down like the heifers you are used to dealing with.
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#16 May 23, 2012
delirious wrote:
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I agree with all your saying. Thank you
Of course you do dear. They tell you what you want to hear, not what you need to hear. It's not easy to take constructive criticism sometimes. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#17 May 23, 2012
oh no wrote:
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Why is it that you can't keep your user names straight, Hag?! You were posting under DeVille something or other, and got pissed off because a "possum" "talked back" to you, and slipped up.
Loser.
Delora Deville is a friend of mine here in Orlando. Know what friends are dear? Glad i could help. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
delirious

Chicago, IL

#18 May 23, 2012
To those who commented with good thoughts , thank you.
I hope he reads this and know how wrong it was to hurt a friendship and take from a friend. I know he doesn't care to take money from women and not pay it back because he told me so. I pray he finds God to redeem his evil soul :-(
Hagatha May

Orlando, FL

#19 May 23, 2012
delirious wrote:
To those who commented with good thoughts , thank you.
I hope he reads this and know how wrong it was to hurt a friendship and take from a friend. I know he doesn't care to take money from women and not pay it back because he told me so. I pray he finds God to redeem his evil soul :-(
You are believing someone who stole from you? Dear you are not too bright. Ever heard the saying,"a fool and his money are soon parted?" Let this be a valuable lesson for you dear and don't do it again. You may attack me and call me names but you know deep down i am correct. Now, feel blessed it wasn't more than it was. TaTa for now Lady of Quality ps remember on the internet people will tell you anything and agree with you, as they are looking for acceptance or someone to agree with them, i am not. It's more helpful to be perfectly honest in ones responses. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
Charleston Gal

Charleston, WV

#20 May 24, 2012
Hagatha May wrote:
<quoted text>Of course you do dear. They tell you what you want to hear, not what you need to hear. It's not easy to take constructive criticism sometimes. TaTa for now Lady of Quality
Haggie - don't believe she was agreeing with you - showing your TA TA lack of education again..........why don't you crawl back underneath your rock.

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