gf pregnant with other mans baby!! What to do?

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Bill72

United States

#1 Feb 10, 2011
I have been in a 10 year or so relationship and now I am faced with a tough one to just swallow.The woman I am with is pregnant with another mans baby!! But she claims to love me and want to be with me....How can that be? If she loved me,you would think that she would care more about my heart and would not have done this to me. Any thoughts on this would help. I am lost and heartbroken.
interesting

Huntington, WV

#2 Feb 10, 2011
Can you handle raising this child and looking at it everyday and knowing what has happened, and also seeing the dad when he has visitation. It will eventually get to you and tear you apart. Weigh out the pros and cons of the situation..
Bill72

United States

#3 Feb 10, 2011
I guess she is going to terminate the pregnancy..I don't think the other man even knows..I wanted her to call him to tell him what has happend,but she claims to not remember his #.
I'm so stressed and depressed over this.I have a grown son with my ex-wife that I divorced for cheating and won custody of my son.He is getting ready to be a Dad at 19 and I'm getting ready to be a grandpaw at 39...WOW all of this at once is kinda too much to handle.Trying to be happy for my son when I am crushed inside from what has heppened to me....HELP!!! PLEASE.
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Anonymous

United States

#5 Feb 10, 2011
Sounds like you need some real help...Run while you still have some dignity.
He Hate Me

Midland, MI

#6 Feb 10, 2011
Better off to walk away.
Bill72

United States

#7 Feb 10, 2011
He Hate Me wrote:
Better off to walk away.
To "He Hate Me" So you think that is better to walk away? She claims she loves me and made a mistake..I'm so lost and heartbroke.I don't know why I can't find a faithful woman.
peanuts

Brea, CA

#8 Feb 10, 2011
Man forget her i totally agree u need to walk away with your dignity while you still have it. She will own you if you dont and also you will look like a fool.
Kevin

Berwyn, IL

#9 Feb 10, 2011
I got an idea
Poor Memory

Charleston, WV

#10 Feb 10, 2011
I have to agree with leaving. I forgave my wife after discovering an affair. Five years later it happened again. Left on that one. I'll never know how many she actually had, but once it happens, it continues.
Bill72

United States

#11 Feb 10, 2011
Kevin wrote:
I got an idea
Kevin What's ur Idea?
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Cut it

Eskdale, WV

#13 Feb 10, 2011
Man to be honest i would totally walk away has hard as it is. You dont need that in your life. It will take time but you'll get over this. Just walk man.
pomegranate

United States

#14 Feb 11, 2011
I'm a woman. I think she's playing you. Run away fast!
Amos

Charleston, WV

#15 Feb 11, 2011
please don't abort! make some childless couple very happy! hopefully, they will pay you for your trouble and all expenses!
the eye

Charleston, WV

#16 Feb 17, 2011
I agree. I am a woman too... anyone that cheats will do it again eventually... no matter man or woman. she probably does love you but apparently not enough
stace82

Mount Morris, MI

#17 Apr 13, 2011
Well Bill i do so believe she doesnt care much at all. I also happen to believe shell do it again..as u said like the last one...only a matter of time..or perhaps this is the third go with this issue i cant say..i also worry for ur nineteen year old son whos soon to be a daddy..is he gonna face the issues as well..an is he going to be able to pick up and carry on if this relationship falls through?..U know my story Bill and i must admit I dont think about my kids donor much at all and starting over wasnt so hard an hey im not sitting home worried if the bastard is cheatin again or some more with yet another nameless female. Nope aint so hard at all once u see their true colors.
Supporter

Wharton, WV

#18 Apr 13, 2011
Sounds like time for some "new pu$zy".
welfare baby no way

Beckley, WV

#19 Apr 13, 2011
Abort it. Then get yourself fixed
duh

Charleston, WV

#20 Apr 23, 2011
walk away unless you are big and fat and have no job and are mooching off her
dood

Saskatoon, Canada

#21 Dec 19, 2012
she screwed up, let the bitch live with it
CaptainSavaHo

United States

#22 Dec 19, 2012
Even I would walk away from dat Ho!

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