melanie metheny missing person
creeker

Charleston, WV

#395 Feb 3, 2013
I agree Sandy - family and loved ones need relief or closure in some way. Her children who are older now probably suffer horribly.

If she and Jarod lived on the creek, then definitely the no gooders who prowl around up here looking for victims daily so they can get a buzz - know something - at least a few probably do. I hope someone eventually talks.

I know there are time kidnapped victims are held for years and brainwash their captives by fear, etc and sometimes in the "lucky families" THEY FIND THEIR WAY BACK. I would always be looking for that if it were me and that is normal, especially for a MOM....
help find melanie

Charleston, WV

#396 Feb 5, 2013
i am just bumping this thread any info is welcome. email me at [email protected] m
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#397 Feb 5, 2013
help find melanie wrote:
i am just bumping this thread any info is welcome. email me at [email protected] m
Yeah I wondered what happened to Sandra?
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#398 Feb 6, 2013
well this forum was HOT for a few days there now it's dieing down. Wonder what happened? Has anyone else heard anything referring to Michael Lilly or anyone at all?
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#399 Feb 6, 2013
help for melanie wrote:
well this forum was HOT for a few days there now it's dieing down. Wonder what happened? Has anyone else heard anything referring to Michael Lilly or anyone at all?
Just maybe the justice system have let Sandra in on some information they are investigating and have asked her to not say anything. I've heard no news is good news. Sorry don't know the Lilly guy. I only knew one family of Lilly's from 40 years ago that lived on the creek and they did have a son named Mike, but have not seen them since they moved out of the area. He'd be about 40's - the one I knew had a father named JAMES???
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From Belle

United States

#401 Feb 9, 2013
Now this whole ordeal is horriable and should never happen but Sandra all you do is get on here and slander people. If i recall your family is def not close to perfect. All those underage kids you let party at your house on midland ave, didnt your own grandchild get stabbed at a party there. Didnt your own son get hopped up on drugs and burn it down? Havent ur grandkids been in and out of trouble with police? Lets find melanie and bring her home obviously the police arent doing much so talk people but please put your own house in order also.

Town of Belle
Curious Creeker

Charleston, WV

#402 Feb 9, 2013
Town of Belle

I had heard a lot of what you speak, but my concerns were that would be a reason for the investigators to not work smoothly with the family.
I certinaly hope they stay focused on investigating her disappearance.

I don't know any of them personally but I do wish closure for them and hope the little ones can get through not having their mom and all the confusion around them. Hopefully counselors at the schools will help them - the innocent children are the main ones of concern here also.
Anonymous

Charleston, WV

#403 Feb 9, 2013
Finding Melanie and the children are the main focus. It doesn't matter who has done what and when they did it. To the "Town of Belle'' instead of slandering people like you are claiming Sandra does on here. Why don't you offer to help? Now stop with all this and let's find Melanie.
sandra metheny

Charleston, WV

#404 Feb 9, 2013
From Belle wrote:
Now this whole ordeal is horriable and should never happen but Sandra all you do is get on here and slander people. If i recall your family is def not close to perfect. All those underage kids you let party at your house on midland ave, didnt your own grandchild get stabbed at a party there. Didnt your own son get hopped up on drugs and burn it down? Havent ur grandkids been in and out of trouble with police? Lets find melanie and bring her home obviously the police arent doing much so talk people but please put your own house in order also.
Town of Belle
well if you feel ive slandered you go file a suit...and no my familys not perfect and neither is yours..as for the underage kids partying at my house if happened i sure wasnt there..and yes their have be problems and there was a stabbing all this took place after Melanie was gone missing... and no my son didnt get hopped up and burn the house but i know who did and also know who was hanging around...but this has nothing to do with what im doing im trying to find my grand daughter...my family has been through plenty way more than anyone that has been mentioned in here but thats way it goes...and I'll keep doing what im doing until i got the answers i need now have a good day
curious ceeker

Charleston, WV

#405 Feb 9, 2013
Belle

I think the family is saying "nothing can be as horrible as the thought of a child/grandchild being hurt or killed and thinking the people who would do that are ten times more evil than druggies, thieves, etc." Which of course is true.

Of course I understand you are saying that talk about the "no gooders" in the area is not proper if your closet or that of your family's has no skeletons in it - HMM not exactly. We all made mistakes in our past - But>>>> Remember it is not slander if there is public records at the jails, etc. of crimes that were committed or if something is written in the newspapers or talked about on the tv/radio - everybody makes comments on things such as that...

Sometimes drug addiction does cause a murder during a robberty, etc.- this clearly is not what happened here, this girl had nothing of value anyone would want to steal. It must be either personal and evil - or just an evil random kidnapper/murderer.
sandra metheny

Charleston, WV

#406 Feb 11, 2013
sure died down... now where everyone go..Im still here still at it.. take more than... THE TOWN OF BELLE TO STOP ME... whoever that might be... signing the town right just exactly who's got that right guess go somewhere find out cuz u hidin.. u can sure tell when you gettin things right..not the criminal and wont stop.
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#407 Feb 12, 2013
Sandra - I understand your anger but I believe in the theory that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

The important thing is to keep after the justice system - eventually someone will snitch if they get caught up in something very serious - it may just take time. Remember some of the posters may not be sympathetic but most of them are - just reply to the good ones and write the others off.

I do blast druggies and thieves - but this is a completely different forum - it's to get someone to come out about her - they won't do it on topix probably - but sometime, someplace, somebody will say something. Just hang in there and live the way you'd like to see her come back and live her life with a job and caring for her children..
Help for Melanie

Charleston, WV

#408 Feb 12, 2013
The family has been put through hell. Imagine going almost 7 years and not knowing what happened to your loved one? Then every one wants to dig out everyone's skeletons in their closet. Throw it in the families face like its to justify what has happened with Melanie. Truth is no one is perfect not one family is. But you go 7 years without knowing where your loved one is and having every possible horror story come up that she was burned cut up buried in concrete she will never be found. She was a drugger and the family are druggers! Then expect not to get mad angry or spiteful. Now I wouldn't wish this on anyone and I'm not taking a particular side. People need to remember Sandra is Melanie's gma and when people who SHOULD be helping are not helping and they took her granddaughter burnt the house down I mean this whole family's life has been turned upside down since July 19 2006' you never know how you would react until you are in those shoes. This family needs our support and help! Not just Sandy the WHOLE family melanie has kids parents brothers aunts uncles friends who love and miss her dearly and almost 7 years and still nothing no melanie no answers no justice it's uncalled for. Now lets move on to what's important that's finding Melanie!
Help for Melanie

Charleston, WV

#409 Feb 12, 2013
Just for the record I knew Melanie she was my friend she wasn't innocent none of us were my goodness she had just turned 21 you mean to tell me when you were young you didn't do things you weren't proud of? I know I did but 7 years and two kids later I'm not that person anymore! If I were judged by the things I did or tried in my younger days I'd be nothing! But I've come a far way you grow up! Some do and some don't .. But Melanie was NOT a drugger does that mean she never tried anything no. But she took care of her kids and was going to college! I was around this girl very often she wasn't a drugger and I'd dispute anyone who wanted to argue it because I know what I know. That's not what's important though even if she was a drugger which she wasn't she still needs to be found and her family and children deserve answers
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#410 Feb 12, 2013
Well she did have a vehicle, was going to school, going to get a job. The key words I liked to here are WAS - and PAST - me too. when I was younger, I did many things but for the grace of God, I would have been a mess if I had not changed.

It's the ones who don't change that hurts society so much - Gives society a scare -. And I know a lot of young ones are unsure for a while that is normal. And I pity the parents and grandparents of the ones who are now in their 40's and 50's that still cause them grief.

I guess the worst thing is there IS MUCH MORE ADDICTIVE drugs than 30-40 years ago and we young'ns then experimented for a while then moved on to grow up. It's harder now and I don't know the answer to the epidemic that has hit this area so hard as the crime rate has to be very high now due to people so addicted they do things they'd never do normally. I believe in second and even third chances. And I know today, some parents have guilt if they set bad examples for their children - but heck some set good examples and it didn't make a lot of difference so it doesn't necessarily mean its anybody's fault. BIG DRUG DEALERS (and supposedly big government who turns their heads as to what comes in this country) brought in this disease. Hopefully in schools, t he babies now can be more educated about it for their elders NOW KNOW BETTER themselves.

Good luck and I know anger is there and hurt and a million feelings -...
sandra metheny

Charleston, WV

#411 Feb 15, 2013
mighty quiet musta hit a few nerves
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#412 Feb 15, 2013
dunno - the talk now about the Straughter shooting, did they know Melaine - his family knows a lot of uh hmmmm people? Just a thought, maybe he can tell something useful. Also Red Oak Shooting - and more meth busts - so people don't know anything new - and t he ones who are in the know still are not saying anything..... evidently
wondering

Charleston, WV

#413 Feb 17, 2013
did anything ever come about with that jeffry postalweight (i think thats his last name) i always heard he failed a lie detector test
curious creeker

Charleston, WV

#414 Feb 18, 2013
wondering wrote:
did anything ever come about with that jeffry postalweight (i think thats his last name) i always heard he failed a lie detector test
Shame lie detector test results not good in court as to guilty. Can just help investigators work a little better.
sandra metheny

Charleston, WV

#415 Feb 18, 2013
curious creeker wrote:
dunno - the talk now about the Straughter shooting, did they know Melaine - his family knows a lot of uh hmmmm people? Just a thought, maybe he can tell something useful. Also Red Oak Shooting - and more meth busts - so people don't know anything new - and t he ones who are in the know still are not saying anything..... evidently
good luck with that wont be no talking there...

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