Toolate

Charleston, WV

#1 Nov 17, 2013
I need advice opinions etc.... 3 years ago I started seeing a married man his wife was nice and they had 3 children but we started seeing eachother ... I'm 23 and he's 40 with 3 kids ages 20, 17, and 13 .... I'm now pregnant and feeling guilty .... I'm just wondering with all the circumstances ... Recently he's been talking about his ex wife I'm feeling as if he's now missing her and I'm wondering if he's thinking he made a mistake.... Question is .... Is there a good chance this relationship is doomed? The age difference ppl think he's my dad will they think the baby is his grandchild? Do worried
Hard one

Charleston, WV

#2 Nov 17, 2013
Toolate wrote:
I need advice opinions etc.... 3 years ago I started seeing a married man his wife was nice and they had 3 children but we started seeing eachother ... I'm 23 and he's 40 with 3 kids ages 20, 17, and 13 .... I'm now pregnant and feeling guilty .... I'm just wondering with all the circumstances ... Recently he's been talking about his ex wife I'm feeling as if he's now missing her and I'm wondering if he's thinking he made a mistake.... Question is .... Is there a good chance this relationship is doomed? The age difference ppl think he's my dad will they think the baby is his grandchild? Do worried
If you were the other woman, you will be done the same way. Sure he misses his wife and kids. What's done is done. Good luck to you! That's too much of a age difference in my opinion. But that's just a opinion. Men don't cheat to want to leave their wife. It's just their nature & sometimes they get caught. I wouldn't want to wonder if I was second to his wife. That would be torture. Then again women cheat to without ever dreaming of leaving their spouse either!
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Yeah u

Charleston, WV

#4 Nov 17, 2013
Home-wrecker u should feel guilty . Karma is something else, you and him will never work out. He will do the same thing to you. Just watch
Dan

Mount Hope, WV

#5 Nov 18, 2013
Karma can be mean.
Toolate

Charleston, WV

#6 Nov 18, 2013
How am I a homewrecker??? Do you think he really misses his ex wife? They were married 19 years...idk if it's pregnancy hormones or what I'm feeling a bit insecure and the fact we haven't married yet bothers me ....he asked me but keeps putting off setting a date? His family doesn't like me they still have a relationship with his ex....I'm worried they will never
Accept my baby ....I'm so heartbroken ...how can u say he will cheat on me as well you really think he will? I'm having his baby!
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Toolate

Charleston, WV

#8 Nov 18, 2013
Kate wrote:
<quoted text>You should have practiced more sniffing and licking.
What does that even mean? I need serious advice plz
Toolate

Charleston, WV

#9 Nov 18, 2013
I'm feeling guilty about things now.... Because of me he has pretty much cut his ex out of his kids life... I've seen him beat his ex wife one more than one occasion do u think he will do the same to me? He is verbally abusive sometimes .... I thought maybe it was the age difference... Can a relationship survive such a big age difference... I've been thinking I'm 23 he's 40 I mean he will be 60 when this baby is grown he's 20 year old son doesn't like me because of what happened he's super close to his mom... Someone help me feel better about this ... I'm so scared of losing him back to his ex wife!!!!:"(
wow

Charleston, WV

#10 Nov 18, 2013
toolate. uh he was married. u screwed him. now yer prego. too bad.
Toolate

Charleston, WV

#11 Nov 18, 2013
wow wrote:
toolate. uh he was married. u screwed him. now yer prego. too bad.
It didn't happen like that ... He loves me we live together ....
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wow

Charleston, WV

#13 Nov 18, 2013
girl. ou slept with a married man. u are a piece of aZZ TO HIM. get over it and screw singles only
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chpt 11

Charleston, WV

#15 Nov 18, 2013
is this black barbie
driver

Buffalo, NY

#16 Nov 18, 2013
Do us all a favor and go get an abortion.
CUPCAKE

Charleston, WV

#17 Nov 18, 2013
Well just think of it this way, if him and his ex get back together, then they can adopt you and your child.. Due to the fact you are about the same age as the other children..

Do you work and take care of your child or do you live off him, and use the child to keep him?

A lot to think about, Best thing is leave him, get an education, raise your child and find someone closer to your own age..if he is abusive to his ex and toward you and cheated on his ex with you. Then he will do the same to you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Get out while your young..

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