denial, hatred and revenge.....

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#1 Aug 3, 2011
it's coming and it wont be long....i'm gonna let it out and when i do it will be loud and all will hear me!
i want you to know that i hate you with every fiber of my being! one day i will be strong enough to let myself be heard and i wont care who hears me and it wont matter.
your new wife better have a really good bank account pal....cause i am going to be heard.
if she has half of a brain she will guard her money from you!
you broke my heart and you broke me, but you know what? when my book is published and it will be....oh lord help you!
please

Winfield, WV

#2 Aug 4, 2011
Go ahead tell it all if you are brave enough. Go on and give a little detail about your book, lol, or are you just blowing hot air?
Envy

Van, WV

#3 Aug 4, 2011
Marylynn49 wrote:
it's coming and it wont be long....i'm gonna let it out and when i do it will be loud and all will hear me!
i want you to know that i hate you with every fiber of my being! one day i will be strong enough to let myself be heard and i wont care who hears me and it wont matter.
your new wife better have a really good bank account pal....cause i am going to be heard.
if she has half of a brain she will guard her money from you!
you broke my heart and you broke me, but you know what? when my book is published and it will be....oh lord help you!
Good God you sound like your Heartbroken & Obsessed.
true

Akron, OH

#4 Aug 4, 2011
Envy wrote:
<quoted text>Good God you sound like your Heartbroken & Obsessed.
Someone has issues
holdup

Charleston, WV

#5 Aug 4, 2011
I'm sorry that you were hurt by this man but honey take it from me, harboring such hate and anger in your heart will only hurt you. It's not worth it. Seek healing for yourself and I guarantee there is someone perfect for you out there. There was for me
Justvisiting

Charleston, WV

#6 Aug 5, 2011
Wow! "Beware the wrath of a woman scorned" comes to mind.
Hardlesson

Saint Albans, WV

#7 Aug 5, 2011
holdup wrote:
I'm sorry that you were hurt by this man but honey take it from me, harboring such hate and anger in your heart will only hurt you. It's not worth it. Seek healing for yourself and I guarantee there is someone perfect for you out there. There was for me
Best advice anyone ever got. The more you obsess over what happened to you and seek revenge, the more you hold on to the pain...it will just keep bringing negativity your way. Let it go, rise above it, and leave this POS behind. He will find a way to bring himself down. Let him take someone else down with him. You are lucky you got free.

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#8 Aug 6, 2011
omg this is such a long time coming....and trust me on this....it's a coming. the best part of this is the fact that he knows it's coming.
his sister-in-law knows it's coming....she thinks she has time, but she doesn't.
how will she explain this?
GOD ONLY KNOWS!
Trust me on this.....she will need the Lord to get her through this.
Hot Air? No theres no hot air involved, not here anyhow.
They are a reasonably well known family, we heard from them during Govenor "W" 's term....oh my goodness, we heard from them.
How's the good govenor doing these days anyhow?
Yes....a woman scorned is not a great thing to be happening in any man's life, but sometimes it is something that needs to happen.
His new wife? well she needs to have a separate bank account... to say the least.
I hear her name is Rebecca?
What a lovely name, dont you think? I wonder if she is being terrorized by his family? Maybe she is stronger than i was....who knows?
MORE TO COME>>>>>>I PROMISE!!

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#9 Aug 6, 2011
true wrote:
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Someone has issues
yes someone has issues....that would be me. im finally healthy enough to address these issues.
lets rock!

Since: Jun 11

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#10 Aug 6, 2011
Envy wrote:
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Good God you sound like your Heartbroken & Obsessed.
yes im heartbroken....and i dont know that i will ever get past this. most women that he has heartbroken, never get past it.
obsessed? no im not obsessed to the point i cant go on with my life. but i am obsessed to the point that i can warn and ward off other innocent women!

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#11 Aug 6, 2011
please wrote:
Go ahead tell it all if you are brave enough. Go on and give a little detail about your book, lol, or are you just blowing hot air?
oh im brave enough....god knows i am brave enough! hot air?! are you kidding me? I have to go slow here, because of the fact that he has taken all of my money, and if he sues me i dont want him going after the precious little that i still have, and trust me on this he would....just to shut me up!
he has so much to hide......so much. so i haved to go slow and easy to expose him.
What the heck

Hurricane, WV

#12 Aug 12, 2011
Marylynn49 wrote:
<quoted text>oh im brave enough....god knows i am brave enough! hot air?! are you kidding me? I have to go slow here, because of the fact that he has taken all of my money, and if he sues me i dont want him going after the precious little that i still have, and trust me on this he would....just to shut me up!
he has so much to hide......so much. so i haved to go slow and easy to expose him.
Why don't you just blackmail him? If you really have that much dirt why wouldn't you? I think he made you a little nuts.
What the heck

Hurricane, WV

#13 Aug 12, 2011
What the heck wrote:
<quoted text>Why don't you just blackmail him? If you really have that much dirt why wouldn't you? I think he made you a little nuts.
Well maybe not nuts but just a bit carried away...
Question

Prestonsburg, KY

#14 Aug 13, 2011
Former Governor Bob Wise?

Since: Jun 11

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#15 Aug 16, 2011
HUH?!

Since: Aug 11

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#16 Aug 16, 2011
What does the good former Goveno have to do with anything?
I think "What the heck" might have this right.....as in carried away?!
sounds like this woman was screwed by this guy. honey you need to get past all this, your better than this baby, this guy sounds like a piece of crap! sounds like a con-artist if ya ask me!
let it goe!
Marylynn49

United States

#17 Aug 16, 2011
holdup wrote:
I'm sorry that you were hurt by this man but honey take it from me, harboring such hate and anger in your heart will only hurt you. It's not worth it. Seek healing for yourself and I guarantee there is someone perfect for you out there. There was for me
but how did you find that healing? Please tell me, cause i wish I knew where to find healing.
Deep within my heart I feel as though he knows what he did and only he can help me, by simply saying "Im sorry" That's all I want!
It isnt as though he cant find me, cause I'm right there.....in his back yard!
be glad and move on

San Francisco, CA

#18 Aug 25, 2011
Be glad he is gone and move on. The more you obsess, the more he wins. Do not allow him to dominate your life! You are giving him the power by wallering in the mess that was your life with him. Just sayin...
Cat Bird

Charleston, WV

#19 Aug 25, 2011
Marylynn49 wrote:
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but how did you find that healing? Please tell me, cause i wish I knew where to find healing.
Deep within my heart I feel as though he knows what he did and only he can help me, by simply saying "Im sorry" That's all I want!
It isnt as though he cant find me, cause I'm right there.....in his back yard!
We all think it's the end of the world. It's not, and very few women don't recover. I have known a couple though who never were able to move on. One ended up mentally ill and committed to a "care facility" by her children when she was in her early 50s. Another just became a chronic drunk and her family was glad when she finally died.

I know it's easier said than done and I know what it's like to be so obsessed you can't even concentrate on anything else for even one second. I know how you hate on every woman, especially young ones or pretty ones or ones with big boobs or celebrities. I remember sitting at a stop light and wanting to run over some young woman because I thought if my cheating husband saw her he'd want to do her (I was still young then myself). I remember the pain, the hatred, the vileness, all of it and it was the single worst time in my life. But I did get over it.

You know how? Another man came along who pulled my broken self esteem out of the gutter. He screwed my brains out, told me I was smoking hot, listened to me, did nice things for me. We talked and laughed. He was a friend. He rescued me and I will love him till I die because of it. That was a long time ago. I still see him sometimes. I've been re-married to someone else for 12 years.

You have to figure out a way to divert your attention for starters. Don't spend too much time alone. Find something to occupy your mind. Hatred makes you ugly and gives you a bad vibe.

Get out. Free your mind, do something that makes you feel good about yourself. Don't go to bars and pick up men out of revenge or any of that crap. I've known so many women who did that and they were pathetic and ended up even worse off.

Living well is the best revenge my friend. Women who can't move on are pathetic. Soon your friends will begin to avoid you too because you're a drag. And don't use your children to hurt him whatever you do, don't do that. I never once did that.

Volunteer at hospice or the animal shelter. Something to give you perspective. Maybe go back to school. Anything to occupy your mind.

Trust me on this.
omg

United States

#20 Sep 6, 2011
please wrote:
Go ahead tell it all if you are brave enough. Go on and give a little detail about your book, lol, or are you just blowing hot air?
not blowing hot air.....just afraid. yhese people should be feared
sometimes i want to call them out and say lets play!

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