goodie mob

West Hamlin, WV

#2 Nov 8, 2013
Trying to Help wrote:
I must start with first saying, "Stand up and be a man!" Women can only control a man who allows himself to be controlled. Love does not mean giving up your friends or only talking to the friends she chooses for you to talk to. It also doesn't mean she gets to make all of the decisions in your life and control your thoughts or actions to certain stuff. If you are a man being controlled and you can't see that, you most likely need some serious help. Women who control their men are in a much larger power struggle within themselves than they are with the men they control. The man is not the issue and what he does right or wrong, assuming he does anything right, is not the issue. She has problems that need to be dealt with and controlling her man certainly doesn't need to be a part of it. Again, as the man being controlled, you are allowing it. Stop already!

If you are a man in this type of relationship and you think for one moment you're going to change her, you're sadly mistaken. She is the only one that can change her. That is one decision she most certainly must make for herself. You will not find some magic potion to suddenly make her share the decision making with you. The problem is much, much deeper.

Typically, controlling women break down a man's confidence in himself little by little until the man begins to believe he is nothing without her. Controlling women are manipulative and intimidating. They are often so good at this; they make the man feel he is the one responsible for making her angry or upset. She may often accuse him of be uncaring or insensitive to her feelings. Often, the man begins to feel it was indeed all his fault. Many men with low self-esteem will continue to allow this to happen. Often, he will change his behavior to "keep the peace" or simply to escape the circumstance causing the current episode. Along with this, his self-esteem plummets even further. In all relationships, there are leaders and there are followers. For the most part, that's quite healthy. However, when the woman spends most of her energy trying to control her man, she needs to look deep within herself and find out where this issue comes from. These women must learn to understand that you can't gain control of your own life by controlling others. You can only gain control on your own life by controlling yourself.
And what's even funnier is these women who are home wreckers wanting these men to leave their wives even thought the men has told them time and time again that they love their wife!! Just because you was something on the side doesn't mean you were something special. And, just because he did not choose you doesn't mean he is being controlled by his wife. Get over yourself and move on!
Ebony

Huntington, WV

#3 Nov 8, 2013
Goodie mob is a troll who stares at topix almost 24/7 but she is speaking the truth in that comment. Move on!
Plagiarism

Chesapeake, VA

#4 Nov 8, 2013
Trying to Help wrote:
I must start with first saying, "Stand up and be a man!" Women can only control a man who allows himself to be controlled. Love does not mean giving up your friends or only talking to the friends she chooses for you to talk to. It also doesn't mean she gets to make all of the decisions in your life and control your thoughts or actions to certain stuff. If you are a man being controlled and you can't see that, you most likely need some serious help. Women who control their men are in a much larger power struggle within themselves than they are with the men they control. The man is not the issue and what he does right or wrong, assuming he does anything right, is not the issue. She has problems that need to be dealt with and controlling her man certainly doesn't need to be a part of it. Again, as the man being controlled, you are allowing it. Stop already!
If you are a man in this type of relationship and you think for one moment you're going to change her, you're sadly mistaken. She is the only one that can change her. That is one decision she most certainly must make for herself. You will not find some magic potion to suddenly make her share the decision making with you. The problem is much, much deeper.
Typically, controlling women break down a man's confidence in himself little by little until the man begins to believe he is nothing without her. Controlling women are manipulative and intimidating. They are often so good at this; they make the man feel he is the one responsible for making her angry or upset. She may often accuse him of be uncaring or insensitive to her feelings. Often, the man begins to feel it was indeed all his fault. Many men with low self-esteem will continue to allow this to happen. Often, he will change his behavior to "keep the peace" or simply to escape the circumstance causing the current episode. Along with this, his self-esteem plummets even further. In all relationships, there are leaders and there are followers. For the most part, that's quite healthy. However, when the woman spends most of her energy trying to control her man, she needs to look deep within herself and find out where this issue comes from. These women must learn to understand that you can't gain control of your own life by controlling others. You can only gain control on your own life by controlling yourself.
plagiarism at it's best! If you don't know what "plagiarism means", google it as you did your post, It is called copy and past. Nice job!!
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goodie mob

Alexandria, VA

#6 Nov 8, 2013
Ebony wrote:
Goodie mob is a troll who stares at topix almost 24/7 but she is speaking the truth in that comment. Move on!
How am I a troll? Because I gave my opinion on something? I'm no more a troll than you are!! I've made 3 or 4 comments all together on this web site so I think you have me confused!!

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