Terrible mother part 3

Since: Aug 12

Gettysburg, PA

#1 Aug 4, 2012
The daughter, needing to move on with her life decided to buy land and place a modular home on it and continue her career in the veterinary technician field. Her marriage had dissolved around the time of her fathers death and she had only her needs and wants to consider. Around this time her mother came back around and again extended the olive branch to the daughter. The mother even went so far as to cosign on the daughters mortgage against the daughters knowledge. The mother discussed purchasing land near her so she could provide pet care during the week, companionship, and in the future, health care like she provided for her father in his time of need. The daughter had already selected a few locations relatively near her mothers land in Newport, Pa but upon further discussions with her mother she was rather forcibly persuaded and guilt tripped into purchasing two acres from the mothers twenty five acre wooded lot awarded to the mother in the divorce. The mother offered her daughter a two acre plot for ten thousand dollars with the verbal agreement that the daughter finance anything that needed to be done to the land to become habitable,continue to pay for her cell phone which the daughter had been providing since 2007, pay the land and school taxes that would be linked to the two acres, provide a trash service and pay for any additional upkeep on the land and shared driveway and well.
While the modular home was being built and the land was being tamed for the home the daughter continued to live in the home beside her fathers waiting anxiously for the move in date. The mother sat down with the daughter and convinced her that she would be financially more stable if she sold her home and moved in with her while the final preparations for the modular home were being dealt with. The daughter hesitantly agreed to stay in the mothers loft and provide care to the mothers seven cats and to keep the loft clean and tidy as well as any shared living areas. Once the daughter moved into the mothers home the true reasons for the olive branch and moving into her home became apparent. The mother still worked for the state and was not home during the week and wanted a live in maid to clean her home. The daughter now being
stuck in this less then desirable situation cared for the animals and cleaned the home while working fourteen hour days at an animal hospital. In addition to cleaning and caring for the home and pets the daughter wrote the mother a check for two thousand dollars to cover any expenses related to additional use of the mothers water, electricity and heat use for the four months that the daughter stayed at the mothers home. After months of this strained living situations and the mother trying to force the daughter into total compliance with her every demand the modular home was placed on the two acres and the daughter gladly moved into her new home.
The daughter, per the verbal agreement between mother and herself, paid for the surveying of the two acres, permits for the driveway, home, construction, septic design and placement, excavation of the land, placement of the electric lines to power the new home, as well as the drilling of two wells which were not deemed acceptable by the township and eventually the addition of a larger well pump so that the mother and daughter shared a well, in addition to any other expenses incurred in the placement of a new home. The daughter continued to care for and provide for her mothers home, pets, cell phone service, and trash service as well as pay the land and school taxes on the two acres the daughter modular home occupied as per the verbal agreement. The daughter paid the mother in cash twelve thousand dollars for the two acres of land shortly after the legal survey of the land and their strained relationship relaxed a few degrees. No receipt or legal paperwork was drawn up between the mother and daughter due to the mothers insistence that you can trust family.

Really

Biglerville, PA

#2 Aug 5, 2012
Sounds like the whining daughter should quit making poor decisions.

Since: Aug 12

Gettysburg, PA

#3 Aug 6, 2012
Thanks for the comment really. obviously you have never worked or paid for anything in your life our you wouldn't have responded like this whatsoever. Were you never taught to keep your thoughts to yourself if they weren't kind? Why dont you read the whole story first and then reply. Not only was your response rude but unhelpful. this story is true and factual and leaves many of the nastier things the mother has done to her family not just the daughter. i would rather you not read my posts if you cant add anything constructive. I posted this forum here against hope that someone would have a suggestion or idea to prevent the situation from escilating. Input where your wanted

Since: Aug 12

Gettysburg, PA

#4 Aug 6, 2012
Really wrote:
Sounds like the whining daughter should quit making poor decisions.
Thanks for the comment really. obviously you have never worked or paid for anything in your life our you wouldn't have responded like this whatsoever. Were you never taught to keep your thoughts to yourself if they weren't kind? Why dont you read the whole story first and then reply. Not only was your response rude but unhelpful. this story is true and factual and leaves many of the nastier things the mother has done to her family not just the daughter. i would rather you not read my posts if you cant add anything constructive. I posted this forum here against hope that someone would have a suggestion or idea to prevent the situation from escilating. Input where your wanted

“ONE LOVE...ONE HORSE”

Since: Dec 07

Location hidden

#5 Aug 8, 2012
Want to keep things from escalating?

Don't make internet posts detailing other peoples personal affairs.
perspective is a bitch

New Oxford, PA

#6 Aug 8, 2012
Buck up for Christ's sake. Your Mom may be terrible but you are a whiner. Do something constructive about your situation instead of airing your dirty laundry. If you aren't embarrassed, I'll be embarrassed for you.
Scoobie - Doo

Annapolis, MD

#7 Aug 11, 2012
ALWAYS REMEMBER THESE WORDS SWEETIE..........
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER go into a legal or anything I don't give a fig who it is with; WITHOUT having it in writing and signed and witnessed and dated by a Notary.......

Since: Aug 12

Gettysburg, PA

#8 Aug 24, 2012
perspective is a bitch wrote:
Buck up for Christ's sake. Your Mom may be terrible but you are a whiner. Do something constructive about your situation instead of airing your dirty laundry. If you aren't embarrassed, I'll be embarrassed for you.
Would love to do something about it however it seems pretty impossible when your bed bound in the hospital. Again if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything, thats called manners. I wrote this to help resolve the emotional stress and termoil associated with the situation. And for your information what we are doing about it has no place in this story. Thanks for the support jackass
Stinky Pinkie

Frederick, MD

#9 Aug 28, 2012
Geez.

Trashy, Jerry-Springerish behavior.

No...not the "mom", but the oh-poor-me soul who bares her heard on the internet, in FORUMS no less, and then can't handle the responses.

Have some self-respect for goodness sake and keep your family's dirty laundry on the line in the BACK yard, not out front for all to see.

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