Mr. Michael Proctor
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noneya

Scott City, MO

#1 Sep 15, 2009
So I see that the thread had been removed regarding Michael Proctor. Ok.. I’m gonna put my 2 cents in here. Some of the comments on the SE Missourian were taking Michaels side, claiming that he’s only human, and everyone makes mistakes. I for one have never cheated on my spouse. I have never broken the law in such a way. I have never put my family in jeopardy like this. Quit giving the guy the benefit of the doubt. Quit making excuses for him. What he did was wrong. The more people rationalize this, the easier it is to swallow, the more we make this behavior acceptable. IT is not acceptable for a husband, a father, a uncle , a correctional officer to do this. It is not OK. How do you think his wife feels?? I guarantee you that SHE would NEVER in a million years be unfaithful to her husband. I know this for a fact. She is worth more than this, and so are her children. They do not deserve this, and it is NOT okay.
guest

Saint Louis, MO

#2 Sep 15, 2009
i hope she opens her eyes and looks past all the excuses. you can only take so much crap from a person who says that they love you. i know that marriage is a sacred thing, but so is honesty, loyalty, respect, consideration, integrity, etc. once they have shown that they will think of themselves before you and your family and cause you great humiliation then that shows their true colors and more than likely that will never change. you know the saying fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
Big Daddy

United States

#3 Sep 15, 2009
You are right noneya. I agree. But it would be that much harder for the wife to get on this site and see her business all over again. I couldnt emagine being in her place in which there is no excape. Im sure its everyplace she looks right now. You are right about her she is a good person and doesnt deserve this. I just would want this to add to her problems.
noneya

Scott City, MO

#4 Sep 16, 2009
I see your point big daddy. Im sure Mrs. Proctor is going through hell right now. I just wish she could see that she for sure does not deserve that type of behavior.. Im sure she is mad, but I am almost positive that she will stay with him. This could be a good thing if michael goes to counseling, and works to regain her trust. Or it could be really bad if he continues to walk all over her..
Big Daddy

United States

#5 Sep 16, 2009
I couldnt emagine what she is going through. But hopefully he gets help and they figure something out.
huh

United States

#6 Sep 17, 2009
gets help? for what? you cant fix stupid.
guest 2

Saint Louis, MO

#7 Sep 27, 2009
huh wrote:
gets help? for what? you cant fix stupid.
you are so right!!!
guest

Waterloo, IL

#8 Sep 30, 2009
This is so sad...I was hoping that I just heard this wrong or it was like so many of the other stories that run rampid around here. There is no excuse for such terrible behavior. This goes way beyond a bad decision or just bad judgement. How could he have been so completely selfish. Amanda has always been one of the kindest people I have ever known, she in no way deserves this kind of treatment from anyone much less someone that says they love her. If this is what constitutes the definition of love in his mind,...KICK HIS SORRY ASS TO THE CURB! Count the blessings you have and be done with it.
for real

Waterloo, IL

#9 Sep 30, 2009
noneya wrote:
I see your point big daddy. Im sure Mrs. Proctor is going through hell right now. I just wish she could see that she for sure does not deserve that type of behavior.. Im sure she is mad, but I am almost positive that she will stay with him. This could be a good thing if michael goes to counseling, and works to regain her trust. Or it could be really bad if he continues to walk all over her..
Surely she's smarter than that? You really think she's gonna stay after this? She has always been a wonderful person. I hope she does not put up with him. I realize she is hurt and most likely mad and feeling very betrayed, there is no way to justify this kind of behavior. She is still young enough to start over and possibly meet someone that will really love her, and will always have her and her children's best interest at heart.
Big Daddy

United States

#10 Oct 1, 2009
Im not in their shoes (thank god). But I wish both of them the best in whatever they decide. Michael has never been a bad person towards me personally but I dont approve of how he has been towards Amanda. Amanda has always been a really good person. Not only does she not deserve this but no one would.
guest

Saint Louis, MO

#11 Oct 3, 2009
Stupid fother mucker. How many times do we have to hear about this sort of thing going on before we say enough! If these men/women that like to go outside of the marriage for "extra", had to wear a burnt brand on their forehead, do you think anyone would seriously have anything to do with them? If you find your eye wondering, do the right thing dumb ass, get a divorce first.
Concerned

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Oct 5, 2009
Are there charges pending?
wondering

United States

#14 Jan 8, 2010
What's the latest?
Guest

Jackson, MO

#15 Jan 8, 2010
Big Daddy wrote:
Im not in their shoes (thank god). But I wish both of them the best in whatever they decide. Michael has never been a bad person towards me personally but I dont approve of how he has been towards Amanda. Amanda has always been a really good person. Not only does she not deserve this but no one would.
You are right. But...you never know what you will do until you are in that situation. Never say you would just leave...because after the anger and pain diminishes over time, you may realize you still love that person. Can you truly forgive? That's the question you have to answer.
Guest

Jackson, MO

#16 Jan 8, 2010
guest wrote:
Stupid fother mucker. How many times do we have to hear about this sort of thing going on before we say enough! If these men/women that like to go outside of the marriage for "extra", had to wear a burnt brand on their forehead, do you think anyone would seriously have anything to do with them? If you find your eye wondering, do the right thing dumb ass, get a divorce first.
I think the brand would help...I would know who the easy targets were.
Honest

Jackson, MO

#17 Jan 8, 2010
guest wrote:
Stupid fother mucker. How many times do we have to hear about this sort of thing going on before we say enough! If these men/women that like to go outside of the marriage for "extra", had to wear a burnt brand on their forehead, do you think anyone would seriously have anything to do with them? If you find your eye wondering, do the right thing dumb ass, get a divorce first.
Don't get a divorce first...talk to your spouse. It would be easier to go to your spouse and say that you are not happy or satisfied and are being tempted then to have an affair. Don't cheat. It will hurt your children, your friends, your spouse, and your family. You will lose respect, self-respect, and trust...not to mention all the money thrown away on lawyers. People will always look down on you. Imagine going to sleep and your children not being right in the next room, or in the same house, or even in the same town. Imagine not being to hug them and tell them good-night. And if you do stay together and work it out, you will always have that between you. IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
guest

Park Hills, MO

#18 Jan 8, 2010
Once a cheater always a cheater I always say!
wondering

Edwardsville, IL

#19 Mar 13, 2010
is he in jail yet?
former chaffee girl

Centralia, IL

#20 Apr 22, 2010
Don't any of you understand that not only did he cheat but he also a rapest. the law state that there is no such thing as consintul sex between a prisoner and a corrections officer, and yes he was found guilty along with the other scum bag. Sad cause there are so many more that have done this same thing and the girls are to scared to say any thing. These dumd ass just got caught on tape and the girl wrote statements on them.
guest

Cape Girardeau, MO

#21 Apr 23, 2010
Are we SERIOUSLY still on this subject? He messed up, yes it was wrong, very wrong. But that was MONTHS ago... let the law deal with it and quit concerning yourself with it. It's not our responsibility to pass judgement

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