laura

Bullhead City, AZ

#1 Sep 20, 2013
my life sucks. i'm stuck in a situation with a man that drinks from the time he gets home, then sleeps. On his days off he drinks, drinks, drinks, and then drinks more until he goes back to work. I went to prison a few years ago for a dui where I didn't get in an accident but I had 3 dui's within 5 years. I just want it to end. All of it. He doesn't seem to get it. My story is the same old shit where I was molested at 6 until I was 14. My mom and brother both committed suicide and I want to also but I'm so afraid that something will happen and I [email protected] it up and it will leave me brain dead.
Chauncy

Los Angeles, CA

#2 Sep 20, 2013
laura wrote:
my life sucks. i'm stuck in a situation with a man that drinks from the time he gets home, then sleeps. On his days off he drinks, drinks, drinks, and then drinks more until he goes back to work. I went to prison a few years ago for a dui where I didn't get in an accident but I had 3 dui's within 5 years. I just want it to end. All of it. He doesn't seem to get it. My story is the same old shit where I was molested at 6 until I was 14. My mom and brother both committed suicide and I want to also but I'm so afraid that something will happen and I [email protected] it up and it will leave me brain dead.
You said your father started molesting you at the age of six. So that means you had five good years. Why don't you focus on that, instead of all the negative stuff? I'm reading your post while trying to have a nice breakfast here, you know.
laura

Bullhead City, AZ

#3 Sep 20, 2013
Chauncy wrote:
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You said your father started molesting you at the age of six. So that means you had five good years. Why don't you focus on that, instead of all the negative stuff? I'm reading your post while trying to have a nice breakfast here, you know.
i didn't say my father started molesting me, in fact it was my uncle that was molesting me. from 6-8 then when i turned 12 my dad did it until i came home pregnant at 14. that was the first time ever that my mom stuck up for me
Chauncy

Los Angeles, CA

#4 Sep 20, 2013
laura wrote:
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i didn't say my father started molesting me, in fact it was my uncle that was molesting me. from 6-8 then when i turned 12 my dad did it until i came home pregnant at 14. that was the first time ever that my mom stuck up for me
Wait... so your dad got you pregnant at 14? Wow, that's some old school Arkansas stuff. I didn't know they were still doing that stuff there! God, I hate Arkies and Oakies. They used to come to California in droves. They answered the question, "what if god hadn't invented black people? wouldn't everything be great?"
The answer is no. Not as long as Arkies and Oakies exist. I'm tellin' ya.
So do you still have the kid from when you were fourteen? Are there any more, pray tell? Did your uncle and dad get to go to jail? I'm hoping that happened.

Since: Sep 13

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#5 Sep 20, 2013
laura wrote:
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i didn't say my father started molesting me, in fact it was my uncle that was molesting me. from 6-8 then when i turned 12 my dad did it until i came home pregnant at 14. that was the first time ever that my mom stuck up for me
I wouldn't pay much attention to "chumpy" they say misery loves company? I would say this applies with this type of negative feedback...I hate to hear you are going threw such hard times! Life is full of hard times...but you should never give up! If what is happening in life isn't going well you need to change it...I will check back here to see if you respond or want someone to talk to...have a nice day!
laura

Bullhead City, AZ

#6 Sep 26, 2013
Chauncy wrote:
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Wait... so your dad got you pregnant at 14? Wow, that's some old school Arkansas stuff. I didn't know they were still doing that stuff there! God, I hate Arkies and Oakies. They used to come to California in droves. They answered the question, "what if god hadn't invented black people? wouldn't everything be great?"
The answer is no. Not as long as Arkies and Oakies exist. I'm tellin' ya.
So do you still have the kid from when you were fourteen? Are there any more, pray tell? Did your uncle and dad get to go to jail? I'm hoping that happened.
do u even read??? I never said my dad got me pregnant. theres a difference between molesting and raping. all three of my babies have the same daddy.
laura

Bullhead City, AZ

#7 Sep 26, 2013
Mr Cosa Nostra wrote:
<quoted text> I wouldn't pay much attention to "chumpy" they say misery loves company? I would say this applies with this type of negative feedback...I hate to hear you are going threw such hard times! Life is full of hard times...but you should never give up! If what is happening in life isn't going well you need to change it...I will check back here to see if you respond or want someone to talk to...have a nice day!
how do i change my life at almost 55?

Since: Sep 13

Location hidden

#8 Sep 30, 2013
There is always time for positive change...at any age things can be turned around...life is worth living and good things are always around the corner...stay positive and take it one day at a time...

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