Have you been raped or hurt?

Have you been raped or hurt?

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Mountain View, CA

#1 Nov 21, 2011
I was raped for 6 years of my life and dealing with that was hard for me.if you have been raped ,hurt ,need advice or just need someone to talk to .my email is [email protected] will reply as soon as possible.thanks and my god bless you :)
why

United States

#2 Nov 21, 2011
Why would anyone talk to someone they didn't know about such matters.
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#3 Nov 21, 2011
Im just know I was hurt and I wished someone would have tlked to me so iv just saying that if anyone needs support or a friend that im here for them :)
been there

Roanoke, VA

#4 Nov 21, 2011
Iv been hurt 2 wrote:
Im just know I was hurt and I wished someone would have tlked to me so iv just saying that if anyone needs support or a friend that im here for them :)
I went thru the same experience.I always wanted someone to talk to about it but at the time I thought I was to blame and was to embarrased to tell.Maybe noone would believe like he told me ....who believed a 9 year old ...years ago
Just sayn

United States

#5 Nov 22, 2011
why wrote:
Why would anyone talk to someone they didn't know about such matters.
If you had ever been hurt that way you would know why someone would talk to someone they didn know it is so much easer to talk to someone you dont know about things like that..than someone you know and have to see all the time and wonder if they are thinkin about what you told them. Adn to the lady who posted this i think its great what you are doing ..
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#6 Nov 25, 2011
Just sayn wrote:
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If you had ever been hurt that way you would know why someone would talk to someone they didn know it is so much easer to talk to someone you dont know about things like that..than someone you know and have to see all the time and wonder if they are thinkin about what you told them. Adn to the lady who posted this i think its great what you are doing ..
thank u so much .i really took that to heart.
just asking

United States

#7 Nov 25, 2011
is the about the case that happened in castlewood, involving p.s.
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#8 Nov 25, 2011
Involving who?
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#9 Nov 27, 2011
I just realized who you was talking about and yes it is.
shirley

United States

#10 Nov 28, 2011
My husband was raped by his office assistant. He has had a horrible time ever since. I have tried to get him to seek counseling but he says its too embarrassing. He never talks of it because he said it hurt too bad. She is a beautiful woman with a sweet personality, she is a person whom you would never think of as a rapist. I walked into his office late one evening to surprise him with dinner and there it was, she was raping him right there on his desk! I was horrified! I blamed him for cheating on me but i later found out that he was raped by this evil woman! He really needs to talk to someone because I think he feels alone, he says that no one will believe him and that there is no point, nothing will ever erase his pain that this evil woman has caused!
just asking

Schuylkill Haven, PA

#11 Nov 28, 2011
Rapping a man, mmmmmm, yea i have had that told on me before, and there sure wasnt any rapping going on, maybe a lot of cheating. but this little girl is talking about something serious, involving her step father, not something silly like that. im sorry that you have been going through that for so many years, i never would have dreamed it. but god will look over you. he is in jail now aint he?
shirley

United States

#12 Nov 28, 2011
Just asking, my story is also serious! Just because he was a grown man when it happened doesn't mean that he doesn't deserve help too! This has been torture on me ever since it happened! I have went through a roller coaster of emotions just like he has! When he hurts so do I! At first he blamed himself, he believed he may have sent her wrong signals without meaning to. I believed then that he had just been cheating on me, but after his explanation of the incident I realize how heartless I was to have not supported and believed him! I tried to explain to him that getting raped is never the victims fault, but that is the first thing they do is blame themselves. She later had a. Child whom he believes he is the father of. If you all know of any support groups for men that maybe he could attend, I would appreciate the help. Thank you!
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#13 Nov 28, 2011
shirley wrote:
My husband was raped by his office assistant. He has had a horrible time ever since. I have tried to get him to seek counseling but he says its too embarrassing. He never talks of it because he said it hurt too bad. She is a beautiful woman with a sweet personality, she is a person whom you would never think of as a rapist. I walked into his office late one evening to surprise him with dinner and there it was, she was raping him right there on his desk! I was horrified! I blamed him for cheating on me but i later found out that he was raped by this evil woman! He really needs to talk to someone because I think he feels alone, he says that no one will believe him and that there is no point, nothing will ever erase his pain that this evil woman has caused!
give him this email address [email protected] him there isnt anything I cant understand and tell him I agree on the counseling.ill b waiting :)
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#14 Nov 28, 2011
just asking wrote:
Rapping a man, mmmmmm, yea i have had that told on me before, and there sure wasnt any rapping going on, maybe a lot of cheating. but this little girl is talking about something serious, involving her step father, not something silly like that. im sorry that you have been going through that for so many years, i never would have dreamed it. but god will look over you. he is in jail now aint he?
please email me at [email protected] and by the way to the other lady sorry its yahoo not aol .please justasking email me at if all possible.thank you :)
Iv been hurt 2

United States

#15 Nov 28, 2011
shirley wrote:
Just asking, my story is also serious! Just because he was a grown man when it happened doesn't mean that he doesn't deserve help too! This has been torture on me ever since it happened! I have went through a roller coaster of emotions just like he has! When he hurts so do I! At first he blamed himself, he believed he may have sent her wrong signals without meaning to. I believed then that he had just been cheating on me, but after his explanation of the incident I realize how heartless I was to have not supported and believed him! I tried to explain to him that getting raped is never the victims fault, but that is the first thing they do is blame themselves. She later had a. Child whom he believes he is the father of. If you all know of any support groups for men that maybe he could attend, I would appreciate the help. Thank you!
I understand what you and you husband are going through.one of my best friends was raped and she blamed herself but little did she realized that the guy that raped her had brain washed her into thinking it was her falut and actualy it wasnt her fault at a .she was the victim and he is a criminal just like the woman that raped your husband.you husband feels as if it is his fault and as is he has hurt you and really the woman hurt him and done the same thing that guy did to my bestfriend.
Omg

United States

#16 Nov 29, 2011
I feel so sorry for that girl !is she ok?
okay

United States

#17 Jan 1, 2012
itts okay dan is here
Shirley

United States

#18 Feb 4, 2012
I just wanted to update, my husbands office assistant has also raped another man in the area, the victims wife is horrified and had the same reaction I did, she thought he was cheating, I assured her he was not. She caught her on top of him in the car in their driveway. He was helpless, this woman needs to be stopped, he won't allow her to tell authourities because the rapist lady is also married and he's afraid her husband will come after him.
yearight

United States

#19 Feb 4, 2012
Shirley sounds like this girl is a loosey goosey and you and the other mans wife are idiots, no man can be raped!!!!
jusss sayingg

Lebanon, VA

#20 Feb 8, 2012
isn't practically impossible to rape a man? a man has more strength than a woman and if the man didn't wanna have a affair or whatever they we're doing then he could've pushed her off. It was SO an affair.

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