Husband wearing womens underwear?????

Husband wearing womens underwear?????

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Yikes

Honaker, VA

#1 Oct 20, 2010
My husband has been wearing womens underwear. At first it was funny but then he wanted to buy some of his own instead of trying on mine. Now he has been wearing them out in public. He wears a thick sweatshirt so people can't see his bra but I am terrified that someone will notice and I will be so embarrassed. He says lots of men do this. Do a lot of men around here do this? Am I just being a prude? I feel very uneasy about it and don't even want to touch him. What do you think about this?

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UMM

Oakvale, WV

#2 Oct 20, 2010
Lets see here I would have to say the fact he is wairing a bra thats kinda odd now if it were just painties I would say that there isnt much rong with it but a bra yha now thats kinda odd ...And no alot of men dont do it around here ..But I still wouldnt say that makes him gay or anything ..
openminded

Blacksburg, VA

#3 Oct 20, 2010
Well first of all Do you love him? You obviously do you married him right? I think that it shows you have what he feels is a secure relationship for him to share this fetish with you. At least he doesn't feel the need to hide his desires from you that is a plus. I personally being a woman don't understand the desire to wear a bra if not necessary cause I frankly detest them. But I can speak from personal experience that a nice pair of panties or something can put a lil pep in my step make me feel a lil extra sexy. Or maybe he likes the feel of the soft silky material rubbing against him. Don't listen to umm there are far more men into this than you could imagine most are too embarrassed to share it with anyone else. It in no way makes the man gay. I mean that is an ignorant of a thought as a woman wearing boxers makes her a lesbian. Silly! If you feel uneasy about it, it's because you for some reason think its wrong...so tell me what is wrong about it. I mean years and years ago everyone wore dresses and then for the longest time it was taboo for women to wear pants. It's just clothing...like I said there are many reasons he could be doing it like feeling sexy or the sensation of the rubbing lots of things. Instead of instantly thinking there is something wrong with him or being embarrassed try to enjoy it with him try to think like he is dressing up for YOU. Something to turn you on or if it helps just know it turns him on...if your in a happy healthy relationship in all other aspects don't judge him soley on his sexual appetite. And just know there are lots of other men who are happily married to women who also do this. Look up some information on the net. Educate yourself before you judge. We all have our lil secret turn ons. Love him for everything good and bad. You'll both be happier for it!
Yikes

Honaker, VA

#4 Oct 20, 2010
We don't really have much of a sexual relationship any longer due to some medical problems I have. I really detest the fact that he suddenly wants to do this. It does make me wonder if he's gay. After all these years and now he wants to wear frilly underwear and bras. I'm not sure about it at all. It just seems weird to me. I am trying to look past it but it may be more than I can take.
openminded

Blacksburg, VA

#5 Oct 20, 2010
It might be something you just can't handle, for some women it is. I hate to hear about your medical problems. Did it occur to you that maybe acting out in this way is helping him remain faithful in a almost sex-less marriage. Not that it's your fault that you can no longer participate in sexual activity, but it doesn't remove his desire. I hate to see a marriage end over something like this. Do you honestly think he is GAY? Any other signs like gay porn, chatting with other men online or on the cell phone? And I will agree with you that if this was a big of a part of his life and you now make it seem its a lil bit of information he should have provided before the I Do's where exchanged. Wish you the best of luck if you need to talk I'll keep a check on this post even though i mostly hate this website I think this is the perfect forum for you to get feedback on your particular situation and be able to do it secretly.
loll

Richlands, VA

#6 Oct 20, 2010
funny
agree with openminded

Max Meadows, VA

#7 Oct 20, 2010
openminded s pretty smart, your husband is your husband...no matter what, but this is not the place to air your dirty, or shall i say frilly laundry, sorry, could not resist
masculine

Honaker, VA

#8 Oct 21, 2010
Pretty freaking gross if you ask me
lucian

Honaker, VA

#9 Oct 22, 2010
I don't think it's your fault your husband is wearing women's undergarments. It's something messed up in his own head. It is weird for a "man" to want to wear women's underwear. It's wrong for him to expect you to accept it unless of course he was doing it when you were dating then it's your fault for marrying him. Sounds like this guy has real issues he needs to deal with. I would say stop being a freak or get out if it were me.
STP50

Brownsburg, VA

#10 Oct 22, 2010
Is this post about Carlos Perkins ? Just sounds like it is ..And (openminded)sounds like it could be him .
wtf

Natural Bridge, VA

#11 Oct 22, 2010
this website is so stupid this lady is crying out for help and some ppl where really trying to help her and there stp50 has to show his freaking ignorance grow up dumbass
GrEeN wEeNiE

Roanoke, VA

#12 Oct 26, 2010
Look at the bright side ... instead of getting his panties in a wad, he's got his wad in his panties.
lmfao

Honaker, VA

#13 Oct 26, 2010
STP50 wrote:
Is this post about Carlos Perkins ? Just sounds like it is ..And (openminded)sounds like it could be him .
Why ...do you know something? Share with us.
STP50

Hillsboro, WV

#14 Oct 26, 2010
LMAO @ (GrEeN wEeNiE) and to (lmfao) It just sounds like the freak .
Yikes

Honaker, VA

#15 Oct 26, 2010
openminded wrote:
It might be something you just can't handle, for some women it is. I hate to hear about your medical problems. Did it occur to you that maybe acting out in this way is helping him remain faithful in a almost sex-less marriage. Not that it's your fault that you can no longer participate in sexual activity, but it doesn't remove his desire. I hate to see a marriage end over something like this. Do you honestly think he is GAY? Any other signs like gay porn, chatting with other men online or on the cell phone? And I will agree with you that if this was a big of a part of his life and you now make it seem its a lil bit of information he should have provided before the I Do's where exchanged. Wish you the best of luck if you need to talk I'll keep a check on this post even though i mostly hate this website I think this is the perfect forum for you to get feedback on your particular situation and be able to do it secretly.
Well our marriage is not totally sexless like I made it sound. I took care of his needs in other ways but we could not have sex the traditional way. Since this post I have left him because I can not deal with him and his new way of life. He has started going to that club in JC for gays so I think I just need to accept what is right in my face.
Yikes

Honaker, VA

#16 Oct 26, 2010
STP50 wrote:
Is this post about Carlos Perkins ? Just sounds like it is ..And (openminded)sounds like it could be him .
OMG no!! This post was not about him. He has his more problems than he can deal with already so I hope he's not gay but I have wondered.
The Batman

Lebanon, VA

#17 Oct 26, 2010
I am Batman!!! and I am definitely not gay. Any of you sexy gals want a good time come see me. Ugly skanks need not apply.
oh no

United States

#18 Oct 26, 2010
Does this man live on High Point?
hinduit

Honaker, VA

#19 Oct 26, 2010
The Batman wrote:
I am Batman!!! and I am definitely not gay. Any of you sexy gals want a good time come see me. Ugly skanks need not apply.
Shut up Carlos. You better not turn down any offers. LMAO
light4

Max Meadows, VA

#20 Oct 26, 2010
Yikes wrote:
My husband has been wearing womens underwear. At first it was funny but then he wanted to buy some of his own instead of trying on mine. Now he has been wearing them out in public. He wears a thick sweatshirt so people can't see his bra but I am terrified that someone will notice and I will be so embarrassed. He says lots of men do this. Do a lot of men around here do this? Am I just being a prude? I feel very uneasy about it and don't even want to touch him. What do you think about this?
what kind of underwear? just cotton or others? If its the sexy kind then im afraid he has a problem and may want to seek professional help. No there are not alot of men that I know of that do this. It is a fetish. Fetishes are called that because they are meant to be kept private. If he insists on doing this then his problems may be deeper than you or he has realized.

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