Inabetterplace

Tawas City, MI

#1 Dec 6, 2012
There is a man living in your community of Ubly Mich. that you should be aware of...
His name is Jay (Joseph) Langan.
He is not a very nice man.
He left his wife, daughter, older children and grandbabies behind to move in with another woman whom he met on a dating website...she lives there in Ubly...her name is Cyndi Hogston...
Oh I know this goes on frequently all over nowadays but what makes this especially sad is that he broke his daughters heart with what he did...
She is going to college..is on the Dean's List...and was saving for a car in order to get around on her own and be independent...she lives at home in order to keep her expenses down...
When he was living with his wife and daughter he was chatting online, calling, and going to see this woman on the pretense of "looking for a job" as he would tell us..
Finally one day when we were 5 months behind on the rent...because he would not get a job..bills behind...he left saying he wasn't coming back until he "got a job"...and borrowed money from his daughter in order to go to live with his girlfriend Cyndi...and had a friend of the family take him to his girlfriends place of work on the pretense of looking for a "job"...
Our daughter had to take the money she had saved for her car and pay the back rent so we wouldn't become homeless...needless to say she isn't happy with her father...
He is an Army Vet. so he should have known better...he is 59 yrs. old...he should have known better..he should have been a better role model for his children and grandchildren..and to make this even worse the woman he lives with now knows all of this and she still wants him in her life...very sad
Her parents whom live next door to her...Victor and Mary Hernalsteen...know this information...and he still lives with their daughter...these are good Christian people from what I've been told...but they still let this man live within their family ...I don't understand any of this...
I know Jay is a liar of huge proportions...some of the stories he has told our family as well as I'm sure Cyndi's family are outrageous...but yet he is still living with them...
What has this world come to nowadays?...You can only feel sorry for someone for so long...Our family tried to help him to no avail...he doesn't want to change so we have to go on with our lives the best we can...
I just hate to see another family be put through what he will put this family through before he moves on to another family and does the same thing...
I just want people to be aware of what he is doing and then it's up to them if they want to be around him...
Thank you...

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