how can somebody drink when there preg.?

how can somebody drink when there preg.?

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THE 1AND ONLY

Akron, NY

#1 Feb 8, 2009
OK SO IVE SEEN A COUPLE PEEPS THATS BEEN GOIN TO THE BAR AND CLUB AND THEY ARE PREGNANT AND SHOWIN, WALKIN AROUND WITH BEERS OR MIXED DRINKS DANCIN AND RUBBIN THERE STOMACHS.... MATTER OF A FACT IM GONNA SPILL THE BEANS ON WHO IT IS..... TIFFANY CRAIG AND HER SISTER JESSICA.... O SEEN PASHA S. OVER THERE TO LASTNITE SHE PREG. AND DOIN THE SAME THING THE OTHER GIRLS WAS DOIN...... THAT IS SO SAD AND PATHETIC THAT SOMEBODY COULD DO THAT TO A FETUS..... NONE OF THEM DESERVE KIDS AT ALL...... THEY DON'T TAKE CARE OF THE ONES THEY DO HAVE, AND BEIN 21 AND WORKIN ON YOUR 4TH KID NOT KNOWIN WHO THE DAD IS..... THATS CRAZY. THESE FEMALES NEED TO SHOW MORE RESPECT FOR THERE BODYS AND GET OFF WELFARE.......
Working Mom

United States

#2 Feb 8, 2009
I too have this many times over the past few years. I am a young 24 yr old who likes to go party at the boat, Lebos and even showcase at times and get a few drinks after work or just to party with my friends. I have never drank alchohol or even smoked when I was pregnant with my baby. However I have seen young mothers my age drinking and smoking and although I realize they are over the age of 21 I catch myself being judgemental towards them. I am just as guilty as they are by standing by and not speaking up and telling them that it is wrong. If I get involved then problems occur and I have enough to deal with. I don't feel there is nothing wrong with having a few drinks with friends and having a night out but I do feel when your pregnant you should be more responsible. What should I do in this case. Is it my business to get involved or am I just as guilty by not saying anything. I would like to hear some opinions or what I should do.
get-er-done

Miami, FL

#3 Feb 8, 2009
JUST TURN THE GLASS UP STUPID !!!!
Working Mom

United States

#4 Feb 8, 2009
get-er-done wrote:
JUST TURN THE GLASS UP STUPID !!!!
I am not sure what your comment is saying. Could you please explain more. I am confused by it.
THE 1AND ONLY

Akron, NY

#5 Feb 8, 2009
Working Mom wrote:
I too have this many times over the past few years. I am a young 24 yr old who likes to go party at the boat, Lebos and even showcase at times and get a few drinks after work or just to party with my friends. I have never drank alchohol or even smoked when I was pregnant with my baby. However I have seen young mothers my age drinking and smoking and although I realize they are over the age of 21 I catch myself being judgemental towards them. I am just as guilty as they are by standing by and not speaking up and telling them that it is wrong. If I get involved then problems occur and I have enough to deal with. I don't feel there is nothing wrong with having a few drinks with friends and having a night out but I do feel when your pregnant you should be more responsible. What should I do in this case. Is it my business to get involved or am I just as guilty by not saying anything. I would like to hear some opinions or what I should do.
I AGREE WITH YOU.... I HAVE A CHILD MYSELF I AM GUILTY FOR SMOKIN CIGGS WHEN I WAS PG. BUT NEVER TURNED A BOTTLE UP. REALLY THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN SAY TO THEM ABOUT IT CS LIKE YOU SAID IT WILL CS PROBLEMS SO WHEN THERE KIDS COME OUT WITH SOMETHING WRONG. THERE THE ONES THATS GONNA HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT.... AND WE DO DESERVE TO GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME WERE MOTHERS WHO TAKE CARE OF OUR KIDS AND WE DO DESERVE A BREAK FROM TIME TO TIME..... ITS JUST SO SAD THAT THE KIDS ARE GONA GROW UP THINKIN THAT THERE MOTHERS DIDN'T CARE CS THEY WAS KNOCKED UP BUT STILL OUT GETTIN DRUNK AND OTHER THINGS..... THEM POOR KIDS.... ATLEAST ME AND U HAVE SOME SENCE.......
THE 1AND ONLY

Akron, NY

#6 Feb 8, 2009
get-er-done wrote:
JUST TURN THE GLASS UP STUPID !!!!
REALLY WHAT IS THIS ABOUT.... YOU ARENT MAKIN ANY SENCE AT ALL....
Working Mom

United States

#7 Feb 8, 2009
THE 1AND ONLY wrote:
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I AGREE WITH YOU.... I HAVE A CHILD MYSELF I AM GUILTY FOR SMOKIN CIGGS WHEN I WAS PG. BUT NEVER TURNED A BOTTLE UP. REALLY THERE IS NOTHING WE CAN SAY TO THEM ABOUT IT CS LIKE YOU SAID IT WILL CS PROBLEMS SO WHEN THERE KIDS COME OUT WITH SOMETHING WRONG. THERE THE ONES THATS GONNA HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT.... AND WE DO DESERVE TO GO OUT AND HAVE A GOOD TIME WERE MOTHERS WHO TAKE CARE OF OUR KIDS AND WE DO DESERVE A BREAK FROM TIME TO TIME..... ITS JUST SO SAD THAT THE KIDS ARE GONA GROW UP THINKIN THAT THERE MOTHERS DIDN'T CARE CS THEY WAS KNOCKED UP BUT STILL OUT GETTIN DRUNK AND OTHER THINGS..... THEM POOR KIDS.... ATLEAST ME AND U HAVE SOME SENCE.......
I guess my problem is when I see a pregnant girl drinking and just sit by and say nothing am I guilty of watching them harm their baby that is growing inside. Is that carless of me not to stand for a baby who doesn't have any rights yet or like you said if a girl is going to drink while pregnant in front of me and others what more will she do behind closed doors. It just makes me feel helpless at times. Is there any law against drinking while pregnant?
MotherTwo

Caruthersville, MO

#8 Feb 8, 2009
It will be the children that suffer in the long run.
THE 1AND ONLY

Akron, NY

#9 Feb 8, 2009
SURELY THERE IS I WOULD THINK SO ANYWAYS AND THE PERSON SERVIN THEM THE ALCOHOL SHOULD GET IN TROUBLE TOO.... I THINK IF THERE IS EVIDENCE THAT THE MOTHER WAS DRINKIN THEY SHOULD TAKE THE BABY AWAY.....
Resident

Wiggins, MS

#10 Feb 8, 2009
Actually consuming any kind of alcohol during pregnancy. It's called NIR - Newborn Infections Risk. Its not illegal in the state of Missouri, but there has been a bill drawn up for discussion on several occasions and has been denied everytime. I think it is so stupid for women to drink or smoke while they are pregnant. They are doing nothing but causing harm to their unborn baby, and then when something winds up wrong with it, they want to put the blame on god and wonder why he made them that way. News flash idiots...he didnt, you did. Grow up and learn some self respect and stop drinking and smoking and doing god knows what else while you are pregnant.
a reader

Cincinnati, OH

#11 Feb 8, 2009
I have to agree with "Resident" on this one, who by the way, was able to write a response in a coherent manner.

As for "The 1And Only", before I can even address your logic, I have to say that it took a lot of energy to make any sense (note the spelling of "sense") out of the babble you wrote. You make it sound like, that even though smoking during pregnancy is bad, that drinking during pregnancy is worse. Maybe it is, but here is my point. If there is so much concern for the unborn, then why do anything that is bad for the fetus? Why stop at drinking during pregnancy to take the baby away? Why not smoking too? Should the person who sells the cigarettes to a pregnant mother get into trouble too?

I only mention this if there is so much concern for the unborn. Oh, but I have another one. What do we do with those that decide to abort their pregnancies? If we are concerned about the unborn child's welfare, what about those that decide to kill their unborn children. Should the doctor and the would be mother be put in jail for murder?

Makes one wonder.
Nurse

Caruthersville, MO

#12 Feb 8, 2009
Please please women. Don't drink while you are pregnant. Also don't smoke. It is very harmful to your unborn child
onetwothree

United States

#13 Feb 9, 2009
THE 1AND ONLY wrote:
OK SO IVE SEEN A COUPLE PEEPS THATS BEEN GOIN TO THE BAR AND CLUB AND THEY ARE PREGNANT AND SHOWIN, WALKIN AROUND WITH BEERS OR MIXED DRINKS DANCIN AND RUBBIN THERE STOMACHS.... MATTER OF A FACT IM GONNA SPILL THE BEANS ON WHO IT IS..... TIFFANY CRAIG AND HER SISTER JESSICA.... O SEEN PASHA S. OVER THERE TO LASTNITE SHE PREG. AND DOIN THE SAME THING THE OTHER GIRLS WAS DOIN...... THAT IS SO SAD AND PATHETIC THAT SOMEBODY COULD DO THAT TO A FETUS..... NONE OF THEM DESERVE KIDS AT ALL...... THEY DON'T TAKE CARE OF THE ONES THEY DO HAVE, AND BEIN 21 AND WORKIN ON YOUR 4TH KID NOT KNOWIN WHO THE DAD IS..... THATS CRAZY. THESE FEMALES NEED TO SHOW MORE RESPECT FOR THERE BODYS AND GET OFF WELFARE.......
jessica craig, or ANY of the craig girls, dont take care of their kids. report her to the welfare because she has her kids with babysitters ALL the time. as long as she has a bbysitter, she dont have to deal with them, so she can just keep having them and getting bigger welfare checks and food stamps to party on.
justme

Saint Louis, MO

#14 Feb 9, 2009
no they dont take care of their babies..
justme

Saint Louis, MO

#15 Feb 9, 2009
i hear that tiffany craig pays her babysetter with drugs and i dont mean pot /someone needs to do something that has the power to
tiffany and jessica craig

Saint Louis, MO

#16 Feb 9, 2009
bitch we know who you and your mama are your ass is ours NOW WHAT/BRING IT
THE 1AND ONLY

Rochester, NY

#17 Feb 9, 2009
tiffany and jessica craig wrote:
bitch we know who you and your mama are your ass is ours NOW WHAT/BRING IT
EXCUSE ME HONEY BUT UNFORTIONATLY YOU DON'T KNOW ME OR MY MOTHER..... IF YOU DID YOU WOULD KNOW THAT MY MOTHER PASSED AWAY!!!! YOU MUST HAVE ALOT OF ENIMIES THAT ACTUALLY PAYS ATTENTION TO YOUR STUPID IMATURE DOPE HEADED ASS.
Someone in the know

United States

#18 Feb 9, 2009
Unregrettably, what has been said here on this forum is completely true.
I have witnessed so many dishonest actions that you would not believe.
Yes it is true that a girl from Dyersburg driving her own car was pulled over not for driving recklessly, but also for driving up Ward Ave at around 46 miles per hour. This driver was pulled over, female, age 19. She had been drinking and was in possession of marijuana which she and her date were smoking with a open container of Vodka. The date was a councilman of Caruthersville. The officer involved immediately released them with no questions asked.
I cannot tell my sources or I will be fired and I need my job.
This is not the first time that the mayor or council members or school board and even a superintendent have been seen not just drinking and driving, but also using drugs. Particularly cocaine and marijuana and getting caught committing adultry more than once or twice. They all do it and they are all guilty.
I have seen our Mayor who on the outside seems genuine, but that would be a false assumption. Riggs has been given orders from day one not to touch certain people. He is not the first Chief of police to be ordered to do this. Ken Chastain was given the same orders.
The mayor has done many things over the past years that have disgusted me. One instance I can name is when the Lowes corporation came to town in a hush hush meeting. This has never been publicised because the mayor threatened everyone if it leaked to the public. Lowes wanted to build their new building at the Industrial Park. The mayor and her friends did not want Lowes coming to town, because it would bring in too much business for our area and they wanted to control the town, not grow the town. They were worried about the new people who would be moving into our town to be apart of the community, buying homes, going to our schools, churchs, and mostly having opinions they couldn't control.
With Lowes coming to town, other businesses were coming to the area as well to be developed in the Industrial Park. Lowes brought with them investors who were also going to put in a few restaurants, a quick stop gas station, a movie theater and even a small strip mall. This would have brought even more people to town and with more people that means more voters. She and her friends wanted to stay in power so bad that they turned down the hush hush proposal and told Lowes no deal.
For your information the Lowes I am talking about is now located over at Dyersburg. Look at all the businesses that have sprung up over there. That was Caruthersville's ticket to better days. Our mayor and her friends on the council hushed up the whole thing and no one in this town ever got wind of it until now. I was there then too. I watched it all.
They do not intend to see our city thrive and grow.
I have seen so many ugly things that I am just tired of all the bullsh#t.
You might ask how could they keep Lowes out. Lowes wanted the land at the Industrial Park which the city owns. She is in charge and she wouldn't lease them the land. Plain and simple. She didn't even let the council decide on the issue, because she was afraid it would get out.
You wouldn't believe the corruptness of this town

“That's Right, Pally”

Since: Sep 07

Parts Unknown

#19 Feb 10, 2009
WOW,
Someone in the know wrote:
Unregrettably, what has been said here on this forum is completely true.
I have witnessed so many dishonest actions that you would not believe.
Yes it is true that a girl from Dyersburg driving her own car was pulled over not for driving recklessly, but also for driving up Ward Ave at around 46 miles per hour. This driver was pulled over, female, age 19. She had been drinking and was in possession of marijuana which she and her date were smoking with a open container of Vodka. The date was a councilman of Caruthersville. The officer involved immediately released them with no questions asked.
I cannot tell my sources or I will be fired and I need my job.
This is not the first time that the mayor or council members or school board and even a superintendent have been seen not just drinking and driving, but also using drugs. Particularly cocaine and marijuana and getting caught committing adultry more than once or twice. They all do it and they are all guilty.
I have seen our Mayor who on the outside seems genuine, but that would be a false assumption. Riggs has been given orders from day one not to touch certain people. He is not the first Chief of police to be ordered to do this. Ken Chastain was given the same orders.
The mayor has done many things over the past years that have disgusted me. One instance I can name is when the Lowes corporation came to town in a hush hush meeting. This has never been publicised because the mayor threatened everyone if it leaked to the public. Lowes wanted to build their new building at the Industrial Park. The mayor and her friends did not want Lowes coming to town, because it would bring in too much business for our area and they wanted to control the town, not grow the town. They were worried about the new people who would be moving into our town to be apart of the community, buying homes, going to our schools, churchs, and mostly having opinions they couldn't control.
With Lowes coming to town, other businesses were coming to the area as well to be developed in the Industrial Park. Lowes brought with them investors who were also going to put in a few restaurants, a quick stop gas station, a movie theater and even a small strip mall. This would have brought even more people to town and with more people that means more voters. She and her friends wanted to stay in power so bad that they turned down the hush hush proposal and told Lowes no deal.
For your information the Lowes I am talking about is now located over at Dyersburg. Look at all the businesses that have sprung up over there. That was Caruthersville's ticket to better days. Our mayor and her friends on the council hushed up the whole thing and no one in this town ever got wind of it until now. I was there then too. I watched it all.
They do not intend to see our city thrive and grow.
I have seen so many ugly things that I am just tired of all the bullsh#t.
You might ask how could they keep Lowes out. Lowes wanted the land at the Industrial Park which the city owns. She is in charge and she wouldn't lease them the land. Plain and simple. She didn't even let the council decide on the issue, because she was afraid it would get out.
You wouldn't believe the corruptness of this town
onetwothree

United States

#20 Feb 10, 2009
tiffany and jessica craig wrote:
bitch we know who you and your mama are your ass is ours NOW WHAT/BRING IT
sounds like to me that the truth hurts

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