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Louisville, KY

#1 Jun 13, 2010
Okay I am single mom I get my child support and let my child see his father. But I know a few girls that bitch about it but then they dont give the fathers a reason to pay for one they dont let them see their kids COME ON! You want your money right let them get what they are suppose to be paying for and they might make and effort to pay for it dumbasses. I am just saying I am tired of hearing the bitching I mean you want them to give you money give them their fucking rights for real. If you dont want to quit your fucking bitching.
my2cents

United States

#2 Jun 13, 2010
Amen sister!!!!!! I totally agree.
fanci

Louisville, KY

#3 Jun 13, 2010
Child support and visitation rights are 2 entirely different things and you have to pay child support regardless if you see your kid or not.If visitation is in the support agreement then get it enforced if the party is not complying
holla

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Jun 14, 2010
Wish I could get child support, been in Carrolltons system for about 4 years and they still can't get me a court date? WTF?
fanci

Louisville, KY

#5 Jun 14, 2010
Quit messin with Monk's office and get an attorney
a paying dad

Louisville, KY

#6 Jun 14, 2010
fanci wrote:
Child support and visitation rights are 2 entirely different things and you have to pay child support regardless if you see your kid or not.If visitation is in the support agreement then get it enforced if the party is not complying
well if the county can have me in court for not paying, then they should take the moms whom arent allowing visits to court also. let the state represent the childs intrested, its just not fair
daddy

Mayfield, KY

#7 Jun 14, 2010
man i cant get my ex to keep up with with paying me the child support she owes me and all the state will do is send her a letter. if that were a guy oweing over 2000 the guy would be in lock up
just pass thru

United States

#8 Jun 14, 2010
hell they got me for being 10.00 over and i walked in with 800 that day and they wanted it all ,and my x wifes new husband was cashing the child support checks in a local bar and the judge told me it wasnt any of my business where or who cashed them as long as they got there ,now thats bs ,i got a felony for that and i know guys woho are thousands of dollars behind and they just wont do a damn thing ,to them guess craford didnt like me or either did the judge at the time and then to get to see the kids i had to let my x ans ur hubby sit acroos the table from me now thats bs ,and just to get the kids xmas presents we had to let the family take the kids presents until they found out and we got up xmas morning and found them in our driveway ,
Hard working white man

Phoenix, AZ

#9 Jun 15, 2010
It's all about lazy-assed women continuing to have kids they cannot afford.....they refuse to work BUT keep popping out babies after lying about being on birth control.....STAY AWAY from these women, some day they will actually have to get a JOB to support the decisions THEY made!!!! The "fathers" always get the shaft and the state does not care, the state is fine with the mother's using child support for booze and smokes
another mom

United States

#10 Jun 15, 2010
Just want to say that I've been divorced for almost 10 years and have a son with someone who can certainly pay but chooses to always run 6-8 weeks behind. I am grateful when I do finally receive it but it does make things tough. Monk's office is a joke. Those ladies that work there could care less about helping people they aren't "connected" with. That just isn't right. They should investigate that office and fire everyone in there. There are plenty of people that would appreciate the work and do the job fairly!!!
a paying dad

Louisville, KY

#11 Jun 15, 2010
another mom wrote:
Just want to say that I've been divorced for almost 10 years and have a son with someone who can certainly pay but chooses to always run 6-8 weeks behind. I am grateful when I do finally receive it but it does make things tough. Monk's office is a joke. Those ladies that work there could care less about helping people they aren't "connected" with. That just isn't right. They should investigate that office and fire everyone in there. There are plenty of people that would appreciate the work and do the job fairly!!!
do you let him see the boy
known her forever

United States

#12 Jun 15, 2010
of course...that's what is best for my son..to have his dad and his mom..as much anger as i have for his father..i would never make him suffer for my anger..never

Sophies Ganny

Since: Mar 10

Kentucky

#13 Jun 15, 2010
My husbands ex owes him 13,000 in back child support. The court system notified him last year she wanted her case dismissed and he would have to agree. He said nope. She has never payed it and is never gonna pay it and she is not gonna get out of it. When the goverment sent out the ssi rebates last year he got hers and she liked to had a stroke.
My ex husband has to pay me 50 dollers a month on back support and our kids are 24 and 25 years old so you never get out of it. My husbands are 23, 23 and 20. The court never would make her pay and yet they continue to hound my ex over his, now whats up with that?
paige c and p

United States

#14 Jun 15, 2010
another mom wrote:
Just want to say that I've been divorced for almost 10 years and have a son with someone who can certainly pay but chooses to always run 6-8 weeks behind. I am grateful when I do finally receive it but it does make things tough. Monk's office is a joke. Those ladies that work there could care less about helping people they aren't "connected" with. That just isn't right. They should investigate that office and fire everyone in there. There are plenty of people that would appreciate the work and do the job fairly!!!
People dont how hard their jobs are! Im sure that you couldn't do that job. How many people do you think have caeses throught the carroll county, and there are only 2 women in that office. They are the sweetest, They put up with alot of people talking to them like shit and they sit there and take it. Let me guess are you one of those that go crazy if your money is a day late, or are you one that lives off just child support! Back off! Show some respect they are the ones that have listen when people call crying!
another mom

United States

#15 Jun 15, 2010
Obviously, you are not a parent that depends on someone to help you..especially that office. I can tell you of several people that have had numerous complaints and have been unable to have help..BOTH MOTHERS AND FATHERS..SO BACK OFF???..NOT A CHANCE!! i AGREE THEY MAY BE "SWEET", THEY DO HOWEVER SUCK AT THEIR JOBS!! NOT A DOUBT!!!
carroll mom

Waterford, WI

#16 Jun 15, 2010
No one is supposed to depend on their child support. The ladies in Monk's office can only do what the law allows and is approved by the state. They don't pick and choose who gets put in jail or who pays. The state does. The state of Kentucky and many others also take back child support out of the responsible party's tax refund checks (if one was to be given). The system is not perfect, and never will be. There will always be parents out there that don't pay, parents that don't let the other party have required visits, etc.
MEMEME

Louisville, KY

#17 Jun 15, 2010
I know a few people who go down there and complain and they get right on it. Then they get their money finally and still wont let their child see their father. I mean why complain if you arent going to let them see the kid anyways you are just going to keep them away from them. Makes no sense to me. I dont get child support right now for a certain reason but I let him see his son still it makes no difference to me. I do live off of it though but I dont go out drinking on it or get cigs since I dont smoke. But I pay my bills so my son and me have a home. I dont waste my money and do things that are pointless and that dont matter I see girls get child support and get their hair done nails done whatever they can its bs really. Thats your childs money not yours dont pamper yourself pamper your child they are the reason you are getting that child support.
not getting support

Edgerton, WI

#18 Jun 16, 2010
I am a single mother and i have been onew for over the past 2 years. In the past two years i have rec'd a little over 3 grand and he is 13 grand behind. I give him every opportunity in the world to see his kids but he lies to them all the time and never keeps his visitations. depending on what girl he is with for his visit, everything else is way more important than the 3 kids. So he is not neglected of his visitation at all. Every circumstance is different. It is always not the custodial parent that is the issue. I have tried on several occassions to press the child support issue and I never have any luck in Carrollton UNLESS i call frankfort and get them on the Carrollton office. I was told at my last appointment there that they were understaffed...well guess what? I am under funded and looking for a job. I have supported my three kids (all by the same father, which is my ex help. When I do get supportit is spent on them and my bills. Someone previously said that the support is not used for bills...u are wrong here. It cost money to have lights, water and a roof over their head, and if i can pay the bills to support my kids...so can his deadbeat ass! Every situation is different and should be looked at from a different standpoint!
paige

United States

#19 Jun 16, 2010
I understand paying bills with child support I have been there before, Im say that these women go out and party and spend money on stupied stuff with their child support money. The ladys at the child support office can only do so much. When someone comes in and complains they cant go and arresrt it is up to the court! I would like to see you all do their jod! They put up with alot of bull sh*t! I know that people need and deserve their child support.
not getting support

Mchenry, IL

#20 Jun 18, 2010
I agree with you paige, except for the simple fact that they are the ones who needs to submit the information to get it into the court system. I made phone calls for 4 a month with no return calls si made an appointment just to be told how backed up and short staffed they are. I understand the issues that they have there, but also i am a single mother of three who has rec'd just a little over 3000 in 2.5 years. He is 1200 grand or so behind and regardless he is not going to pay unless they make him pay. i have sat in the courtroom and watched as many parents have went to jail for being less than 3000 behind. there is just no reason for them to have let my case go this far. If a mother can sit back and give her kids everything they want and need on her own, the father should face some consiquences. I am unable to afford an attorney to et things pushed so they are my only help that i an possibly get. I have had it with the carrollton office...I am resorting to calling Frankfort. And if all the other parents who are having this issue contacts Frankfort maybe we can get them to help us. Time after time I am told that they areworking on my case, but i never see results. how hard is it to submit the file to the county attys office when i am sitting there in their office and what happens to my file...? I can tell ya, it gets thrown back in the cabinet and nothing is done...just like it has been for the past 2.5 years. If they cant be anymore organized than that then they need smeone in there who can help organize them a little better.

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