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concerned mom

Chicago, IL

#1 Feb 14, 2012
My daughter who is away at college just sent me an e mail saying she is a lesbian. I told her she my little girl and I love her no matter what. Has any other mom had this happen and do you think this could be a phase? She is 19 I don't think she really knows who she is yet for this kind of move yet. She told me she never had sex with a man just this girl she's with.

“Alis Grave Nil”

Since: Jul 11

Maryland Heights, MO

#2 Feb 14, 2012
Either way, I'm proud of you for supporting her. It means a lot to her, I'm sure.
Guest

Jackson, MO

#3 Feb 14, 2012
At least you don't have to worry about her showing up at your house with Tyron now
guest

Potosi, MO

#4 Feb 14, 2012
maybe she is just a LUG

lots of people experiment in college. hopefully she's doing what she wants and nor being persuaded by the lesbian gf.
Fried Pepsi

Jackson, MO

#5 Feb 14, 2012
thrasher 9081 wrote:
Either way, I'm proud of you for supporting her. It means a lot to her, I'm sure.
I agree. Your response was probably pivotal.
dtak

United States

#6 Feb 14, 2012
thrasher 9081 wrote:
Either way, I'm proud of you for supporting her. It means a lot to her, I'm sure.
Well put.
Rufus

Saint Louis, MO

#7 Feb 14, 2012
Maybe it won't be Tyrone, just Tonisha Sequishia.
Elsie

O Fallon, MO

#9 Feb 14, 2012
concerned mom wrote:
My daughter who is away at college just sent me an e mail saying she is a lesbian. I told her she my little girl and I love her no matter what. Has any other mom had this happen and do you think this could be a phase? She is 19 I don't think she really knows who she is yet for this kind of move yet. She told me she never had sex with a man just this girl she's with.
I am a Mother and I would try to persuade her differently. I would not want that for my daughter, I love my daughter and that's why I would tell her this. Everyone has their opinion and that's mine.
Rufus

Saint Louis, MO

#10 Feb 14, 2012
Does this mean no grandkids? Too bad.
repeat after me

United States

#11 Feb 15, 2012
Elsie wrote:
<quoted text> I am a Mother and I would try to persuade her differently. I would not want that for my daughter, I love my daughter and that's why I would tell her this. Everyone has their opinion and that's mine.
I love my children and that's why I support them to be who they are and have concern for their happiness as a person.

“Alis Grave Nil”

Since: Jul 11

Saint Louis, MO

#12 Feb 15, 2012
repeat after me wrote:
<quoted text>I love my children and that's why I support them to be who they are and have concern for their happiness as a person.
That's wonderful.
Lovemyboy

Scott City, MO

#13 Feb 15, 2012
Please continue your support for her. My son is gay. These kind of people are wonderful souls. I knew he was going to be gay at a very early age. There was no physical signs, such as dressing up like girls or makeup etc. just the intuition that a mother has about their children. He was about 6 yrs old then, he is now 46 yrs old. All of my friends tell me they would have never guessed that he was gay by looking at him.

I would have never chosen this life for him, not because I dislike gays, but because of the ignorance of people in this world. It has not been easy for him all these years and it is still hard.
People are so quick to judge. I truly believe he was born gay and did not "CHOOSE" this life style.
Please pull your daughter close and support her.You will be surprised how much closer your relationship with her will become. I have always said, "What would these holier than thou Christians have me do? He is my child, I love him, I just can't throw him away. Please continue loving and supporting your daughter. She is going to need you.

Since: Feb 12

Location hidden

#14 Feb 15, 2012
Just let her be her. At least you know that there is a lower chance of pregnancy and domestic violence.
guest

Chicago, IL

#15 Feb 15, 2012
I would also try to change her mind.. I want grandkids and there were Adam and eve for a reason. For a man and woman to be together.
Fried Pepsi

Jackson, MO

#16 Feb 15, 2012
guest wrote:
I would also try to change her mind.. I want grandkids and there were Adam and eve for a reason. For a man and woman to be together.
No. The reason God made Adam and Eve was so they could procreate. An Adam and a Steve could not make babies, nor could a Brenda and an Eve. Adam and Eve made babies who all begat each other on and on and on so that today, Adam and Steve and Brenda and Eve can adopt the babies that some of the Adam and Eves have given up.
guest

Chicago, IL

#17 Feb 15, 2012
I think it should be illegal for Adam and Steve to adopt kids. Cuz they will just raise more gayness in the world

Since: Jun 10

United States

#18 Feb 15, 2012
guest wrote:
I would also try to change her mind.. I want grandkids and there were Adam and eve for a reason. For a man and woman to be together.
Do you really believe that you can change someones mind about who they are attracted to? Could the most persuasive words in the world change your mind about being heterosexual? The fact that you would encourage your child to not only be unhappy, but to bring children into a doomed facade of a relationship just because you want grandchildren is the most selfish thing I've ever heard. We live in an over populated world, and the socially responsible thing for everyone would be to adopt instead of have their own children. Because most people (including myself) are not willing to sacrifice the feeling of bringing their own child into this world, gay couples are helping society by adopting unwanted children.

Since: Feb 12

Chicago, IL

#19 Feb 15, 2012
guest wrote:
I think it should be illegal for Adam and Steve to adopt kids. Cuz they will just raise more gayness in the world
So BLIND!!! Being gay is not a choice and for you to sit and say "raise gayness" your a troll......just saying!!

Since: Jun 10

United States

#20 Feb 15, 2012
guest wrote:
I think it should be illegal for Adam and Steve to adopt kids. Cuz they will just raise more gayness in the world
Yes, and crackhead Susie and her boyfriend Jimmy the woman beater have every right to give birth their nine little tax right offs. Do you have any idea how many children are being abused and neglected right now that would love to have two parents who loved them?

Since: Feb 12

Chicago, IL

#21 Feb 15, 2012
meme26 wrote:
<quoted text>Yes, and crackhead Susie and her boyfriend Jimmy the woman beater have every right to give birth their nine little tax right offs. Do you have any idea how many children are being abused and neglected right now that would love to have two parents who loved them?
AMEN!!! I'm a flight medic and first responder for the fire dept, my partner of 8 years who owns his own business would love a child!!! We would not raise him or her "to be gay". We would raise them just as good if not better then any "straight" couple alive and if that child did happen to be BORN gay........we would support, love, and guide that child to live just how GOD intended him or her to live! If being gay is a sin, then let God tell me and judge me but it is not your place or anyone else's.

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