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Lake Saint Louis, MO

#1 Feb 28, 2010
This post is not meant to start crap or offend anyone. My husband and I were having a discussion the other day and are simply curious about something. I'm sure I'm going to get slammed and get a lot of rude responses, but if I could just get one sincere, honest answer, I would greatly appreciate it. Ok...I have seen numerous couples like this which is why I'm asking....If a man is attracted to other men, why be with one that dresses, acts like, talks like a woman...(drag queen, transvestite, etc.) Why not just be with a woman? Same goes for women. If you are attracted to women, why be with one that is very butch that looks like a guy? Why not just be with a guy? Any serious answers would be appreciated.
paerson

Jackson, MO

#2 Mar 1, 2010
I I am gay and I like masculine guys with muscles and a hot body! Not into girly men or I would do a woman!
Sex Haver

Florissant, MO

#3 Mar 1, 2010
Good question. I believe the answer is this. Women cannot put a penis in your mouth.
Les

Indianapolis, IN

#4 Mar 1, 2010
I am a lesbian, and I often wonder that same thing myself. I, personally, like girly girls as I am one myself.
sparticus

Cape Girardeau, MO

#5 Mar 2, 2010
yeah, and when you talk to a lesbian that looks like they would rather be a guy "aka female Larry the Cable guy" and treat them like a guy they get offended.. i would think that would be a compliment... what the hell ladies...
mrs les

Cape Girardeau, MO

#6 Mar 2, 2010
I am a lesbian, a very girly lesbian at that. My girlfriend is girly also. Women are very beautiful creatures, so why pretend to be something you're not?
hmm

Cape Girardeau, MO

#7 Mar 2, 2010
Maybe they have an imbalance of testosterone/estrogen. Or maybe it's mental. I don't care...whatever they want to do is their business, but I would love to understand them better :)
Cousin Ed

Scott City, MO

#8 Mar 2, 2010
Holy freaking moly! You mean there are some of those bruces around these here parts??? Say it ain't so!

“giggity.”

Since: Feb 10

Saint Louis, MO

#9 Mar 2, 2010
i'm bisexual, in a relationship with a woman, but dated men for a few years before my current relationship. i didn't date feminine men, mainly because they got on my nerves. as far as the drag culture is concerned, it's more of a hobby than anything else. it's a celebration of queer culture.
Cousin Ed

Scott City, MO

#10 Mar 2, 2010
Dang Marty. You sounds confused. Pick a side of the fence there feller.

“giggity.”

Since: Feb 10

Saint Louis, MO

#11 Mar 2, 2010
not confused, just comfortable with myself. thanks for the concern though.
lunar child2525

Cape Girardeau, MO

#12 Mar 5, 2010
most most gay men who go for the femimne men that dress and act like when is just your typical domainat submissive relationship.and you get most things of a woman like the emotional stabilty or all things of a man like a the lower anatomy.
Neptune

United States

#13 Mar 6, 2010
I've always wondered the same thing. I'm gay and I'm attracted to manly men who act like men. I've been gay my entire life and I still have yet to come to terms with the whole drag queen culture in the LGBT community. Personally, I don't see what is so entertaining (or attractive) about men dressing up as women lip syncing to a bunch of flamboyant music to get dollar bills handed to them so they can buy their Taco Bell food for that night. I've been attracted to some really cute guys who, after they told me they did drag, totally turned me off. If I wanted to date a woman, I would and I don't want to. I don't know - for some reason, a guy who puts more rouge on his face than Miss Piggy and puts on a Dolly Parton wig along with an evening gown like he's entering the Miss USA Pageant with his you-know-what duct-taped up along his you-know-what just doesn't do anything for me. I'm all for freedom of expression and identity, but it's just not something I'm into. Make-up, long hair and dresses and high heels, on a man or a woman, just doesn't get my blood a racin'.

And yeah I agree with Cousin Ed. Bisexuals are just bottoms in denial if you ask me. Every bisexual guy whom I've ever been with has always said that he likes guys better than girls. To each their own, right?
Knowledge

Jackson, MO

#14 Mar 6, 2010
All of you all use computers don't you? Hasn't your computer at one time or the other decided it just couldn't or wouldn't run a certain program? It may run hundreds of other programs just fine, but one or two programs cause it to lock up, or blue screen on you.

The psychology behind homosexuals is pretty much the same thing. The Human mind is still thousands of times more complicated than any computer. Even as you read this post, your brain computer is regulating hundreds of things going on inside your body without your knowing it. It is keeping your heart rate steady, making sure your body temperature, doesn't vary more than a few tenths of a degree one way, or the other.All of the things happen subconsciously. Sometimes one part of the brain goes haywire, even while the rest of it still functions just fine. When that happens you have homosexuals, serial killers, pedophiles, White Supremacists, White Super criminals, and other deviants from normal behavior. In the case of homosexuals, I think the part of the brain that controls impulse stops working, or it is weaker than it is in normal people.

All of us think about doing things we know are wrong. When I'm broke, I THINK about how nice it would be to rob a bank and bring in a few hundred thousand dollars. I might think about selling a lot of drugs.I might think about sleeping with a 100 year old woman, or a sixteen year old young adult. ALL of us think about things that are illegal and immoral. The difference is that we have the self control to shrug off those thoughts and stay on a legal, relatively moral path.

And of course, the most accurate, and factual answer has been overlooked as usual.

Homosexuals may be good workers, nice people, good to their friends and families,fine members in the community, but from my observations over the millennia, they don't seem to have the impulse control they should. Lots of people lack that and they do other unethical, immoral and crazy things besides being queer.
If you can't regulate your behavior YOURSELF, I feel that you should see the appropriate psychologist until you get your mind free of the viruses, rootkits, and worms that make you do these negative, anti-life, immoral unethical things which in many cases put you behind bars, or in the cemetery.

A smooth running society simply cannot allow every behavior that people want to do. After the homosexuals get their SPECIAL rights, I guarantee you the pedophiles will start demanding their right to have access to children, I have already seen a guy on NBC tell Faith Daniels a decade ago that he believed the five year old children were mature enough to have sex with adults. That sound weird to us, but to many homosexuals it may not, and they may want to legalize that. Then you will have people who want to marry their dogs, cats, Skunks etc. Once the pedophiles are in high offices, they will quickly say "sure come on in the waters fine. Why not legalize that?" Do what you wanna do. As long as you don' bother me, I don't care. That is a sure recipe for the destruction of a society. Legalizing behaviors that have been punishable by death in MOST societies around the world. Homosexuals need massive mental counseling. They also need to take that filthy lifestyle and put it back in the closet where it belongs.If they don't I suspect the majority of Americans will begin turning against them, and sangue will be correndo nella strade!

No links, no Youtube. Just my opinion from studying this behavior a long long time, having to constantly control my own behavior to stay on the right path, and watching all the rich, educated, and decent people get into serious trouble when they can't control themselves
Reb

Pontiac, IL

#15 Mar 6, 2010
Sounds like you been thinking about becoming gay. Seems strange you have this long rant and rave about self control but your setting in jail?
Knowledge

Jackson, MO

#16 Mar 6, 2010
Yes, I have decided to become a homosexual. I have lost four violent fights in prison with men who wanted to have their way. So I may as well give in.

I will not however be a champion for homosexual rights as it is unnatural and a sick behavior for people outside of prison who have access to opposite sex people. It is filthy and should be kept in the dark, if tolerated at all.
Reb

Woodland, AL

#17 Mar 6, 2010
So you against homosexuality if there are women available, but if it just guys it's ok? Common admit it you did love it.
Knowledge

Jackson, MO

#18 Mar 6, 2010
No if people are inside a prison, then it is OK. We have to have some outlet for our sexual tension.

So the strongest preys on the weaker prisoners. I don't have my 9mm here, or my Mossbergs that I would quickly use on the outside. I'm not the best fighter in the world. So I have become a sissy. when I get out those persons will quickly assume room temperature because of an offer I will make them that they won't be able to refuse.
Reb

Woodland, AL

#19 Mar 6, 2010
Your a felon you can't own a gun. If you do "make them an offer they can't refuse" then its back to the pokey to your lifestyle of being a sissy.
Knowledge

Jackson, MO

#20 Mar 6, 2010
Lots of smart felons have guns. You just have to know where to get them when you are ready to do some score settling.

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