Does my husband love me

[Wondering]

I don't think my Husband loves me. Very distant and won't talk about it.

[food]

He doesn't.

[splc]

Wondering wrote:

I don't think my Husband loves me. Very distant and won't talk about it.

he is thinking about how to tell you that it is over. or he is gay!!!!

[shoot dang fire]

Its bc ur crazy (nope)

Ur a broken record and he has shut down (nope)

maybe he doesn't want to "talk"

maybe he just wants peace n quiet and he probably most of all needs a big long hug and a nice cuddle....

joking, its his personality....... u just love each other in different ways :)

[The equalizer]

Ill do you

[guest]

Go back to being the woman he fell in love with in the first place. Give him his personal space and suck him off as much as possible. It also helps to swallow. Show him that he loves you and make him want more of you.

[Companion 101]

Believe it or not the last "Guest" to post has somewhat of a point.
Here's question, has anything happened recently to cause any type of drama in your life? Are there any trust issues? How long have you been married? Children? Do you show him attention and let him know he is desired?
I realize that marriage is a two way street and he needs do the same, yet ye isn't posting here, so I'm just curious.
One thing to consider if you think he may be having an affair or thinking about it. In most cases the cheating spouse will be doing things such as showing extra attention to his or her spouse in order to distract that there is something going on. That is unless they want to yet caught. Of course the first questions asked will play a part in what they are thinking and doing.

[KashmirX]

Get off the computer and make him a sandwich.
Sitting around waiting for someone to give you an easy answer is why he has no interest in you.

[Knowledge]

If my wife cared enough to even go as far as posting something on topix I would be very surprised.
I've tried for almost two years busting my azz to make her happy but now I'm done. Not because I desire it less but because she has turned me into her. A cold and heartless person who distances themselves from the one that (supposedly) loves them.
Then again, I'm not the one that had an affair, she is. So screw what she wants. One day out children will learn of her betrayal and i wonder what she will tell them? Probably the smart thing she tells others....never taking the blame herself. At least a year of lies, manipulation, calculations and using family members to gain her objective can not be brushed under the rug as an "accident"...ooops my pants fell and his penis slid in, I'm so sorry.
Nope, some women don't deserve to breath the same oxygen as faithful hard working loving and loyal people such as myself. But that's not an option because unlike her I would never betray my children.
Hopefully you've never done this to your husband and children. And if he is doing it to you ...he doesn't deseve your love. Period. Here is the order of the llowest scum of the earth.
1. Child molesters
2. Rapists
3. Murders
4. Necrophilia
5. Adultery

[Bring it]

Bring another woman to the bedroom.

[splc]

Knowledge wrote:

If my wife cared enough to even go as far as posting something on topix I would be very surprised.
I've tried for almost two years busting my azz to make her happy but now I'm done. Not because I desire it less but because she has turned me into her. A cold and heartless person who distances themselves from the one that (supposedly) loves them.
Then again, I'm not the one that had an affair, she is. So screw what she wants. One day out children will learn of her betrayal and i wonder what she will tell them? Probably the smart thing she tells others....never taking the blame herself. At least a year of lies, manipulation, calculations and using family members to gain her objective can not be brushed under the rug as an "accident"...ooops my pants fell and his penis slid in, I'm so sorry.
Nope, some women don't deserve to breath the same oxygen as faithful hard working loving and loyal people such as myself. But that's not an option because unlike her I would never betray my children.
Hopefully you've never done this to your husband and children. And if he is doing it to you ...he doesn't deseve your love. Period. Here is the order of the llowest scum of the earth.
1. Child molesters
2. Rapists
3. Murders
4. Necrophilia
5. Adultery

i hope you understand you are living in a broken home. thinking you, and your wife are hiding it from your children,wrong. they know. it's better to come from a broken home than to live in one. you most likey not have a fight for your children to live with you. i am sure they know about the affair. so move on, and be happy. don't waste your life. good luck.

[Chancellor]

guest wrote:

Go back to being the woman he fell in love with in the first place. Give him his personal space and suck him off as much as possible. It also helps to swallow. Show him that he loves you and make him want more of you.

. Lol. It's funny, but true.

[guest]

If u have to come on Topix and ask if your husband loves then no he doesn't get off the computer and try and make your marriage work

[guest]

You really need to come on Topix and ask if your husband loves you ?? WTF

[guest 2]

Are you sure he don't love you or are you just saying that to justify what your doing to him and make it seem ok by turning it into his fault yet again.

[jkh]

Knowledge wrote:

If my wife cared enough to even go as far as posting something on topix I would be very surprised.
I've tried for almost two years busting my azz to make her happy but now I'm done. Not because I desire it less but because she has turned me into her. A cold and heartless person who distances themselves from the one that (supposedly) loves them.
Then again, I'm not the one that had an affair, she is. So screw what she wants. One day out children will learn of her betrayal and i wonder what she will tell them? Probably the smart thing she tells others....never taking the blame herself. At least a year of lies, manipulation, calculations and using family members to gain her objective can not be brushed under the rug as an "accident"...ooops my pants fell and his penis slid in, I'm so sorry.
Nope, some women don't deserve to breath the same oxygen as faithful hard working loving and loyal people such as myself. But that's not an option because unlike her I would never betray my children.
Hopefully you've never done this to your husband and children. And if he is doing it to you ...he doesn't deseve your love. Period. Here is the order of the llowest scum of the earth.
1. Child molesters
2. Rapists
3. Murders
4. Necrophilia
5. Adultery

Wow!! I never thought I'd see the day that I would agree with an entire post of yours, yet here it is!!
Kudos to you my friend!!
I really couldn't have said it any better!! I would only add child abusers to your list.

[Knowledge]

jkh wrote:

<quoted text>
Wow!! I never thought I'd see the day that I would agree with an entire post of yours, yet here it is!!
Kudos to you my friend!!
I really couldn't have said it any better!! I would only add child abusers to your list.

Thanks, but i doubt I'm the Knowledge you know.
Yes, anything to do with hurting innocent children is a crime :(

[guesty]

Wondering wrote:

I don't think my Husband loves me. Very distant and won't talk about it.

Does he love you? I don't know but you're already getting on my nerves so I'd guess not.

[Vincent Laurel]

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[guest]

Vincent Laurel wrote:

Dr. Sambo
The king spell caster that provide
the
ultimate fast
results salutes you all in the name of his fathers, It can be hard to find the exact spell
caster you
need when you don’t know what to look
for in a
professional spell caster. The best spell
casters are not
easy
to pick out! Many hearts are broken every
day and
many
people suffer in vain. I pray that you will not be one of them.
Let me help
you
with your case. My powerful spells can STOP
A DIVORCE
and
much more! and I am considered one of the
most
powerful spell casters with white magic.
I
have a big range of powerful spells to use
for your
needs.
What outcome do you want? You might
wonder how the
spells will affect you? Will the spell be
helpful? YES! The
spells I cast for you will not have any
unwanted side
effects
such as bad Karma. As long as the intentions
are pure
out of
love as I am sure they are, right? Magic is
actually an
energy from mother earth that can be
controlled. You
yourself might even be able to do it after
years of
practice.
I give 100% in every spell casting and as a
professional
I
make sure all goes right. I give 100% to
make you are
satisfied with my service.
specializing in the fields of Love, Money,
Power,
Success,
Sickness, Pregnancy, Marriage, Job,
Protection, Lottery,
Court Case, Luck. etc.
provide the information below
INFORMATION NEEDED:
Your Full Name:_________
Your Partner name:_________
Your Contact number:_________
Your country/Location:_________
Your Partner’s address__________
The picture of both of you:_________
Your complete address:_________
fill this information
immediately
and send it to the emaik below. You will have to stay tune for more feed
back from
my
temple. You can as well call me today any
time of your
choice
and i will give you all the attention. Contact me via this email: [e-mail] or call this line:[phone]
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