y dont u want me n only me
msjsj

Kansas City, MO

#21 Aug 29, 2012
Girlie wrote:
<quoted text>
What is FWB?
Friend with benifets
Girlie

Saint Louis, MO

#22 Aug 29, 2012
Oh I see. Yeah I might consider that, but someone's feelings usually get more involved than the other person & I'm not into hurting someone or getting hurt myself.
Seriously

United States

#23 Aug 29, 2012
chick wrote:
You say u want me and only me but yet u are with her everynight... u and I have been through a lot togather and am willin to do whatever to be with you......I wish u wanted the same
Why humiliate yourself to this level.
Under the circumstances, what do you have to offer him/her or anyone else?
Put your big girl panties on!
married

Jackson, MO

#24 Aug 29, 2012
hmmm wrote:
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Well I stroke his ego I don't fake it in the bedroom. I give him everything he wants and needs inside the bedroom and out. He flirts by saying oh you're so pretty your boyfriend/hubby is a lucky man blah blah blah. None of the I want u need you crap. I have been away for a week and no cheating occurred. My original comment of chick being a contingency plan is the truth. Hell I myself have a contingency plan should our relationship end! He knows I have one I know he has one! We trust each other. Bottom line.
Let me see if i understand this .. u have someone else and so does he? Do yall work together or what? Does his other half know?
hmmm

United States

#25 Aug 29, 2012
No we don't have someone else in the way that you're thinking. We are completely totally faithful to each other. We just know that should our relationship end there is someone we can both turn to for companionship.
Really

United States

#27 Aug 29, 2012
hmmm wrote:
No we don't have someone else in the way that you're thinking. We are completely totally faithful to each other. We just know that should our relationship end there is someone we can both turn to for companionship.
Strange.
Cant be

Saint Louis, MO

#28 Aug 29, 2012
hmmm wrote:
No we don't have someone else in the way that you're thinking. We are completely totally faithful to each other. We just know that should our relationship end there is someone we can both turn to for companionship.
If your relationship ended u would need another companion so fast? You guys sound like your 18 or something.
hmmm

United States

#29 Aug 29, 2012
No we aren't and it's more of a comfort type thing that obviously is misunderstood. It's kind of like that one person you can go to who is always there for you no judgment no questions just there no matter what
hmmm

United States

#30 Aug 29, 2012
And not necessarily meaning in a sexual way either
Doomdoom

United States

#31 Aug 29, 2012
Yea... This relationship is getting weirder by the minute. My wife would be hysterical if she caught me talking to a female behind her back just as I would be furious if she did the same with another man. I take it neither of you have a job if you are together all the time so I'm guessing there is something more to this, I'm guessing one of you is using the other for money and or you share a drug problem (which would explain why you are coming off as such a burn out)
hmmm

United States

#32 Aug 29, 2012
Doomdoom wrote:
Yea... This relationship is getting weirder by the minute. My wife would be hysterical if she caught me talking to a female behind her back just as I would be furious if she did the same with another man. I take it neither of you have a job if you are together all the time so I'm guessing there is something more to this, I'm guessing one of you is using the other for money and or you share a drug problem (which would explain why you are coming off as such a burn out)
Um yeah he doesn't talk to them behind my back he is aware of who I talk to and what I talk about just like I am of who he talks to and what they talk about. We are both employed don't drink or do drugs and we are committed to each other. We are both faithful to each other.
so so

United States

#33 Aug 29, 2012
hmmm wrote:
<quoted text>Um yeah he doesn't talk to them behind my back he is aware of who I talk to and what I talk about just like I am of who he talks to and what they talk about. We are both employed don't drink or do drugs and we are committed to each other. We are both faithful to each other.
So what is the problem your having?sounds like you both are content.I'm waiting on one good man.if you have a man I don't see any reason to have two.sounds like one of those you'll do for now kind of relationships.if you all were serious about your relationship I think you would keep it between you two.eventually it will go on to more people.sounds risky to me.it's your life.that's just what I think.I would want more out of a relationship.everyone is different.
screw that

United States

#34 Aug 30, 2012
Relationships are overrated! I say screw them drop them first! or stick with married ones , with nsa! No one gets hurt and no love just plain wild sex! Makes me very happy!
hmmm

United States

#35 Aug 30, 2012
so so wrote:
<quoted text>
So what is the problem your having?sounds like you both are content.I'm waiting on one good man.if you have a man I don't see any reason to have two.sounds like one of those you'll do for now kind of relationships.if you all were serious about your relationship I think you would keep it between you two.eventually it will go on to more people.sounds risky to me.it's your life.that's just what I think.I would want more out of a relationship.everyone is different.
I don't have two...... I just know that IF something should happen I have a person I can go to for comfort and support.
Again, my original post was to let chick know what her situation could possibly be
Girls day out

Saint Louis, MO

#36 Aug 30, 2012
Why did you title your post asking why doesn't he want only you?
impartial observer

Haslet, TX

#37 Aug 30, 2012
Girls day out wrote:
Why did you title your post asking why doesn't he want only you?
They are not the Op. They commented to the Op with an analogy and several subsequent self absorbed posts that hijacked the original purpose of the op's thread. Other people posting offered their advice to who they thought was the op.
For Sure

Arvada, CO

#39 Aug 31, 2012
Girlie, I'll offer a no-obligation trial of a fwb arrangement.
Meritaj

Saint Louis, MO

#40 Aug 31, 2012
impartial observer wrote:
<quoted text>
They are not the Op. They commented to the Op with an analogy and several subsequent self absorbed posts that hijacked the original purpose of the op's thread. Other people posting offered their advice to who they thought was the op.
You sound like a real bitch
Girlie

Saint Louis, MO

#41 Aug 31, 2012
Sorry not into meeting people on the Internet. I'm not into bars & clubs either so idk how successful I will be at meeting someone. Lol
Jumpin juniper batman

Florissant, MO

#42 Aug 31, 2012
I met a really cool guy at barnes and noble, been dating for almost a month now!

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