Is it a mortal sin to deny sex to you...

Is it a mortal sin to deny sex to your spouse?

Created by really on Dec 25, 2010

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really

Vine Grove, KY

#1 Dec 25, 2010
The bible in 1 Cor 7:3-4 states "If your husband wants sex, it is a sin to refuse him. If your wife wants sex, it is a sin to refuse her". What do you so called Christians think?
LOUISVILLIN

Elizabethtown, KY

#2 Dec 25, 2010
Not a mortal sin...just somthing to piss you off.
ImATrueChristian Baptist

Vine Grove, KY

#3 Dec 25, 2010
It is a mortal sin to refuse your husband sex if he asks you for it. It is wrong. You married this man with the understanding that you would provide what you could to him and your family. Just spread your legs and he'll do the work, what's the harm?
Christian Woman

Vine Grove, KY

#4 Dec 25, 2010
If you are a true Christian woman you must follow all of the bible not just what you pick and choose to believe in. It does state that if my husband wants to love on me, I should let him and vice versa. I have never refused my husband and he has never refused me. Everyday he looks at me with a good look in his eyes. I know he loves me and never resents me for denying me what I promised him many years ago. God is good, follow in the lord's eyes and you will never be alone. You must ask for forgiveness and seek him as your savior. Come join us at Living Grace Baptist Church today and re bask in the lord's jesus's birthday! We would love for you all to come to our service!
Anonymous

Cave City, KY

#5 Dec 26, 2010
babyb your man just left me and i drained him soo theres nothing left

he is gay

gay and proud
not wrong

Greensburg, KY

#6 Dec 26, 2010
ImATrueChristianBaptist wrote:
It is a mortal sin to refuse your husband sex if he asks you for it. It is wrong. You married this man with the understanding that you would provide what you could to him and your family. Just spread your legs and he'll do the work, what's the harm?
you are nuts!!!!!!

no one has to have sex with any one if they do not want to. no it is not wrong to say no. a wife or other female do not have to.

“Is truth stranger then fiction”

Since: Oct 07

Campbellsville

#7 Dec 26, 2010
Sex is not dirty, evil or perverted. Sex is something wonderful between married people.

Husband & wife having sex is very natural and very pure. Always show some type affection and love and bonding towards your spouse as needed.

Unless one has some type of medical or mental problem why they can't perform.
LOUISVILLIN

Elizabethtown, KY

#8 Dec 26, 2010
So if my wife says no, she might go to hell?!? hahaha cant wait to tell her.
LOUISVILLIN

Elizabethtown, KY

#9 Dec 26, 2010
Welp...Yep...Got me some...Thanks
littletowngirl

Doniphan, MO

#10 Dec 26, 2010
The real qiuestion here is the reason WHY you would want to deny him/or her . There are times when all of us are just to tired , to stressed , or not in the mood at all . I do not think God would send a man or woman to hell just because she or he did not want sex at the same time the other partner did . We all have needs , but sometimes we have the need at diffrent times . We need to consider here the fact that some God fearing people have a illness or health problem that will not allow them to have sex on a regular basis , and sometimes not at all . So take into consideration some people cannot have sex for medical reasons , so does this make it a mortal sin ? I don't think God looks at it like that . However if a woman or husband denies sex for long periods of time , then the question will rise about why the person is not having sex . What are the reasons behind it ?
Christian person

Santa Clara, CA

#11 Dec 26, 2010
If your spouse constantly day after day refuses to meet your sexual needs then they are sinning. Unless there is a legitimate medical reason they are doing so. Being tired or not in the mood is not a legitimate medical reason either.
littletowngirl

Doniphan, MO

#12 Dec 26, 2010
Christian Lady !

I never said it was a legitimate medical reason , I simply stated that some people just wante it at different times . We can not be perfect in every way God wants us to be ,or otherwise he would not have died on the cross for us. God just wants us to simply live our lives devote to him, and learn on to trust and walk with him . But we are his creation and he did not make us perfect , only he knows what is in our heart .
Christian Person .....you seem like your saying that if I was coming back from a trip 300 miles away riding on nothing but a camel, very little to eat , cold , and very sleepy . I should still have sex with my husband if he wants me too ?
First off I would not want a husband who was that sefish .I would really hope to have a husband who would understand I was to tired , or to stressed , and I would hope I would marry a person who knew me well enough to know when Not to ask . In the Bible it also states that sex is for reproduction of children within a valid marriage, and it is a loving, unifying act between husband and wife.
So who is anyone to say that just because the wife and husband are not having intercourse , they can partake in other forms of love with great rewards . It's a loving act . A simple kiss goodnight often make both partners happy !
ChurchGoer

Vine Grove, KY

#13 Dec 26, 2010
I believe in our lord and savior Jesus Christ. I will start off by saying that we mustn't pick and choose what we believe from the Bible. We either believe in the word of God or we do not. I personally choose to believe in his guidance, his truth and leadership. I give myself to my husband each and every time he asks. He does the same for me. He respects me and I respect him, just a good christian couple would do. You will be judged on judgment day as I will and I will not be frowned upon for not keeping my husband pleased as lot of wives will. May God have mercy on all of your souls.
today

Trinity, TX

#14 Dec 27, 2010
I think you both should come to an agreement, if my husband is to tired, I understand because I Love him and same goes for him, I think God wants the man and women to work it out , yes a women should be submisive, BUT and man should Love his wife as he Loves himself, so if he's tired, so be it, if Im tired, so be it, this is a stupid question anyway.
sickos

Clarkson, KY

#15 Dec 27, 2010
Wow! Your all a bunch of sickos! How in the heck would you even want to screw some one, that didnt
want to screw you? When my wife doesnt want to
fool around, I leave her the hell alone! And on any
occasion that I dont want to fool around... she leaves me alone! I love her, and there is no way in
hell that I would want to make her do something that she wouldnt want to do! I would feel like I raped
her, if I had sex with her and she didnt actually want it. I dont care what the bible says... if you
screw your spouse, when they dont want it, you are
a selfish pig!!!
no1uno

Crockett, TX

#16 Dec 27, 2010
U people need a job or something!!!! U really believe your so called god would know whether u cracked tonight or not????? I'm sure he probley has better things to take care of!!!!!!!!!!

“Is truth stranger then fiction”

Since: Oct 07

Campbellsville

#17 Dec 27, 2010
sickos wrote:
Wow! Your all a bunch of sickos! How in the heck would you even want to screw some one, that didnt
want to screw you? When my wife doesnt want to
fool around, I leave her the hell alone! And on any
occasion that I dont want to fool around... she leaves me alone! I love her, and there is no way in
hell that I would want to make her do something that she wouldnt want to do! I would feel like I raped
her, if I had sex with her and she didnt actually want it. I dont care what the bible says... if you
screw your spouse, when they dont want it, you are
a selfish pig!!!
You been drinking or just "Life time" television network addict?

No one talking about forcing anyone to do any thing. Nothing weird or strange about being sexual active or wanting to have sex with your spouse.

Unless medical reasons or mental problems, a normal healthy couple should desire each other love and affection. Love and respect goes hand in hand.

To with hold sex from one spouse is simply immoral and wrong. Doesn't mean rape, this means the couple should set up a time together in love.
no1uno

Crockett, TX

#18 Dec 27, 2010
Bradley, have u ever had sex????
Dr Ruth

Gallatin, TN

#19 Dec 27, 2010
LOUISVILLIN wrote:
So if my wife says no, she might go to hell?!? hahaha cant wait to tell her.
She said "NO".....and for "you go to hell".

And if you don't like it...she will take 1/2 your money and find soneone else. If you're broke, may not be a bad deal.

“Is truth stranger then fiction”

Since: Oct 07

Campbellsville

#20 Dec 27, 2010
no1uno wrote:
Bradley, have u ever had sex????
Who wants to know?

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